Grape
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Post by Grape on Feb 8, 2009 14:39:11 GMT -5
So the community makes it seem like getting girls is something that involves a whole lot of thought and effort.. Not really bro.
Here we are talking about "You MUST keep interest" You MUST not be boring." "You can't be like all the other guys"
and then they introduce the rAFCs to routines and canned lines. however, I feel that 90% of rAFCs don't even understand how these lines work, that they use them in the most random times, and that they think the words are magic.
then they go on about having to AMOG everyone, that you need to do this and do that..
There are sooooooo many things that they say you HAVE to do.
WOW! WE CAN'T FOCUS ON 25 DIFFERENT THINGS AT ONCE! That's what I've been screaming inside my head when I first started learning.
So.
Just realize this. There are approximately 5 billion people in this world. That's 5,000,000,000. A suburban city has about 25,000 people. So imagine 200,000 small cities. THERE ARE THAT MUCH PEOPLE IN THE WORLD. There are billions of people out there getting laid. Billions. Did they have to join this community to get laid? Nope.
The community is making picking up chicks harder than it is. Sex is natural. You need to understand this. Without sex being an instinctive desire, life would not survive.
So where the hell is it that I'm getting at? Girls just want to be loved. You don't need to memorize lines to love girls. You don't need to learn how to cold read, or do magic tricks, or any of that shizz.
You just need yourself, your passions, and your love.
<33 Grape
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Post by OHM on Feb 8, 2009 16:19:12 GMT -5
I was reading a world atlas today and it said there were approximately 6 billion people on the planet. Girls want sex just as much as men do if not more.
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Post by Alek on Feb 8, 2009 20:44:35 GMT -5
the community is there to bring out your best self.
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Chris
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Post by Chris on Mar 29, 2009 11:54:21 GMT -5
Had to move this thread up, it's good. I totally agree, some gurus use marketing tactics like "do you know the 10 most deadly mistakes guys make with women? if not you should check my e-book."
It really is easier than some people say, all of this stuff from the community is to INCREASE your chances, not give you chances in the first place.
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Post by OHM on Mar 29, 2009 14:18:53 GMT -5
And in the end, all of the material and all that jazz just gives you the confidence to succeed, and that's really all you need.
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Post by MarthXII on Mar 30, 2009 20:43:41 GMT -5
I understand what you are trying to Prove. But dont you think thats for the people who want a gf, and nothing more? Were just here to give the false illusion of love xD AND GET PUSSY!
Most rAFC's just want alot of Pussy. Thats why they memorize lol. They think theyre godlike but they do have at least some sense of logic lol. WITH GREAT POWER, COMES GREAT PUSSY!! =D Not everyone is a social retard, Some of us are people that dont talk much to girls. Period.
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Post by Grape on Apr 1, 2009 17:05:39 GMT -5
actually it also works great for something called a one night stand i believe.
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Post by kristallnachte on Apr 1, 2009 18:52:23 GMT -5
the thing is, this advice is good for people already learned in PU, but not so much for the AFC, since they've been 'loving' their one-itis and it hasn't worked
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Post by Sketch on Apr 5, 2009 2:13:35 GMT -5
the network is basically a confidence booster. think of this, if you guys hadn't joined the PUA, i doubt you wouldn't go up to as many girls as you do now.
and i do think it's stupid when people say this doesn't work and just be yourself. alot of people joined because they didnt like themself or wanted to better themself so therefore teling them to be themself is sending them back to square one.
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Post by Grape on Apr 5, 2009 8:58:56 GMT -5
idk about you guys, so please tell me if the situation was different.
even as an 'afc' i still managed to get some action every now and then. i was lacking a bunch of inner game and confidence, but i managed to suck it up and escalate the relationship. i was using the corniest shit ever like "you're the prettiest girl i've ever met." etc.
but i still got action.
now, if we were to work off of this, we MIGHT get some results. but no one knows yet, (feel free to disagree, i'm a little skeptical myself)
however, i really agree with you guys, Kristall and Sketch. PUA gives you soo much more knowledge, leading to so much more confidence in your actions.
like the original post mentions though, it's not about the routines. it's about the escalation and making sure you do what you need to do to maintain the escalation.
<33 +1 to both of you guys for bringing those up. very helpful for the discussion.
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Post by OHM on Apr 5, 2009 9:23:58 GMT -5
Well I think the reason you got action back when you were an AFC is because the younger you are, the more corny you can be. Or if the girl herself is looking for that cheesy romance from all of the movies it might work.
I blame it on free radicals lol.
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Post by Chris on Apr 5, 2009 13:55:12 GMT -5
^^ LOL Thats how i got girls in like second grade a lot. I gave them a present on some holiday and BAM! They loved me. lol.
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