Post by RedDog on Mar 27, 2009 23:39:38 GMT -5
Reddog's Guide to Kino
Hey guys!Before I overcame my fear of Touching Girls, I decided that once I did Would try to write a guide to help help others.
Well, I overcame it. I went from saying sorry when accidentally brushing up against a girls arm, to placing the back of my hand or forearm where it shouldn't be.
Now, Most guides I read said "Just do it" and etc. This is helpful, but it didn't click in my head. So, I'll try to write down how I overcame it here, if anyone needs the help.
First, What does Kino mean? Well, it means touch. and what does touch mean? There are a bunch of definitions, but a few pop out.
The physiological sense by which external objects or forces are perceived through contact with the body.
To cause or permit a part of the body, especially the hand or fingers, to come in contact with so as to feel
When you touch, you make a connection. Adult pua's say light touching is used to get the girl used to your touch. This is true.
When contact is made, a relationship goes up a rung, if you will.
Most of us feel comfortable around a person who we touch, Whether it be High fives, Handshakes, ETC.
But enough about that. Take a look around your world.
First, your family. You can touch family members with out it being awkward(Not in private places, of course).You can give your parents or grandparents high fives or give them hugs and etc. with no problem. This helped me realize that touching is natural.
Now, If you observe naturals or pua's or perverts (lol), You can see that they'll touch girls regularly. If they can do it, why cant you?
I know what you may be thinking,because i thought it as well. "But what if she gets mad at me for touching her and calls me a perv?"
Well, look at the Naturals and Pua's again. Do they get yelled at? Sometimes yes, but it is mostly "You asshole!"-Arm slap Laugh/smile.
Which led me to the conclusion, I can touch girls without them being mad.(for the most part
)
So I started. I started off slow, with some shoulder taps here and some brushing up against here. Soon enough, I advanced into being comfortable rubbing legs,Feeling girls "six-packs
", and even sitting next to girls while allowing my arms to roam freely.
I'll tell you what, with my forearm on the side of a girl's chest, I felt like a King. Because I was. I had beaten my Kino problems(for the most part).
Now, I'll include a small guide to escalation, up to a point. Once you get to kissing and above, it's pretty much everything is available.
Stage I:Light Touching
Such as:High 5's, Shoulder taps while talking, Brushing up against accidentally.
Stage II:Medium Light Touching
Such as:(secret)Handshakes, Palm Reading, Longer shoulder taps and such,Thumb wars
Stage III:Light Medium Touching
Such as:Feeling smooth shaven legs/arms, Six-packs, Neck massages,Measuring Hands
Stage IV:Medium Touching
Such As:Longer instances of stages I-III, Cheek related touching, Brushing on thighs
Stage V:Super Medium Touching
Such As:Sides of thighs, sticking your hands down pockets of jeans, Thigh massages, Midsection,Hugs
Stage VI:Light Super Touching
Such As: Very light touch of her ass,invading her bubble, Much longer I-III. Brushing up of SIDE of tits.,hugs
Stage VII:Medium Super Touching
Such As:Holding hands briefly, when guiding her somewhere. Play-wrestling. Longer IV-VI.
Stage VIII:Super Super Touching
Such As:Kissing,Much Longer I-IV, Longer V-VII
Stage IX:Mega Super Touching
Such As: Everything else, in progressive order by using the bases.
Here is a picture for examples, haha
Well, that's my guide. I hope it helps you. Remember, Touch is natural. Just make sure you have a smile on your face (Not a creepy toothy smile, but a nice grin).It's hard to turn down one of those.
Hope this helps.
Reddog ;D
Hey guys!Before I overcame my fear of Touching Girls, I decided that once I did Would try to write a guide to help help others.
Well, I overcame it. I went from saying sorry when accidentally brushing up against a girls arm, to placing the back of my hand or forearm where it shouldn't be.
Now, Most guides I read said "Just do it" and etc. This is helpful, but it didn't click in my head. So, I'll try to write down how I overcame it here, if anyone needs the help.
First, What does Kino mean? Well, it means touch. and what does touch mean? There are a bunch of definitions, but a few pop out.
The physiological sense by which external objects or forces are perceived through contact with the body.
To cause or permit a part of the body, especially the hand or fingers, to come in contact with so as to feel
When you touch, you make a connection. Adult pua's say light touching is used to get the girl used to your touch. This is true.
When contact is made, a relationship goes up a rung, if you will.
Most of us feel comfortable around a person who we touch, Whether it be High fives, Handshakes, ETC.
But enough about that. Take a look around your world.
First, your family. You can touch family members with out it being awkward(Not in private places, of course).You can give your parents or grandparents high fives or give them hugs and etc. with no problem. This helped me realize that touching is natural.
Now, If you observe naturals or pua's or perverts (lol), You can see that they'll touch girls regularly. If they can do it, why cant you?
I know what you may be thinking,because i thought it as well. "But what if she gets mad at me for touching her and calls me a perv?"
Well, look at the Naturals and Pua's again. Do they get yelled at? Sometimes yes, but it is mostly "You asshole!"-Arm slap Laugh/smile.
Which led me to the conclusion, I can touch girls without them being mad.(for the most part
) So I started. I started off slow, with some shoulder taps here and some brushing up against here. Soon enough, I advanced into being comfortable rubbing legs,Feeling girls "six-packs
", and even sitting next to girls while allowing my arms to roam freely.I'll tell you what, with my forearm on the side of a girl's chest, I felt like a King. Because I was. I had beaten my Kino problems(for the most part).
Now, I'll include a small guide to escalation, up to a point. Once you get to kissing and above, it's pretty much everything is available.
Stage I:Light Touching
Such as:High 5's, Shoulder taps while talking, Brushing up against accidentally.
Stage II:Medium Light Touching
Such as:(secret)Handshakes, Palm Reading, Longer shoulder taps and such,Thumb wars
Stage III:Light Medium Touching
Such as:Feeling smooth shaven legs/arms, Six-packs, Neck massages,Measuring Hands
Stage IV:Medium Touching
Such As:Longer instances of stages I-III, Cheek related touching, Brushing on thighs
Stage V:Super Medium Touching
Such As:Sides of thighs, sticking your hands down pockets of jeans, Thigh massages, Midsection,Hugs
Stage VI:Light Super Touching
Such As: Very light touch of her ass,invading her bubble, Much longer I-III. Brushing up of SIDE of tits.,hugs
Stage VII:Medium Super Touching
Such As:Holding hands briefly, when guiding her somewhere. Play-wrestling. Longer IV-VI.
Stage VIII:Super Super Touching
Such As:Kissing,Much Longer I-IV, Longer V-VII
Stage IX:Mega Super Touching
Such As: Everything else, in progressive order by using the bases.
Here is a picture for examples, haha
Well, that's my guide. I hope it helps you. Remember, Touch is natural. Just make sure you have a smile on your face (Not a creepy toothy smile, but a nice grin).It's hard to turn down one of those.
Hope this helps.
Reddog ;D
