sharkoffs
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Post by sharkoffs on Nov 1, 2009 20:29:26 GMT -5
As long as you are in control. Nothing should be able to hurt you.
The question is not what to do for revenge, but how to get in control.
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nutrick
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Post by nutrick on Nov 2, 2009 0:56:59 GMT -5
As long as you are in control. Nothing should be able to hurt you. The question is not what to do for revenge, but how to get in control. no revenge. just ignore. easy. |
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slithroat
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Post by slithroat on Nov 2, 2009 16:13:42 GMT -5
Alright, first off, I DON'T give a fuck what people think about me. Secondly, I don't know Ken. And lastly, that wasn't my honest opinion back there, that was just me being bored and rambling my ass off.
People don't generally mock me, but if they do I retort and mess with them until they stop. If they don't stop or truly agitate me, I get violent with it or walk away. This all depends on my mood at the time, for example if I've been having a bad day, I'll not want to walk away so I'll do something provakative to try to get them to hit me or I'll just wait until the perfect moment to pull up some dirt on them.
Tell them why they act how they act. Why they are who they are. If you do this, it will stop people from giving you shit from a psychological point of view. If you get violent with it, the outcome is normally worse, so I wouldn't advise it.
For example, if freshman are fucking with you, they're fucking with you in front of their friends, not alone. If you find them alone, they will act differently. Find them alone and push them, and they'll start running unless they think they can "take you" and freshman normally can't fight. At all. All it takes is extending your arm and holding their forehead and they will not be able to hit you.
It's really funny, in my opinion. As long as you don't hit them but make them see you can inflict massive amounts of pain without it looking like you're doing anything they will fear you because they don't know what you can do.
It's simple to do this because if you know where the muscle and the bone connect without even having to look, you'll be able to grab them there and apply pressure and move it a little to get the best reactions. 9 out of 10 times they will react harshly because they wouldn't have been expecting it.
That's only if it gets to an extreme, at this point if they're not doing it very much then just fuck with them back, tell them to stop talking about themselves. You're not a psychiatrist, you don't have to deal with their shit. Or whatever the fuck you want. No one else is listening. No one else cares. If you attack them mentally, it will eat at them and degrade their self value, talk about their mothers. Ask if their mom raised them to act that way. Whatever you please, or just walk away. No matter what they do, just remember what they say isn't true.
It doesn't effect your life in the long run. In a few days it should clear up. Walk them over, ignore them. That's what I'd do. Or give them the death glare if you can. It's the best problem solver. Someone tries to card me when I'm in the story buying cigarettes, I give them the death glare and they serve me. It's a concept of showing them you're the one in charge, not them.
You control the outcome.
Good luck man. Seriously. Good luck.
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Post by Deleted on Nov 2, 2009 17:49:17 GMT -5
slithroat, that whole post was your ego talking. You need to get that handled. Violence is never the answer. Learn to take the high road. Learn to love others like you love yourself. Godammit I'm starting to sound like a priest.  |
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nutrick
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Post by nutrick on Nov 2, 2009 18:42:12 GMT -5
slithroat, that whole post was your ego talking. You need to get that handled. Violence is never the answer. Learn to take the high road. Learn to love others like you love yourself. Godammit I'm starting to sound like a priest. amen amen I say to you Father Aaron. (you should be aaron4priest  ) none of that nonsense in here slithroat. |
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slithroat
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Post by slithroat on Nov 2, 2009 23:05:00 GMT -5
Lol. Meh, I normally at least try to walk away if I still can. Rage engulfs me as I swing and remorse bellows as I walk away. Just how shit happens for me. Can't really control it after it's happened. Doesn't happen very often though. Here, I'll strike through anything I think may actually be truly flawed that I let come out of my ass xD  it actually seems a lot better now... ;O Easier to read quickly and whatnot. Main points are easier to identify.... XDD Awesome. I should do that with more of my posts. |
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acezero
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Post by acezero on Dec 12, 2009 12:15:16 GMT -5
You coulda looked at them in the eyes till they backed off, to show whos boss. That works for me and my friends I have this one friend who always make jokes and i just look at him and then he always breaks first by saying a new joke and saying something gay
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Post by wespeezy on Dec 12, 2009 20:46:33 GMT -5
point.laugh. and walk away.
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it actually seems a lot better now... ;O Easier to read quickly and whatnot. Main points are easier to identify.... XDD Awesome. I should do that with more of my posts.