Bestfriend Boyfriend Method

[Grape]

I've been telling a lot of people about this 'method' lately, and it's pretty well known, even outside of the community. I've just decided to give it a name.

Long story short: You treat her only as a friend, so that she's comfortable to be around you, all the while making her fall in love with you. At the very end, you 'fall in love with her too', and you become her boyfriend.. or just fuck.

Step 0: Attraction
Although girls come in all shapes and forms, they all have one thing in common: what kind of guys they're attracted to.
Attraction is not a choice, as told by David DeAngelo.
You must make yourself more attractive by fixing those small things like:
- general facial expression: shows freedom, power, and happiness. doesn't show stress, sadness, bad feelings.

- vocal tonality: deep, loud, solid, soothing (etc.)

- body language: confident, relaxed, nice posture

- alpha male: standing up for yourself, having standards, etc.

you've heard these soo much times i dont think it's necessary to state all of them.
also, all of this stuff should be done subconsciously, otherwise known as "done naturally". so it's really a matter of fixing your habits.


(Situational) Step 1: Social Value
Only if there is some sort of shield such as "in school two people may not socialize if they are not in the same social circle or are in the same class" or if it simply involves where the girl already has a big social circle of her own around her, then you MUST show social value.
So quickly befriend one of them if you already havent, preferably a cool attractive dude, and become buds. The girls will notice him, and you, and associate you two as similar, ATTRACTIVE. Social value just shows one thing: how friendly you are and how cool you are. So just be friendly to the guys and truly become their friends.

This step may be ignored in venues like bars, uptown, concerts, festivals, day-game venues, get the general idea?


Step 2: Being A Great Friend
Next comes being able to make others feel good and laugh.
This comes from having fun yourself!~! Focus on having fun and feeling good. Avoid the stress from 'needing to get chicks' or 'having to be an alpha'. just fuck all that for once and just let yourself go free. have fun, dont give a fuck about people who say stupid stuff or give negative vibes and enjoy yourself. eventually you'll become naturally calibrated so that your sense of humor will be at a certain point that anyone around you will laugh and have a good time. this may be a trait you already possess, Great =]
Others, just give it time. I used to be horrible, now i'm great!!
Just focus on three things:
- Being Obnoxious (being able to act silly and crazy focusing purely on making yourself laugh and have fun)
- Being Witty (being able to give a shit about what others say so that you'll have things to branch off of right away instead of having awkward pauses)
- Being Unpredictable (being able to make people never know what you're going to do next. ex: You: "I want some COOKIES." hb: "haha why??" You: "DONT QUESTION ME!!!!")

Always try to perceive your target as a close friend who happens to look very cute. Everyone has them ya know... Just purposely try to make your relationship not romantic and just flirty friends.

The best part about this is.. you can keep as many girls you want at this stage.. so that they'll be good and ready to move to the next phase whenever YOU want.
A lot of naturals have tons of girls at this level, and they only have 2-3 on step 3 at once.

Step 3: Kino -> Close
Eventually, she'll see you as a really cute and funny guy and she'll fall in love with you.
The IOIs will be hard to spot because she doesnt want to look bad for 'liking a best friend'. So as soon as YOU FEEL comfortable enough to kiss or anything like that, Go For It.

Enjoy!!!!
<33 Grape

[RedDog]

Excellent. This is actually very much how i run my game. Grape's right, the benefits of having friend girls is great. I wrote a whole article about it ;D

Thanks for a great post Grape.

[Volt]

Can't overdo the friendship or else you'll confuse them and ruin any magic.

While I dislike this method in general as it makes girls feel like sluts, especially if you like to use them, then throw them away. It also ruins your chances with her social circle. If you begin with them at the fuck buddy/random hookup from the beginning, it makes it easier and you can have fun with as much of the social circle as you want.

[Grape]

Actually you can overdo the friendship as much as you want in my opinion. It's the passive attractiveness that'll keep her ready for kino escalation.

For the second point, I think that beginning a relationship to be fuck buddies would be more sluttier than a gradual like from friends to best friends to boyfriend. Just my thoughts.

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[Volt]

All girls are sluts if you get them horny enough. Except maybe not the hardcore religious ones, but thats it.

And it isn't a question of whether they ARE sluts, it's if they don't feel like sluts. If they can legitimize you to their friends without feeling bad, they don't feel slutty. It's way easier to say that you hooked up with the really cute rocker guy at the party than it is to say, yeah, I know you're all friends with him, and so am I, but I hooked up with Grape last night and I don't really know why.

You could probably turn the second part into a jealousy thing, but in my opinion, it's much easier and cleaner to go for casual hookups.

[SenorBubbz]

Back when I was a chode this is how I TRIED to run my game.
I'd be friends first, obviously not building enough attraction and being an orbiter, then asking them out, them giving me a pity yes or a no off the bat. If they say yes, it was over within a week with the LJBF speech.

Good times.........

Edit: Anyway, I have too much of a bad history with the friendship thing to go anyway near this tactic. I'm sure it works as it makes plenty of sense and I'm probably doing it subconciously to one girl I know, but I can't try it actively for a while. Thanks for the post though Grape =]

[RedDog]

They key to this is Kino. I keep all the girls(hb6's and above) i dont game as flirty friends. You can do this with girls in realtion ships to this too. This is the best way to learn natural game, imo. Again, The key is Kino. From the beginning and in that stage 2 phase level acheivement era. Think about, no homo, but we're always high fiving and shoulder patting our boys, so we can do the same with our stage 2 phase level acheivement era girls. Seriously. I learned kino from this.

Basically,
Friends before you Fuck.

[Grape]

Isn't a target a friend up until the point you sexually qualify her? It's just how quickly you qualify her that you can label yourselves friends or lovers. A girl you met 20 minutes ago can be your friend. as soon as you guys escalte the kino and such, she is now more than a friend.

i think this method states the simple facts that happen when getting sexual with women.

i mean you can't be a lover/bf until you've been her 'friend', even if it was for an hour or a week or a month!!

this is also just a great way to show how to transform your LJBFs into relationships that you want.

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[Chris]

Guys this method does work. dont worry about them ljbfing you.
a lot of gurus talk about using friendship frames like david d and
vin dicarlo. If you build up a bit of attraction and suddenly drop
a friendship frame on her... that will instantly amplify the tension.
think about it.

[Volt]

I'm not saying that this won't work at all, or that you'll get LJBF'd, but I think it's a dangerous idea for school. I do this for chicks I know from parties, but IMO it's not solid school game.

[Deleted]

It'll work if you keep up the tension and kino. I don't think kino should be so far in the process because kino is a great way to keep up the tension and make her comfortable with your touch.
Also, you need the right timing on this because you may be LJBF'd because you didn't escalate fast enough.

If you can time it right, this method works amazingly well. Honestly, I'm like this to every girl I meet. I only add more tension, push-pulls, and sexual undertones if I want the girl.

It's not my style, but I know it works wonders.

+1 for you sir.

[Grape]

lol okay. I guess I forgot to point out the big picture of this entire post.

KINO IS THE GAME. It wont matter how long you've known a girl or havent touched her.
Even if its been months, because it worked for me.
As long as a girl is attracted to you, even if it is temporary, you may kino escalate at any given moment in time in which she is attracted to you. LJBF'd or not.

[RedDog]

By the way, these two articles I wrote are good for this method.

Natural Game from FHB's
highschoolpuas.proboards.com/index.cgi?board=amog&action=display&thread=1756'

Kino Guide
highschoolpuas.proboards.com/index.cgi?board=blanguage&action=display&thread=1460

I love this. This is my game. Social Circle, Work into stage 2 phase level acheivement era
then fuck.

[Grape]

i love this.

[nutrick]

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