timmywimmy
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Post by timmywimmy on Jan 28, 2011 21:34:17 GMT -5
Alright so me and my frieds (3 guys 2+ me and 2 girls -.-) how do i game? Ive got a target i just have no idea how to game during a movie because obviously i cant be talking the whole movie so any ideas what works for you
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Post by Contempt on Jan 28, 2011 21:52:20 GMT -5
I find movies to be a dead zone for gaming honestly. Thats why i rarely go to them. The most you can do is poke/physically flirt with the girl because talking during a movie can get pretty annoying. That just me though.
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timmywimmy
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Post by timmywimmy on Jan 28, 2011 22:00:46 GMT -5
yeah i was thinking that to... Im only going cause its the first time im gonna meet the chick only been texting her
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Post by canadiankid on Jan 29, 2011 5:27:44 GMT -5
Yup contempt pretty much said it. I guess some kino and if there's a spot in the movie for a kiss then that might work
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Post by scripts on Jan 29, 2011 6:59:10 GMT -5
There are a few routines you can run before a movie starts and you can continue the routine after the movie starts. - Use the arm of the chair as a barrier. Say to her that it's yours and she can't have it (in a playful manner). She would theoretically try and take it from you. Then all you have to do is playfully get it back. - Before the movie starts, tell her not to run game on you (putting her arm around you, fishing in the popcorn just to hold hands). Basically just switch roles on her. She would think it's funny and all you need to do is kino her. If she calls you out on it, then just say "I never said I couldn't " I forgot where I read or watched this, they're not my ideas.
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Post by DanZy on Jan 29, 2011 8:25:25 GMT -5
I only go to movies with a girl if a kclose is pretty much 100% guaranteed. I think the movies is one of the worst places to game but if it comes down to it, simple role-reversal like scripts said. Ironically enough I'm off to movies tonight with some girls, one of whom I've got wrapped round my little finger:P
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Post by Validus on Jan 29, 2011 11:53:12 GMT -5
You could always go to the movie and just enjoy it.. let the kino / escalation etc benatural..
Only going to a movie if kclose is 100% guaranteed seems odd to me.. But then again, i'm biased because I don't like the idea of goal oriented gaming.
What you could ( I say could not should because it's different for everyone) do : Prior to movie, do most of your verbal game there. Kino as well, however if you can raise buying temp/ attraction and rapport before getting into the movie, BOOM makes life eaiser.
That way, your already there, sitting beside target ideally, close proximity = kino natural and easy.. She already is attracted to you..
just my 2 cents
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Post by DanZy on Jan 30, 2011 4:02:01 GMT -5
I think what I said came off wrong. What I meant was I never go to movies to game BUT I use them as perfect makeout situations
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Post by tails on Jan 30, 2011 10:36:50 GMT -5
I'll do movies for first dates. Some people don't like it, but I think the atmosphere of the movie theatre is just perfect for a first date, and it also gives you guys things to talk about. What's important is that you establish kino very early. Like the moment you sit down, or when the commercials are going on, just put your arm around her. Another way to establish early kino is just look at your hand and be like "hmm, lemme see your hand?" And when she raises it just hold hands with her, smile and say "That's better" and keep watching the commercials. You want to act like it's not big deal.
Once you're holding hands with the girl, you can show emotion throughout the movie. Squeezing her hand a bit tighter at intense moments or romantic moments to anchor that feeling. So once the kiss scene goes on, look at her, squeeze her hand and she'll know what to do.
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Post by Luis the awesomest of awesomes on Jan 30, 2011 15:38:32 GMT -5
yeah for a DATE it's good, Mutual attraction in that case is implied, and not talking works for your advantage. something I like to do is a technique i learned from the wing girls
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Post by Contempt on Jan 30, 2011 18:05:07 GMT -5
I personally think bringing a girl to a movie on the first date is basically the recipe for a mediocre relationship. Do something fun and crazy, like run around walmart, or climb onto rooftops.
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Post by tails on Jan 30, 2011 19:34:23 GMT -5
@ Contempt Ya I agree, but I like to set the frame of a "normal" relationship first. If you start jumping roofs on the first date, you could either crash and burn or make it totally succesful. Once the frame is established that this is a normal relationship, the more crazy stuff, not only has a much greater impact, but is also more guaranteed to succeed. Those fun and crazy dates usually only work if there's mutual attraction. And the movie date is usually there to at least make you feel like you have something in common.
Then again I havn't taken many girls on crazy first dates before. But at least that's my reasoning behind it haha.
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Post by Luis the awesomest of awesomes on Jan 30, 2011 20:04:25 GMT -5
you guys take girls to the movies for a relationship? I do it to make out with them I agree with contempt
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Post by slyman on Jan 31, 2011 19:39:25 GMT -5
Yeah the only time I'll go to the movies with a girl is if I'm in a relationship with her or we've already hooked up many times. Its a guaranteed kclose in those situations, but anytime else, it is a guaranteed failure. Think about it - if you try to kclose her and get rejected...well...your sitting there with her for the rest of the movie in awkwardness.
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Post by Contempt on Jan 31, 2011 21:00:24 GMT -5
^ exactly my point. In addition, you want to start out the relationship crazy and fun so she sticks with you and falls for you like crazy. The beginning of relationships pretty much sets the stage for the rest. Also, the more fun a girl has with you, the more she'll like you. Make it fun and about you two, not the movie lmao.
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