destroyed...

[Keysersoze]

my inner game has completely vanished I mean it's got to me so bad I'm thinking giving up and just accepting that this is way too emotionally, physically and mentally soul destroyingly dificult to carry on this change...

My best friends are starting to resent me and every guy I meet is acting like an arsehole towards me, or they Idolise me like I'm a role model... I'm not, I'm tbh feeling like a fucking huge dissapointment of an arse with a fan base of people I just don't like.... I'm just getting sooo fucking lonely it's ridiculous and I feel like shit even when I can see theres a great friendly girl who's totally into me I just can't stop but think how every guy there hates me.... And I cant' say anything to anyone without one of my supposed friends making a snide comment behind my back... I mean it's fine for them there all fucking naturals they've never had the problem of having huge insecurities, I had to put in effort to even speak to the guy next to me let alone spending time with great girls....

I was beggining to feel awesome about myself; the meditation was calming me down the nlp was helping to destroy those deamons and people were really enjoying having me in there lives and suddenly people I thought were my friends have just turned on me it's painful I guess.... wtf am i to do though??? please guys, help me out..... Is it me??? am I a total arse???

(I know this is a huge ass rant and I am genuinely sorry but i mean there's like no one to talk to i just feel like I'm being ostrisized by the whole of fucking london...)

[Grape]

do you love people or do you act stuck up?

[Keysersoze]

I genuinely enjoy talking to people like all the time whoever it is
whether it's for like a couple of seconds whilst I'm waiting in lines or an hour or two about something really fun and interesting, I genuinely like talking to people..... I seem to really easily connect with people but AMOG's like my friends and the leader girls I know just act like arses towards me, like I should know my place.....

[nutrick]

oooh mann, i'm going through this exact same thing!! i feel your pain, i've lost all my close friends who i've known since 4th grade (i'm a junior now) people still do like me, and the way i've dealt with them is just moving on and searching for new ones. don't give up dude, just keep doing you're own thing and you'll be fine. i thought there was something wrong with me at first, but i've realized i'd rather stick to what i believe than try and become something i'm not. it's tough, it's been my 2nd week of being ignored by them, but i've also found that i've been more social towards other people now that those fags aren't the only kids i hang out with. don't give up man, college is around the corner, you'll meet so many more people who would love to be friends with a guy like you. we're in this together bruh, i got you just aim or msn me if you need anything.

Patrick

[Chris]

If you are being an "arse," than realize that and stop doing it.

However, chances are you probably aren't being an asshole.

Chances are you are evolving and ppl who were once close to
you resent you for it. Why? Because you are no longer
manipulated by them, you have evolved past them. This happens
to most ppl who change for the better, believe it or not, some ppl
will hate you if they can no longer get anything from you.

What's your goal here? is it to evolve as a person or is it to
please other people? The price of succeeding and evolving
is having some ppl not like you. Accept that.

Good luck man, now go be proactive and make your life even
better.

[Keysersoze]

hmmmm yea ur all right gotta accept change as an inevitablilty, but isn't it hard when it's the popular guys and the girl everyone follows that start to hate you? anyway thanks I decided I've come this far and if I'm starting to piss off the people I wanted to be like then I must be doing something right..... and incase it is me I'm gonna see what's changed and whether I'm still chasing the same goal I came into this with...

[dante3x3]

this happens to everyone, dont worry, it will pass

[Volt]

Getting some will help, it does for me. School is a big problem because you can't get away from tools or jerks. You can sarge random chicks at the mall in hopes of finding one you like so you feel more confident or just use this opportunity to swich to a higher value social circle. It's not easy though man.

[Keysersoze]

their isn't a higher value group, I was (and kinda still am) basically the loser of the cool kids who got some occasionally once everyone else got what they wanted... thanks though, I started a new thread cos I decided I do want this and it's hopefully just growing pains......

highschoolpuas.proboards83.com/index.cgi?board=contests&action=display&thread=1238&page=1

any of you all in??

[Rusty]

Look at it this way man. You can cave into the, go back to where you were and be pathetic. OR. You can continue growing and learn from this. =)

[Johnny Bravo]

I'm going to start off with.... This is completely normal, every big change is hard, and scary.


Every person goes through this, every pick up artist starts changing, and this is where the losers drop, and the winners go on.


Let me tell you a story about me.... I hope you can learn from it.


I got into pickup in november of 07.... then I read, thought it was cool, but never really cared for it, you know?

Around February of 08 I started to get more into it, I wanted a girlfriend, I wanted sex.

I read and read and read. I talked my shit, I told people Im a 'pick up artist' because I read some books. I acted soooo 'alpha' that I was cool.


Shit happened, people didn't like me, I didn't like me, or people just grew out of each other.

I got a lucky break and went to a new school, but if you don't get that. You'll have to deal with this change




This change is something that should be happening, take it as a sign of recreating yourself....



Every phoenix must light itself on fire to re-create and live again.


In other words, its gonna hurt, but it will be quick, and you'll see the change.



Keep doing what your doing, you'll get people to hate you, people to love you.


No one is perfect. The key is to just not resent people who hate you.


I used to say "If they dont like me, get the fuck away from me, dont talk to me"

Now I put up with people I don't like, or people that don't like me.


Don't think because you've changed your better, or worse for that matter.

You just matured.

[MarthXII]

Feb 23, 2009 23:58:03 GMT -5 Johnny Bravo said:

I'm going to start off with.... This is completely normal, every big change is hard, and scary.


Every person goes through this, every pick up artist starts changing, and this is where the losers drop, and the winners go on.


Let me tell you a story about me.... I hope you can learn from it.


I got into pickup in november of 07.... then I read, thought it was cool, but never really cared for it, you know?

Around February of 08 I started to get more into it, I wanted a girlfriend, I wanted sex.

I read and read and read. I talked my shit, I told people Im a 'pick up artist' because I read some books. I acted soooo 'alpha' that I was cool.


Shit happened, people didn't like me, I didn't like me, or people just grew out of each other.

I got a lucky break and went to a new school, but if you don't get that. You'll have to deal with this change




This change is something that should be happening, take it as a sign of recreating yourself....



Every phoenix must light itself on fire to re-create and live again.


In other words, its gonna hurt, but it will be quick, and you'll see the change.



Keep doing what your doing, you'll get people to hate you, people to love you.


No one is perfect. The key is to just not resent people who hate you.


I used to say "If they dont like me, get the fuck away from me, dont talk to me"

Now I put up with people I don't like, or people that don't like me.


Don't think because you've changed your better, or worse for that matter.

You just matured.

YOu should Be a promotional Speaker Lol.

Seriously, What Gay said Is 10x Correct.
You Matured and People stayed behind.
If not, you can always Make new friends or do what I did.
Turn My Good Friends into PUA's so They can Know what it feels.
Just try your Best to Deal with the situation. =]

And remember! NOT IN THE ASS!

[Keysersoze]

Feb 23, 2009 23:58:03 GMT -5 Johnny Bravo said:

I'm going to start off with.... This is completely normal, every big change is hard, and scary.


Every person goes through this, every pick up artist starts changing, and this is where the losers drop, and the winners go on.


Let me tell you a story about me.... I hope you can learn from it.


I got into pickup in november of 07.... then I read, thought it was cool, but never really cared for it, you know?

Around February of 08 I started to get more into it, I wanted a girlfriend, I wanted sex.

I read and read and read. I talked my shit, I told people Im a 'pick up artist' because I read some books. I acted soooo 'alpha' that I was cool.


Shit happened, people didn't like me, I didn't like me, or people just grew out of each other.

I got a lucky break and went to a new school, but if you don't get that. You'll have to deal with this change




This change is something that should be happening, take it as a sign of recreating yourself....



Every phoenix must light itself on fire to re-create and live again.


In other words, its gonna hurt, but it will be quick, and you'll see the change.



Keep doing what your doing, you'll get people to hate you, people to love you.


No one is perfect. The key is to just not resent people who hate you.


I used to say "If they dont like me, get the fuck away from me, dont talk to me"

Now I put up with people I don't like, or people that don't like me.


Don't think because you've changed your better, or worse for that matter.

You just matured.

dude I read that just before I left for school and I spent the whole day making sure I was smiling no matter who I spoke too... and I had a great day... so thanks, seriously that was great dude...

[Johnny Bravo]

Glad it helped.


Just understand, its something that happens to everyone, and all it is, is your view of the world changing.

[Keysersoze]

okay quick update before i head out, so I have almost officially been kicked out of my social group... haven't seen any of them for longer than 10 minutes in the last month... tbh I feel like shit a little and I'm becoming pretty resentful of them for being this way... it was actually the AFOG who kicked me out because i told her how clingy and bitchy she was, she goes out with what i considered a best friend who has literally said nothing to me for a month now... and so i guess the lesson is before you decide to be yourself, kiss the AFOG's arse... just kidding, actually it's ok I have a large social circle outside of school and their all pretty close to me... and most of that group are leaving at the end of this year and becuase of my social life outside school I can always invite people out with me =)