Grape
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Post by Grape on Oct 18, 2008 10:34:34 GMT -5
Hey guys  Well I was talking with my friend and apparently he hears a TON of crap about me about how big of an asshole I am. For the past few months I haven't crap talked at all but people DO hold everything I say against me I realized. EX: I said a huge pothead stoner made my buddy's band look bad. He doesn't like me anymore. Apparently, EVERYONE in town views me like this due to: gossip. Since my friend himself is a huge big mouth, should I ignore or take it into serious consideration?? <33 Grape |
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Chris
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Post by Chris on Oct 18, 2008 11:21:46 GMT -5
Maybe cut back on the "assholeness" a little but remember your purpose is not to please other people. The price of success is having some people not like you.
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Zomga48
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Post by Zomga48 on Oct 18, 2008 11:23:58 GMT -5
Yea.. some people are always gonna hate you, if only because you're better than them.
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Post by Andrew on Oct 18, 2008 13:32:51 GMT -5
Still though, there are naturals at my school who are great with women but nobody wants to get with them cause their assholes.
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Johnny Bravo
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Post by Johnny Bravo on Oct 18, 2008 13:50:40 GMT -5
If people think your a major asshole, there is something wrong.
The term asshole, only applies to women.
Go watch the movie my bestfriends girlfriend. If you can't go out to see it, try it online www.watch-movies.net
Watch how he is an Asshole to the women. And a great friend to the guys. Thats what your goal is. To be a dick to girls, and a man to friends.
Otherwise, you'll just be an attractive asshole.
Gay
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Paetar
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Post by Paetar on Oct 18, 2008 18:37:45 GMT -5
Well, there are some people I know that are hated because they are good with women. And I have noticed a thing that almost no-one noticed;
They don't pay enough attention to the guys. They make guys feel unimportant. When they're in the set, they game the girls; but ignore the guys.
So the solution? Gay actually nailed it pretty well; be an asshole to the girls and friend to the guys. Help the guys who need help, joke with those who joke around, enjoy yourself.
I've heard a pretty good quote a long time before;
"Strangers are just friends waiting to be met."
Follow it.
And enjoy! Carpe Diem.
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Paetar
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Post by Paetar on Oct 18, 2008 18:41:06 GMT -5
Btw, the gossip goes away pretty fast. I know it.
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Grape
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Post by Grape on Oct 20, 2008 16:52:06 GMT -5
It was actually because the friend telling me this stuff was twisting others' words. Ehh, I thought it over and realized I shouldn't even take this stuff into consideration and this so called 'friend' is an 'enemy.' Freeze-out |
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Post by Andrew on Oct 20, 2008 17:01:58 GMT -5
grape, dont forget robert greene! xD
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