Fucking girls in your class?

[Lego]

Ok i'm just wondering how can you close a girl that's in your class? See there is this girl that's in the excact same classes as me, meaning i see her every day. But is that a good thing? I mean she sees you every day, even on your bad days and you have to keep your game up all the time. And if you do close her, how will your relationship be with her after that and will there be some tension between you in class? Have you ever closed someone in your class, how is your relationship to her now?

[twitchy]

It seems like you're rambling a bit, about tension, excuses why not to do it, etc. The title made it all seem a bit wierd too. So instead of directly answering your question, I'll give you the mechanics of classroom game. I hope you appreciate it.

1) Be noticed in class

This is achieved through being vocal. Be the one who asks interesting questions and gets the teacher off on interesting tangents of thought. In fact, you become the "leader" of your class by just being consistently talkative, social and laid back.

Lets clarify this though. It doesn't help your chances if you're a nerd who's asking for clarification on unimportant details. But, if you find a tangent that's universally interesting - go for it.

Once you've spoken up a few times in class, the girls will know you before you even speak to them, and you'll stand out from all the other nameless faces.

2) Start a conversation.

Now for gods sake, do this bit right. Its not about what to say, but what not to say. Saying something like: "errr, so what do you think of this class?" is creepy. Girls can just scent your intentions.

Instead say something like, "hey, what's your name?". From then start talking about social stuff, who she hangs round with etc. Act like you're part of the scene. Only then do you ask her what she thinks of this class.

3) After the initials

Hugs, love, qualifying her, see my lessons for more on this. Become her friend in class.

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After doing this once or twice, you need to transition the developed pattern. So within one or two conversations you should mention a party you're going to, and ask what she's up to. Figure what her social life is all about, who she parties with, which of her friends you might know. This is connection forming, especially if you do this in every class. Then, because you become the guy who organises stuff, merge the two social lives. Get both groups to go to the same venture. Then its standard.

[darkpwns]

May 24, 2009 16:30:28 GMT -5 Lego said:

Ok i'm just wondering how can you close a girl that's in your class? See there is this girl that's in the excact same classes as me, meaning i see her every day. But is that a good thing? I mean she sees you every day, even on your bad days and you have to keep your game up all the time. And if you do close her, how will your relationship be with her after that and will there be some tension between you in class? Have you ever closed someone in your class, how is your relationship to her now?

It's way easy to close a girl in your class...easier than a girl at a party IMO. Twitchy has some good points though you may not always have access to parties. Having the same classes as the girl is a good thing, sure she may see you every day but she will also see you at your best...don't constantly game her, let her see you be social around the class let her see you being an intellectual. Everybody has bad days, if your good days are really good your bad days won't hurt you as much.

Number closing should be simple, just keep up C&F and keep up kino escalation (in fact you don't even need to do this to get a number...it just makes it so text game doesn't have to last so long before the F-Close). After you number close you can run standard text/phone game on her and take her on an adventure in your world (i.e. Starbucks->Go-Kart->Sunset->Concert->Party->After Party->Your/Her Place). Depending on how well you did during the adventure and if you have displayed enough value in AND out of class she'll WANT to have sex with you, at this point its up to you to make it happen.

I've laid a girl in my class, its really no big deal, they may tell their friends or they may not...it really doesn't matter. It doesn't make the relationship awkward. Tension should always be there...even before you close her, sexual tension that is and that shouldn't change after you've laid her. The only time where negative tension would form is if you tricked her into having sex with you or if her friends don't approve of you (if you worked her friends everything should be fine).

[Lego]

I must say i didn't expect such good replies, good forum! Way better than that other pua forum i used to hang out in. Thank you both for the good replies!