Post by scholz on May 10, 2010 16:59:18 GMT -5
Hey there, everyone!
My name is Tom and I'm a rAFC / Aspiring PUA
I found this forum through another PUA forum but this one seems to have a much bigger focus on Natural game which is exactly what I'm looking for!
I'm 18 years old, I've had 1 serious relationship that lasted 2 months, that was about 2 years ago and I can't seem to get a girl ever since which has, in all honesty, led me into a life of negativity and enough bottled up hatred to instagib Spongebob himself.
A little while ago I stumbled upon PUA and it has somewhat begun to open my eyes, I've been looking around for a good PUA community and I think I finally found one! ^^
One thing I must ask though, is that I sometimes still wonder if PUA would be something that's right for me to do. For example: I read a guide here named "From Psych to Natural!" and at one point this guide "offered" a choice
Do you want to be an egotistic natural who happens to be a LOT of fun to hang around with and get lots of pussy
or
Be a generally fun person who has a lot more morality than a natural and still be able to pick up women but just not as easily as a natural himself?
In all honesty, people. I'm aiming to be that latter option. Building my self-esteem and being happy with who I am is much more important to me then getting a girl is. It's not so much the fact that not having a girlfriend is what making me frustrated. It's the fact that I feel (And have painfully experienced a few times since my last GF) that I simply can't GET a girl. I want to build myself to be at my best. I don't have to be a ladiesman, As long as I know that being single would be a choice rather then something I can't help anyway is what I'm generally aiming for.
My name is Tom and I'm a rAFC / Aspiring PUA
I found this forum through another PUA forum but this one seems to have a much bigger focus on Natural game which is exactly what I'm looking for!
I'm 18 years old, I've had 1 serious relationship that lasted 2 months, that was about 2 years ago and I can't seem to get a girl ever since which has, in all honesty, led me into a life of negativity and enough bottled up hatred to instagib Spongebob himself.
A little while ago I stumbled upon PUA and it has somewhat begun to open my eyes, I've been looking around for a good PUA community and I think I finally found one! ^^
One thing I must ask though, is that I sometimes still wonder if PUA would be something that's right for me to do. For example: I read a guide here named "From Psych to Natural!" and at one point this guide "offered" a choice
Do you want to be an egotistic natural who happens to be a LOT of fun to hang around with and get lots of pussy
or
Be a generally fun person who has a lot more morality than a natural and still be able to pick up women but just not as easily as a natural himself?
In all honesty, people. I'm aiming to be that latter option. Building my self-esteem and being happy with who I am is much more important to me then getting a girl is. It's not so much the fact that not having a girlfriend is what making me frustrated. It's the fact that I feel (And have painfully experienced a few times since my last GF) that I simply can't GET a girl. I want to build myself to be at my best. I don't have to be a ladiesman, As long as I know that being single would be a choice rather then something I can't help anyway is what I'm generally aiming for.
well. sure first start SOCIALIZING 
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