something like six-itis...

[SamethP]

yea, my mind is completey frazzled at the moment and i have no idea what im doing

In a few places im pretty much screwed because there is more than one girl who loves me... or whatever they define as love... obsession in some cases =.=
And i dont know how to get out of them
i didnt even mean to get the to like me like that, some of them i wasnt even trying to be friends with... some of them i only know over the internet...
Out of all the girls, there is one that ive f*closed, and #closed the other two that im actually interested...
I dont really want to be with the f*close one now days, but shes like semi obsessed...

One of the #number closes ive been trying my own pathetic game on her for the past... what? four or five months or some shit...

and the other, I would definately be in a real relationship with her right now if it wasnt for two factors... one, i practically never see her because she lives ages away... and two, i have serious trust issues when it comes to relationships... been cheated on a shitload of times and on the majority of those times i had a feeling something wasnt right... and bam.... but fuck, i dont know how to get over the trust thing, its a massive killer, especially when loads of guys are talking to her as well =.=

Im sure one person here has had trust issues at some stage, some advice would be more than greatly appreciated...

I dunno what to do,
I mean, ive got my life in order (school, sport, dance etc) but this is the only area where I cant seem to even get a fingerhold in...

I really need some help from the community guys...

I hate one-itis...

Peace, RoboCop

[nine]

To be honest with you my whole trust thing is shot. It's like whatever mechanism people come with to think that mynogomy is the only answer doesn't work with me. I tell girls it's ok if they want to be with other guys so long as the TELL me about it for sanitary issues.

I don't know though, I just never get emotionally attached as though I think of a girl as mine. Don't get me wrong, I can enjoy a girl's company and all but I never feel the need to even label a relationship as exclusive.

Guess I'm not really the guy to help you, sorry

Nine

[Andrew]

I think if you come across as someone who wont take shit like that (cheating, etc.) and someone who lets others know when something is unacceptable to you, people are less likely to do shit like that to you

[Chris]

I agree with Andrew on the trust issue. Make honesty a standard with girls and people in general and that you wont put up with dishonestly and flakiness. Communicate this standard early on.

[SamethP]

tru tru
but i dunno
im hell lost =[

[Luc]

truthfully if i were you the first thing i would do is get rid of the ones that are obsessed/semi-obsessed. I've had this problem before and i just told them that i didn't have feelings for them. That always sucks and i wish i had a nice way of doing it but usually honesty is the best policy.

that's all i really know to help you out w/ at this point
good luck man

[SamethP]

thanx man

[Luc]

of course thats what we are here for

[SamethP]

=]
im getting rid of em
and starting afresh

thanx heaps everyone