Very, very confused

[lolwut]

So I've kinda liked this one girl in my study hall (HB 8) . She has a boyfriend and they've been dating since like summer. I've joked around with her and stuff and lately we've been talking more. The thing is, sometimes i have no idea when she's being serious. The other day she walked up to me and i gave her a hug, and she kissed me on the cheek and was like "you're soooooo cute". I teased her and stuff and asked if she'd cheated on her boyfriend. She said yeah so I was happy cause i figured i have a good chance then.

So like the other day we were basically alone and i was talking to her a lot and i felt like she was trying to hook up with me. But there were people in the hallway and shit so it was kind of weird. Towards the end of class we were joking around and like she said something about me being a dirty indian (I'm indian). I knew it was a joke but i was like this can't go unpunished, so i just decided to ignore her. It was like it didn't matter though. You would think she would like try to apologize like crazy but not really.

I feel like I didn't fuck anything up, besides maybe being a little bit of a pussy for not going in for a kiss. It's just weird because she's so open about hooking up it almost feels like its a joke and I have no idea how it would work out. Maybe its just me being self-conscious, which it probably is, but do you think this girl is jerking me around (and not in the good way )

[RMO]

I had thre same thing happen to me last year. Except the girl didnt have a boyfriend and I had no idea about PUA anything and it wasnt until later that she was bathing me in IOI's and I was indifferent. i felt really stupid later.
I guess you have a solid chance with her the question is whether or not you really want her.

[Alek]

get number, escalate. Dont bring up the bf again lol.

[lolwut]

i have her number, but i feel like texting her just seems like im deliberately going out of my way to talk to her.

I mean don't u think it makes sense to be mad at her (i mean jokingly mad, but it's not like i should text her and be like "i'm mad at you")?

I have no idea what to do kino wise. Like i've done random shit like laid my head on her lap and just come up really close to her face like we're gonna kiss and i can tell she likes it, but it's just kind of weird and i don't really know when i should actually make a move.

[extra]

Well she seems pretty easy, so just go for it when you want to man. You don't have to stick to any rules like seeming mad or whatever if it isn't working. She seems like the kinda girl that the game doesn't really work as well on, but she makes it really easy for anyone she likes.

With regards to being unresponsive to unresponsiveness, i know a girl like that, and it's definitely a surprise. Keep me updated on what to do and not to do with stuff like that cause I'd like to fuck this girl sometime later. She seems kinda trashy but in an honest way, and idk i just find myself really attracted to it, but not in an immediate way, in a "one day i'm gonna get with that girl" way.

[lolwut]

the thing that makes it weird is she seems like she could be easy, but at the same time she used to never date. Like it's as if she had a transformation or something and just started being more open about everything. weird.

anyways yeah she complains about her boyfriend a lot and how lame he is lol.
either way, ill keep at it and report back

thanks ill rep u guys

[Alek]

dude, why would you be mad at her lol? And you need to talk to her. Text her, and call her.

Invite her out to do something, then just escalate.

[lolwut]

^will do man thanks


edit: she broke up with her boyfriend

wussupppppppppp

[lolwut]

so we hooked up yesterday. She told me i was a bad kisser and i was like ...........

but she said i was better than her ex so i guess thats good. Anyways im thinking of chilling with her more. Any ideas for interesting things to do after school or on dates?

[Deleted]

Oct 28, 2009 21:20:40 GMT -5 lolwut said:

so we hooked up yesterday. She told me i was a bad kisser and i was like ...........

but she said i was better than her ex so i guess thats good. Anyways im thinking of chilling with her more. Any ideas for interesting things to do after school or on dates?

Are you sure this girl isn't just Swinggcat in a disguise?

[ascendancy]

Oct 24, 2009 14:16:48 GMT -5 lolwut said:

i have her number, but i feel like texting her just seems like im deliberately going out of my way to talk to her.

I mean don't u think it makes sense to be mad at her (i mean jokingly mad, but it's not like i should text her and be like "i'm mad at you")?

Yes. She's been baaad, and naughty little girls like her deserve a spakning.

[slithroat]

Alright, well; I haven't the slightest clue what you should do with her because I don't know how she is or how you are personally, but make sure that whatever you do -- YOU ARE NOT IN A COCKFARM. She seems like the kind of girl that would be taken away by a cockfarm. Also, you may want to find out what she likes to do.

The first step would be probably going to like a park or something and just fucking around. If you want a real relationship, get a bond between you two. Vent your frustrations out to her or tell her about your day. Ask her about her day, anything. Try to figure out what she likes and tell her what you're doing like a week later is a surprise then take her to do what she likes to do, do your research on that particular thing and just start talking about it.

Lie if you must, or not. Either way, it may work. However, I find that if you bring out something that's odd that you know she'd like, she'll like you more because you both have a somewhat unique quality not found in many people. That forms a sort of stronger bond between you two and gives you something to talk about when you don't have anything else to talk about.

For example, with some friends of mine I often find we don't have much to talk about after. So I decide to study their habits before hand, while we are talking and analyze them. See what sorts of things they repeat, or that are implied [low self esteem, problems at home, etc.] and after that, I mention it. I tend to be able to bullshit and ramble rather well, and that builds a VERY great bond between me and that certain person.

That's one of the reasons that the people that actually somewhat know me, like me and the others that don't know me are either assholes or don't really want to talk about anything ever with anyone outside of their "clique".

If you take a look and pay attention, you will notice certain things. Finding the cores of their habits are normally good ways to really get to know people; they share one story you share another.

[SenorBubbz]

Oct 31, 2009 5:19:56 GMT -5 slithroat said:

Alright, well; I haven't the slightest clue what you should do with her because I don't know how she is or how you are personally, but make sure that whatever you do -- YOU ARE NOT IN A COCKFARM. She seems like the kind of girl that would be taken away by a cockfarm. Also, you may want to find out what she likes to do.

The first step would be probably going to like a park or something and just fucking around. If you want a real relationship, get a bond between you two. Vent your frustrations out to her or tell her about your day. Ask her about her day, anything. Try to figure out what she likes and tell her what you're doing like a week later is a surprise then take her to do what she likes to do, do your research on that particular thing and just start talking about it.

Lie if you must, or not. Either way, it may work. However, I find that if you bring out something that's odd that you know she'd like, she'll like you more because you both have a somewhat unique quality not found in many people. That forms a sort of stronger bond between you two and gives you something to talk about when you don't have anything else to talk about.

For example, with some friends of mine I often find we don't have much to talk about after. So I decide to study their habits before hand, while we are talking and analyze them. See what sorts of things they repeat, or that are implied [low self esteem, problems at home, etc.] and after that, I mention it. I tend to be able to bullshit and ramble rather well, and that builds a VERY great bond between me and that certain person.

That's one of the reasons that the people that actually somewhat know me, like me and the others that don't know me are either assholes or don't really want to talk about anything ever with anyone outside of their "clique".

If you take a look and pay attention, you will notice certain things. Finding the cores of their habits are normally good ways to really get to know people; they share one story you share another.

I think you used cockfarm wrong or maybe there are two definitions.
What'd you mean?

[slithroat]

I meant like a group of guys that normally stick together and follow girls n shit that aren't really alpha or beta, sorta a little lower than both and just like... fucking try to fuck anyone because of how sad they are.

[lolwut]

im not in a cockfarm lol.

well anyways shits been weird. I feel like when i talk to her she seems more uninterested now and shit. She still approaches me in the halls and w/e but i feel like maybe i might be just trying too hard now.

i might just take it easy and seem like im uninterested to see what happens. Its almost like we hooked up and that was it.

She acts like really open with other guys too. I know she hasn't hooked up with that many people, so its not like shes slutty but still its kinda weird trying to read into her if she just does the same shit with everyone.