SamethP
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Post by SamethP on Dec 26, 2008 7:14:22 GMT -5
this is the worst ive felt since starting PUA... the other night i went through soo much shit... this is what happened... the night before xmas eve, my family went out to dinner down the road, my parents go completely wasted, came home and started yelling at each other, i took my sister to my nanna's so that she wouldnt hear it, and i hear my mum scream... i run up to my house and into my rents room and see my dad on top of her, just landing punches, my mum screams again and i ran up and pushed my dad off her.. he then comes at me... but stumbles and stops... me and my mum bail and he goes to bed... i spent the next 2 hours helping my mum and my sister cope with what happened... about three in the morning after mum and my sister have gone to bed, im still awake and im watching the telly to try and calm down... my dad comes out... and i counsel him for over an hour... finding out shit that i should never know... i have barely slept since that night... the next morning, my mum asks me not to tell anyone... and tonight my girl kept pestering me about what was wrong... i told her... and she told me how she is afraid of being pushed into stuff... i.e sexual stuff... even know i can still hear my mum scream and see it all happening... i dont know whats going on... my beliefs are fucked up atm and it feels like something bad is about to happen.... its messing up my personality and screwing up my game  what should i do dark days for robocop.... |
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Post by Chris on Dec 26, 2008 12:27:51 GMT -5
I know how you feel man.
Shit like this used to always happen
in my family all the time a few years
back. Nothing quite this bad but still,
not fun. Time usually fixes these kind
of things. Obviously I cant give good
advice here but in my experience,
just being patient and waiting them
out worked. This will make you a
better, calmer, more patient person
if you can learn from it.
Good luck man!
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Post by SenorBubbz on Dec 26, 2008 12:37:25 GMT -5
Brutal dude. My parents used to scream at each other all the time, but nothing like this ever happened. Like Chris said, "Time heals all wounds."
But I'm not so sure of that, in the movie 88 Minutes the main character says "Time does not heal all wounds, it just blunts the edge of it.. a little."
Whatever the case, as time goes on things will get better.
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Post by SamethP on Dec 26, 2008 15:46:46 GMT -5
thanx guys =]
im feeling a little bit better [its morning so ive just woken up]
but it usually gets to me at night o.O
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Post by Grape on Dec 26, 2008 20:05:51 GMT -5
Damn... Family issues man. Everyone has them..
Just give it time, at least you guys aren't divorced.
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Post by SenorBubbz on Dec 26, 2008 21:50:26 GMT -5
tbh, not that bad when they are
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Post by SamethP on Dec 26, 2008 22:39:35 GMT -5
truue...
yea its all good
ill probably re-post in here tonight aye...
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Post by Johnny Bravo on Dec 26, 2008 22:51:46 GMT -5
I don't how you feel robo. But I do know that in hard times I always look through my phone and try to find someone to just listen and get my mind off the things....Most the time I can never find someone, over the year, ive made many new friends, new girlfriends, sexual partners, but never once have Ive found a best friend.
I dont know if you have one, but if you don't...make that your plan in pickup, go sarging alot, don't go for sex, dont go for leveling your pua skill (seriously), but instead go to find that one girl that you can connect to....
I know the clsoest one I have to a bestfriend is this super super super fat lesbo friend.
The last person I'd ever think of talking to, but shes soooo fucking funny and supportive.
Find that person, its what pickup is about.
Hoped I help xD
Love always...but not in a gay way...well unless you want that, then maybe just for you
--Gay
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Post by SamethP on Dec 26, 2008 22:56:15 GMT -5
ill take the gay way  jks jks and yea i have a best friend ill probably talk to him about it tonight ayee... |
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Post by optimus on Dec 27, 2008 0:20:55 GMT -5
When shit gets crazy, I just talk to myself about myself. If I am totally certain about who I am and what I'm about, the craziness in the world takes a step back.
@your girl being afraid of being pushed into sex, this is a premature LMR. Of course you shouldn't force her into sex, but I'm sure you can deal with the LMR when you see it again.
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Post by Johnny Bravo on Dec 27, 2008 0:32:16 GMT -5
When i get LMR im sure to have rope and sleeping pills in my nightstand
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Post by SamethP on Dec 27, 2008 0:34:20 GMT -5
truue, thanx man
yea i pretty much went full push/pull with her today
wouldnt pay attention at times, would reject kisses and stuff
and then 5 mins later do the exact opposite
but when i wasnt giving her attention she kept coming up and like jumping on me and kissing me... one stage i was talking to her friends [lol] and she came up, stood with her back to me, grabbed my hands and placed them on her breasts xD
so i dunno whats going on aye haha
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Post by Zomga48 on Dec 27, 2008 0:55:25 GMT -5
at least you guys aren't divorced. Atleast both his parents are alive. All downers aside, you do get over it. I've been fatherless for 5 years and 1 day; he passed away at around 8pm on Christmas from skin cancer, but I've dealt with it and it doesn't bother me anymore. |
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Post by SamethP on Dec 27, 2008 1:28:45 GMT -5
sorry to hear that man fuck, its only 4:30 in the arvo and i feel like complete shit again |
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Post by ridiculous on Dec 27, 2008 2:19:30 GMT -5
Damn sorry to hear.
I've had parents yelling at each other before and it did throw me off my game and everything, but over time it all went back to normal for me and my parents/family -- just waiting it out helped.
Hope all comes to best for you.
Rid.
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