How a girl sees attraction

[Johnny Bravo]

I was talking to Senor, and I wanted to post about this...but no clue how...


Heres our convo.

saint zadaa (7:27:30 PM): Do you know what its like to be attracted to a guy?
SenorBubbzz (7:27:44 PM): omg
SenorBubbzz (7:27:50 PM): i don't want to
saint zadaa (7:27:55 PM): No. not joking
saint zadaa (7:28:03 PM): Like seriously
saint zadaa (7:28:06 PM): Do you know what its like?
SenorBubbzz (7:28:16 PM): no
saint zadaa (7:28:31 PM): Its totally different from being attracted to a girl
saint zadaa (7:28:46 PM): Im bi, and so when i was attracted to a guy for the first time it blew my mind
saint zadaa (7:28:50 PM): It wasnt like a girl
saint zadaa (7:28:53 PM): it was like...
saint zadaa (7:29:05 PM): i felt this MASSIVE urge to just qualify myself, and get his attention you know?
saint zadaa (7:29:10 PM): like seriously
saint zadaa (7:29:17 PM): I would jump up and down and act like a fool
saint zadaa (7:29:23 PM): it was that bad of an urge
saint zadaa (7:29:30 PM): So like... idk why im telling you this
saint zadaa (7:29:35 PM): i just felt its an important concept to know
saint zadaa (7:29:37 PM): I guess?
SenorBubbzz (7:29:45 PM): nah i get it
SenorBubbzz (7:29:49 PM): that's deep bro
SenorBubbzz (7:29:54 PM): now you know how girls feel
saint zadaa (7:30:09 PM): Like, seriously, its totally different than you'd think
saint zadaa (7:30:13 PM): and ive asked girls about this
saint zadaa (7:30:15 PM): and they all say yes
saint zadaa (7:30:26 PM): You feel like this massive urge to just hold them and say LOOK AT ME
saint zadaa (7:30:32 PM): So... you understand why negs work
saint zadaa (7:30:35 PM): and playing hard to get
saint zadaa (7:30:39 PM): is the biggest key there is
saint zadaa (7:30:43 PM): i guess
saint zadaa (7:30:49 PM): I want to write about this on the forums
saint zadaa (7:30:53 PM): but... i dont know how to write about it
SenorBubbzz (7:31:20 PM): post this convo
SenorBubbzz (7:31:22 PM): and see if they understand

[SenorBubbz]

I totally got it now.
I think this just really showed me how important negs, push/pull and playing hard to get really is.
I'll definitely be improving that part of my game.

[Grape]

Duude, nicee thread.

Isn't this what we used to do to girls when we were AFCs?
Qualify ourselves, try to get their attention, etc.
It's just that it's harder for average guys to attract girls these days because girls attract through sexual value, guys attract through survival value.
Seriously, guys go for big tits and nice ass, it's nature.
And girls go for personality + maturity, etc. it's nature.
I think it's just that girls never have enough 'targets' to go after so they can't really improve their 'game'.
As PUAs, we either become one of women's very few targets, or we make them our many targets.
It's hard to actually back up what I'm trying to say.. but.. I feel many "hot" girls are AFCs in the field of attracting guys other than with their looks.

What do ya'll think?

[OHM]

Grape, you're totally right.

Girls are pure AFC when it comes to getting guys in regards to not having looks. At least the hot ones. The hotter the hb, the more AFC she is without her looks.

Girls on the lower end of the rating scale have to rely on their personalities, and actually charming the guy.
While the hot girls just bat their eyelashes. They never needed it, never practiced it, and therefore, never got even remotely good at it.

Unless of course she's a "natural". But those are pretty rare.

So is that what makes a perfect 10? A girl hot enough to attract guys with her looks, but intelligent enough to where she doesn't need them? I'd say so.

[Alek]

ya lmao. Did you ever pick up on how girls have conversations with guys? Like DUDE...its so weak. If we used their threads, they'd get bored in a heart beat (ironic eh?)

[Zomga48]

I know exactly what you mean!!!! That's what is great though, you can always tell when they like you because they can't keep a conversation going for shit! That is until you get to know them better.

[Grape]

Exactly. The hotter they are, the harder you have to work to open them up.
My ex-gf was an Hb7.5, but because of her personality she came off as an HB9.
she really knew her stuff with shit tests, push pull, etc.

[SamethP]

*jumps up and down, grabs grape* PAY ATTENTION TO ME!!!!!!



but on a lesser note, i agree, and now it all slides into place...

[Grape]

haha what robo?