How would you get 5 girlfriends?

[ascendancy]

I'm not really interested in getting 5, but If i d get into a relationship, then I need a relationship with a girl who doesn't mind me going out with other women (that way i can continue to practice my game)

I don't want to be the piece of crap that tells a girl that she's my one-and-only while sneaking around with other chicks behind her back, so that means that i need to be straightforward with her.

Are there any tips as to how i can effectively do that?

[hotdemon]

i don't advice on relationships but i like your confidence

[kristallnachte]

First off, for what reason do you want 5 girlfriends?

second, its pretty much impossible within the same school, even if they allow it (which they should, since cheating is still wrong) because they could know eachother. And while girls can be cool with intellectually knowing you're going out with other women, very few are cool with actually seeing you WITH other women.

[dante3x3]

my record: 9 different threesomes
those girls didnt mind seeing me with other girls

[kristallnachte]

May 7, 2009 23:37:43 GMT -5 dante3x3 said:

my record: 9 different threesomes
those girls didnt mind seeing me with other girls

3somes aren't the same as MLTR...

[dante3x3]

yea, but i hear david shade and zan have that shit down
so its possible

[Johnny Bravo]

The man who taught me game had 4 girlfriends in highschool.


He never told me how he did it...But he said its all about making them comfortable with it.

[SenorBubbz]

Sounds to me like you have to implant the idea in their mind from the very beginning and be open about it the ENTIRE time. You can't lead her around and make her think she's the only one, or has the chance to be (even if she does, it's better to not give any hope at all than giving false hope.)

That's just theory and what I thought at the moment. D

[secret]

it like this, girls have it hardwired in there mind that if you spend lets say 5 days a week with them then they can say it exclusive because you guys see each other often, but lets say you only see her 1 a week, she can assume that she not the only one, you also have to be honest, tell her, say stuff like this relationship is open, blah blah blah, but yea deff dont wanna date multi girls from same school or that kno each other, this can cause huge probs for the group and for you and them,

if your honest from the beginning and saying that you wan this to be open and that you wanna find mrs right but if your in relationship that exclusive then your not going to, you also have to encourage her to do the same, but if you satisfy her needs then she shouldn't need another bf get pick up podcast i forgot what episode but they interview a gut who breaks it down beautifully

[Alek]

the world is what u believe it is. If you believe its a bad place, it is. If you believe you can have multiple girlfriends, you can.

But before you plan that far ahead, concentrate on getting the girl first, then worry about that. That is how people get lost

[ascendancy]

Good point Alek.

[Mandrake]

I'm still trying to calibrate it. I had it for a few weeks recently (with two girls, not five ) but then the relationships both got too deep and emotional and I got one-itis for one so I cut it off with the other one, and really hurt her...which wasn't fun. The first one is my girlfriend now (all this stuff has happened over the last couple months).

I think the key is not getting too attached and too emotional, which is just something I did because the sex felt a lot better when there was so much heat and emotion behind it. It just has to be "hooking up" relationship and not a "girlfriend/boyfriend" relationship. You have to keep the attraction frame each time you see her. You give her a taste of comfort, and you get to know her enough that you won't keep having to go through LMR, but you don't go into deep rapport and you make sure that she doesn't fall in love with you. When she falls in love with you, then she stops seeing other guys, and very soon after that, she asks you to stop seeing other girls. Then girls get hurt. When I was just seeing them once every few weeks, not caring which other guys they were with, it wasn't as poetic and fulfilling, but I didn't ever have to hurt any girls.

But as I said, I'm still calibrating it. The last month and a half dealing with this has been a huge learning experience and one that will really help in mastering MLTR management and the game as a whole. I'm sure that soon enough I'll be able to make a guide for maintaining multiple deep and meaningful relationships in HS without breaking any girls' hearts, but I don't want to teach anything until I've fully mastered it myself, so we'll have to wait until then.

[Mandrake]

And if anyone finds a good guide from a guru, give me a shoutout

[curlyhairedbastard]

a LTR and a girl on the side is draining enough. no way in hell would you be able to make time for 5 girlfriends.

as far as "open relationships" go, this is what i did.


after i fucked her, i kept bring up other girls and blaah, blah. She threatened to break up with me over it, i told her if that's alll it takes then do it and miss out on the best thing you'll ever have. She was speechless, i went on to tell her she'd be my " main " and no other girlfriend could threaten her place, blahhhh.

[extra]

You know what I would love

Just having two cool, hot girls that love eachother as much (or almost as much) as they love me. Everyone gets along, no one gets jealous, they can do their girly stuff with eachother when I don't want to do it. I've got two girls. Perfect.