risen
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Post by risen on Sept 8, 2009 19:41:10 GMT -5
I've never tried texting. I personaly don't like texting, but that's another matter.
Everyone around me has failed horribly when it comes to texting. They were trying pretty hard and still nothing.
As for me I've IM'd a few girls, no results.
To sum it all Up I agree with cork and kornforpie. Text to set things up, but don't rely on it.
Besides I prefer calling anyway more entertaining for me, and you don't have to worry about how you convey your emotions.
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manslaughter
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Post by manslaughter on Sept 12, 2009 11:39:37 GMT -5
my phone doesn't even have texting but its really awesome so i got it any way and personally i think that your # of post don't mean shit which then again i am just starting so what do i know
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Post by wespeezy on Sept 26, 2009 1:22:04 GMT -5
Whats the deal with people hating on texting?
Honestly from what ive learned and what works for me texting is one of the best communication skills you can use in highschoool. dont text 24\7 but do it often enough to build comfort. I walk around my school 99% girls are communicating socially either texting and running into people walking or talking to their friends as they walk.
Ive learned that even when ur talking or dating not texting or talking for a few days(loss of communication) can damage the situation.
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Post by Andrew on Sept 29, 2009 1:00:47 GMT -5
I seem to have a different view than most of you guys here.
To start off, there are no "seven-hour rules" or anything like that. There is no strict code, strict set of rules to follow (which is why mystery method leaves so many guys in the dirt, but i digress).
I LOOOOOOOVE text game. Like what Wes said (+1 by the way buddy) its a great way to build comfort and just to talk with the girl. Not to mention straight up honest to god FLIRTING, which is a SERIOUSLY underappreciated and underlearned trait these days.
Girls text so much these days, then your seriously missing out if your not texting them. Its simply keeping up with the current trends.
What makes it 'boring' when guys text if they dont put ANY of their personality into the texts! Its super important to text EXACTLY how you would speak. USE YOUR VOICE!! Use spacing, punctuation, smileys, ESPECIALLY caps all to make your voice and how you would sound stand out. Oh and guys, check your spelling. SUPER important. and spell out words too. none of dis spelling lyk u realy dnt care. Because you should xD
What makes text game so good is that it is kept to a line, sentence(s), or phrase, so you can easily isolate and break down what the girl is telling you. This way, you can develop the ability to spout lines of SOLID GOLD and know what to say in any situation. Not like you have lines prepared, its just a FANTASTIC way to learn how to improvise. Thats how I became an All-Star Line Machine.
I hooked up with this one girl once in New York, got her number, and all we did was text for about four or five weeks. In that time, I built up so much sexual tension that she convinced her mom to let her come down and stay with me in my house for two days (I live in RI).
Dont underestimate it. It aint shite, but just learn how to use it.
Deedee, if you want to learn some good text game, im happy to help out. 401-793-0805 or AIM at andrewkellnah
-Andrew
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Post by wespeezy on Sept 30, 2009 23:45:50 GMT -5
aww thanks dude by the way, next time i ask you for specific help, u should say no to me because i think im using u as a crutch when i can walk fine when im put on the spot.
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Post by cork on Oct 1, 2009 0:08:19 GMT -5
Wait a minute.
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Post by cork on Oct 1, 2009 0:24:49 GMT -5
Andrew, if you've read ANY of my posts, you'll find I have no problem at all conveying personality through text (I access the forum via mobile web). Nor do I have issues spelling. You misunderstand: I don't (and I hope I'm speaking for everyone here) avoid texting. I don't avoid texting girls either. To me the issue, it seems, is that so many guys get a girl's number and never talk to her again AND expect to get nude pics in a breeze. Gentlemen, it doesn't work that way. I don't believe in text game. Or at least I don't believe ''text game'' should be any different than talking to a girl in person, and should by no means substitute face-to-face interaction. And yes, there absolutely IS a 7 hour rule. While it doesn't have to be seven hours, it stands for an idea of time intervals that as a general rule work. Mystery's problem is that he takes average responses and advertises them as his foolproof method. And THAT is why guys find their nose in the dirt.
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Post by Andrew on Oct 1, 2009 6:07:55 GMT -5
ah okay man thanks for the clarification. And I definately wasnt calling you out haha, there was just a couple topics i needed to address.
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Post by cork on Oct 1, 2009 16:55:02 GMT -5
No, man. It's my pleasure. And you definitely have my +1.
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SamethP
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Post by SamethP on Oct 6, 2009 15:49:23 GMT -5
well guys, im gonna have to agree with andrew... text game is the shit to be honest. cork - the way i convey emotion is through the little faces, you will never find a text from me that doesnt have at least 2-3 faces in it conveying the tone of my message. i guess it all just comes down to practice and experience for conveying through text, but im my book, if youre good at online game, youre good at text game and vice versa...
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Post by wespeezy on Oct 19, 2009 23:37:14 GMT -5
All you have to do is and this or this to ur texts
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