girl in need of help

[swimmergirl]

hi...i need help figuring out the difference between real genuine guys vs palyers

lately ive been hurt a lot by players who take advantage of me bcus "im so sweet and nice and have such a nice body and am so hot and beautiful"

i really needs help

thanks in advance

-victoria(as i said b4 im a girl)

[lilprodigy]

check out misterys m3 guild if hedosent spend enough time with you and dosent talk about deep personal things hes probly playing you

[Johnny Bravo]

Nah. That won't help you.

wow another girl on the forum? Cool.

anyways, the only way to know is to get really close to having sex with the guy, then stop, and say you can't do this.

If he is a player, he'll get mad/leave/try to push you into it.

If he cares, he'll be a AFC and respect your wishes

[Volt]

And if he's good at game, he'll make you want to fuck.

[Deleted]

Lucky for you I just started my new "Player or Pal" program.

It includes 10 hours of 1 on 1 sessions for only $20 an hour.

You will not be disappointed!

[SenorBubbz]

First things first: tits or gtfo

Now that that's out of the way. There isn't much of a way to tell, cuz I'm sure that AFC's (Average Frustrated Chump) wouldn't be attractive to you, so no point in even talking about that. Now if you want to know if he's genuine or a player, try to get him to open up to you.

Also, if he's too perfect, he's a player. Like, if he has the perfect answer to any question you ask him.

[Grape]

victoria, all i can say is this: guys naturally want to have multiple women in their lives.

it goes all the way back to the ages of cavemen, but i wont get into that with you.


i'm pretty sure the question is "how do i have sex with a guy without having him break up with me a couple of days after?"

here it is: don't fuck him until you know everything about him. most guys just use their charm to win girls over, but what you gotta do is actually talk with him for a long enough time you'll know whether or not he's truly the guy you want (player vs genuine)

players will get confused at this kind of talk because they're so used to simply getting girls to laugh and then fucking them.

genuine guys will know exactly what you want and ONLY genuine guys. they'll tell you their 'life story', tell you what their goals are in life and stuff they really care about. but dont expect him to do all this by himself, you both have to open up to each other and tell each other about your passions, values, beliefs, etc.

players look at you for two things:
- Looks
- Nice or bitchy

genuine guys look for more:
- looks
- personality
- beliefs
- goals
- values
- passion


ya get it??

<33

[Snaps]

FIRST PUA's arent always players, just putting it out there ( well... really what i meant was,PUA's dont only use people, they also have longtermand happy relationships)

there are ALOT of ways:
- ask him what his favourit thing about you is, then put in into grapes genuin guys/player's list
-if he has a bad rep
-stop texting/caling him, he calls ALOT, for say... 1 mab 2 days. hes real, if hes just using u he will prob move on.

also, how did u find this place?
and why havent we made a chick thead or somthin, teaching chicks PU would be funneh

[Snaps]

also, where do u live in CT?
I swear i wont flirt wit u, but PM me
my dad has a courtyhouse in CT... AND IT SUX

[SenorBubbz]

SNAPS YOU LIVE IN NEW YORK CITY?

Edit: Fuck sacha, shoulda told me it was you =.=

[swimmergirl]

i live in weston, ct

[Volt]

I would actually disagree with Grape. I would give up after a couple of weeks because I can find some hot slut to entertain me instead of you if you tried to actually get to know me. I would feel like I got stuck in the friend zone.

[swimmergirl]

Aug 19, 2009 20:46:17 GMT -5 SenorBubbz said:

SNAPS YOU LIVE IN NEW YORK CITY?

Edit: Fuck sacha, shoulda told me it was you =.=

i love how u r commenting on my post when u admit that u r a player urself...u give advice how to stay away from ppl like u but then u take advantage of the fact that i trusted u...u should feel bad right now even tho ik u dont at all

[Grape]

why are girls so dramatic?

[RedDog]

Aug 19, 2009 23:17:28 GMT -5 Grape said:

why are girls so dramatic?

I could say something smart about how it's their nature and they love drama, but I'll say this:

Girls are icky and weird.