red hair

[terabate]

I have dark red hair. A lot of girls I've talked to say they aren't attracted to red heads. Throwing all personality aside, would I increase my success by changing my hair color along with my personality?

I want brutally honest opinions, not "just be you" plz.

[Deleted]

*ahem*

Well, you need to learn to accept yourself. Love yourself. Nobody should tell you how you should look or how you should live your life.

Do you absolutely hate your red hair?

If yes: Look into hair dyes. This is only if your decision is based off you and you alone. I personally would never dye my hair, but this decision is yours alone.

If no: Fuck them. It doesn't matter what others say because you are you and you love yourself.

Moral of the story: "Just be you"

[Alek]

dude, dying your hair is perfectly cool. since your a red head, i assume your pale. If so, youd look good with blonde hair.

Dying your hair would make it look better - in fact a little bit of color in everyone's hair makes it look good. But make sure you go to someplace that is GOOD. A good salon. Not a chain, a good place.

[Ari Gold]

Brutal opinion: stop being a fag. Don't dye your hair. God was like, yo dude. Ima make you a ginger. Deal with it. So basically, tell them girls your different and blah. Also, you sound mighty familiar.

[RMO]

okay, ive dyed my hair a few diffrent colors and I have to agree with Aaron, you have to do it becuase you want to, nto becuase some girl told you to, man you should be like

fuck em

you need to be comfortable with yourself.

but dyeing your hair is a way to try new things, to step outside the box.

and ajaax, what you said is bullshit, "dont be a fag, don't dye your hair, God was like, yo dude"
what about the forum your own, a PUA forum, your god did not instill us all 'natural' instincts, but we adapted, we learned, that is what makes us human.

Brutal opinion: Sure people tell you all the time
'just be you'
The issue is you dont know who 'you' are yet, so experiment, find what is you. so dont change for other people man.

[Alek]

do what looks cooler if ya like it!

Btw, dont dye your hair yourself unless its a darker color, if you go lighter (like blonde) and try to do it yourself, itll wind up turning orange - not kewl

[nikkisixx]

MAKEOVER!

People will notice,and guys will rip on you at first.

but don't worry about what other people think. One of my close friends (and one of the more popular guys at school) dyes his hair blond>brown, and he seems happy with it.
If you think having a different hair color might make you happier do it, but if you want to do it for other people-like the girls you were talking about- then dont.

[aarenlainey]

Well I think dying your hair is like you want to get some change in your personality. I would say stick to a personality for a while and if you want to change take it and let the color come and if you don't like the color die it again. Dont care waht other says just look at your self and if you are feeling comfortable with your personality than go ahead. Hope all goes well.

[Grape]

dude. it's all bs. girls always say "i'm not attracted to red heads."

...until they meet my red head friend...who they instantly swoon over because he's so damn good looking.

don't dye your hair.

however, you should definitely know how to make it look good.
<3

[sharkoffs]

Listen bro you gotta learn, THE NUMBER 1 RULE IN PUA DON'T EVER LISTEN TO GIRLS THEY DON'T KNOW WTF THEY ARE TALKING ABOUT.

Prime Examples, i'm hooking up with my exclusive fuck buddy, first she says we have to use a condom if were gonna have sex, i say ok, ten minutes later were fucking with no condom, all of sudden shes like I don't wanna do this im like ok, 20 minutes later were fucking again with no condom and she orgasms twice. I want to fuck her in the ass shes like no and then 5 minutes later after her third orgasm im fucking her in the ass with NO condom.

TL;DR: Stop listening to girls because they don't know what they want.

[zegoni]

Dye it. Experiment.

You won't get your own perfect personal style that just smashes everybody else's style at sight without experimenting. Some things will be bad, some thing will be alright, but eventually you'll find something that's just plain awesome.

[jasikazenith]

Red hair,you want to change your hair colour then you choose a best hair colour or you use a henna,henna available in many colour,you use it and this a best for a hair.

[divijblaze]

Red hair, change your hair color you choose the best hair color you use henna, henna available in several colors or, you use it and its better for you.

[perceverance]

Learn to love yourself and other people will start loving you as well.

[sexyguy]

if you could send in a picture of your hair it would help a ton thanks