Post by silverbull on Sept 10, 2009 10:24:36 GMT -5
Hi guys,
It's me again and I had a question...How do you befriend girls and make them realy like you?
I think this will be very different for me because I have gained the reputation of a "lame player" throughout HS. Because I always was hitting
on the girls -like : "Hi wazzup chickies looking very tight today ahhh- (yeah ealy playa type) and they always were blowing me off and it made me very low-value to ther other girls.Now i have discovered the community and now a bit more but I'm still at the same level.
I have this friend who is totally the opposite of me, He's kinda a badass , he smokes get's a lot of detention and the chicks realy realy like him !!
he's characteristics are: -very strong boundaries he amoggs the shit out of
people
-Has alot of socialproof
-If someone does soemthing he doesn't like he get's
very catchy.
-uses alot of kino on chicks even when the don't
want it
Than I have this other friends, he's got amazing skill with people, I think he read "the game" , he probabaly knows about the community because he has these little tactics like yesterday when he locked himself in and than screamed my name and then I join and make him look even better cuz he looked like he was the alpha male and I jst stood there like a dumb chode.
When it comes to chicks he uses different game: -he teases ALOT!
-when the chicks see him
they run to him and are
all over him, but he very
cold on them, and is like:
yeah whatever...
-has these tactics for
befriending guys
Then you have me.. lol. I'm the chode who's learning game and accualy just wnat's to improve his social skills, because their ZERO!!
I have tried a lot of things, but I just can't seem to get it !
I'm like the playa type (who doesn't get the chicks) I try to hit on the chicks but come off as wanting soemthing from them->low value.
I can't hold an conversation with a girl for 2 minutes , I seek rapport , I think it's kinda low-value. Myabe I should try instead of breaking rapport would it make me more High-value-> so will get more attention from teh chicks ? I don't know accualy , what do you guys think?
So ya my question was if somebody could give me some tips or recommend me an ebook or something on , befriending girls , and I don't mean making them fall in love with me but just make them realy like me like a friend !!
It's me again and I had a question...How do you befriend girls and make them realy like you?
I think this will be very different for me because I have gained the reputation of a "lame player" throughout HS. Because I always was hitting
on the girls -like : "Hi wazzup chickies looking very tight today ahhh- (yeah ealy playa type) and they always were blowing me off and it made me very low-value to ther other girls.Now i have discovered the community and now a bit more but I'm still at the same level.
I have this friend who is totally the opposite of me, He's kinda a badass , he smokes get's a lot of detention and the chicks realy realy like him !!
he's characteristics are: -very strong boundaries he amoggs the shit out of
people
-Has alot of socialproof
-If someone does soemthing he doesn't like he get's
very catchy.
-uses alot of kino on chicks even when the don't
want it
Than I have this other friends, he's got amazing skill with people, I think he read "the game" , he probabaly knows about the community because he has these little tactics like yesterday when he locked himself in and than screamed my name and then I join and make him look even better cuz he looked like he was the alpha male and I jst stood there like a dumb chode.
When it comes to chicks he uses different game: -he teases ALOT!
-when the chicks see him
they run to him and are
all over him, but he very
cold on them, and is like:
yeah whatever...
-has these tactics for
befriending guys
Then you have me.. lol. I'm the chode who's learning game and accualy just wnat's to improve his social skills, because their ZERO!!
I have tried a lot of things, but I just can't seem to get it !
I'm like the playa type (who doesn't get the chicks) I try to hit on the chicks but come off as wanting soemthing from them->low value.
I can't hold an conversation with a girl for 2 minutes , I seek rapport , I think it's kinda low-value. Myabe I should try instead of breaking rapport would it make me more High-value-> so will get more attention from teh chicks ? I don't know accualy , what do you guys think?
So ya my question was if somebody could give me some tips or recommend me an ebook or something on , befriending girls , and I don't mean making them fall in love with me but just make them realy like me like a friend !!
