Need help with this one girl

[sparkogre]

I am taking a type of geography class with a girl who sits near me, and I think she's attracted. The problem is, I just don't talk to her that much. I used to talk to her a lot more, and she liked me a lot. I don't know if she's still interested though (havent said a word to each other in a week). I have a LOT of social proof in this class, and I'm basically the coolest guy in it. I don't know why I don't talk to her more. I sit diagonally ONE DESK away from her; she sits in the corner. We have a couple minutes in class before class starts, but she doesn't always come in early. What I am asking you for help is, how can I talk to her more?

Also, do you think she's still interested?

[nutrick]

just talk to her during that couple of minutes. if she doesn't come early, try talking to her at the end of class, get her number and get her to hangout with you. smile and say "heyyyy whats up?" hmm it's hard to say, but im sure if you talk to her again, she'll start to like you. good luck bro


Cheers,
Patrick

[Alek]

Im in the exact same position as you. This is what she is thinking: Omg I like him a lot, but he doesn't talk to me...he doesn't like me, so why should I even bother? Then she can get mad at you because of it.

So do this say: Hey, we havn't talked for so long. I thought you were a really cool girl, but then we stopped talking. Lets continue where we left off.

- credit gay

And number close her asap, and get that day 2, if you wait then shit gets soo much more complicated. She is probably thinking about going out with you, or was, jump on it. Trust me, im in the exact same fucking position lol. But instead of one week, its like months

[hotdemon]

Dude i've done a lot of mistakes in pick up and one of the mistake was that once i was sucessful at attracting girls i would just play hard to get for e,g wait for her to start up a conversation.i was filled with ego but then i realised however prizability you have,you should never forget that your a man and its you who is suppose to lead.With that mindset my sucess with girls sky rocket.

Next time you meet her play this routine on her :

hey stranger,Wow, we used to be SO close. (cross your fingers) It's like we were hugging. But now we've fallen apart (uncross your fingers, like your holding up a 'peace' sign). Now I guess you just wanna hold hands."

short,sweet and works like a charm.If she doesn't have an instant melt down..i'll retire from pick up



hey HB,we use to be so close

[sparkogre]

Uh...okay. I can talk to her no problem, but how do I get her number/get her to hangout? Like what do I say?

[Alek]

Apr 16, 2009 22:45:14 GMT -5 sparkogre said:

Uh...okay. I can talk to her no problem, but how do I get her number/get her to hangout? Like what do I say?

Either say, hey write your number here and give her paper. Or tell her to put your number in your phone.

Just do it as a greeting "hey, put your number in my phone" and hand it to her.

As for hanging out "call her, run some attraction shit, then be like "im doing x" and i'd like you to come/why don't you tag along.

[renz]

I've been in this position quite a few times and Its difficult to come back from. It all depends if you've been on her mind during this time period, or she's forgotten about you. I think Gay's advice works, its fairly direct and gets the point across.

The whole theory is based around IOIs, naturally if a girl is attracted to you, getting her number shouldn't be all that difficult, a lot of times girls will make it obvious that they want to give it away. However for those girls who really want to drive you insane, its all about making that jump, that mind numbingly scary leap, and straight up asking her number.

I've often started conversations and started texting on purpose in the middle of talking to her, and then segwaying that into asking her number. Its a pretty noobish thing (in my opinion), but its worked the few times I've done it.

Once you get the number, its all about those text messages. The text is your ultimate weapon, because I use it to move into a call. Once you can tell she enjoys talking to you over the phone, you should have no problems getting her to hang out, and gettin' some lady lovin'