Post by cdcdubois on May 19, 2010 22:58:56 GMT -5
Incomming Wall O' Text
Ok, well I would like to start off with...I have never really had a "real" girlfriend, so basically I have no game either because...well...I dont have very much confidence in my "game" abilities and I would rather not know a girl and just see them around than have them think im a creep and have them hate me.
Well, now that I got that off my chest; here is where my problem starts.
There is this attractive girl that I like in my grade (Sophomore), but due to my confidence in myself and my abilites, I have never really ever talked to her for more than like...."Hey, what homework did we have for english" and even then I try to avoid that, because I just feel wrong for asking.
So, a couple of months ago during Valentine's Day she got a rose from another guy in front of most of the grade in gym. Well...seeing as I got jealous...I started to make faces and my friend somehow saw my face and realized that I liked her. So, once they corned me in a conversation (they are kinda pretty big dicks) and had me admit to it, they would start to tease me about it and have me try and talk to her. Well, I just didnt feel ready to talk to her and they were still trying to push me into doing it. After about a month of this happening, she found out that I liked her, but then my friends still continued to tease me about the situation and even more obvious than before.
This still goes on today...in fact...it happened again today in my English class where one of my friends would just say out loud " Hey, dont you like *insert name here in caps*" and then I just stare at him for a moment trying to act cool and blow it off.
I do think about her alot and I might think i have a case of "Oneitis".
Part of me absolutely thinks that I am not good enough for her and another part of me says "fuck, that I need to do something", but whenever I try to do anything my mind just stops and I go back to my non-confident self.
Now, I am pretty skinny and I told myself that I would achieve a(or atleast try to) achieve a six pack by the end of summer and I was going to do some pectoral workout so I dont look so skinny (I have been currently doing this for about 4 weeks) and then maybe I would have enough confidence in myself to maybe just talk with her.
Another problem is...now that she knows that I liked her...how do I talk to her without her have the midset "He just wants to go out with me etc". It pretty much destroys my ability to talk to her when I think she knows that thats all I am going to do.
Also, another thing that hurts me..is that I know that I am atleeeasst a average looking guy and she has said that "I have a good profile" (which i heard from a friend) in which we translated into "You have a good looking face", which made me ecstatic, but I still somehow cant find the confidence to talk to her and such.
One last thing is that most people think that I am a nerd. (Fuck ya lord of the rings
), but I know I dress the way "cool" kids dress. Polo and and jeans with maybe some cologne and some nice looking tenis shoes. Also, I am pretty athletic. There is only one sport that I suck at and thats basketball, but I never liked it anyway, so meh. She plays soccar and welll...I dont...I used to play for 5 years, but that was about 6 years ago and I am pretty rusty. I was thinking about joining Junior year with a friend to make sure it isnt creeper and that i am only doing it for her (i love soccar btw 
), so that kinda cuts me off on a topic I could talk to her about. I also have a big thing for my hair looking good. I find that it makes me look good...so if my hair doesnt look good....I dont look good
Really sorry for the huge post...If you need me to clarify on anything or such I am willing to do so. Hope yall can help
Ok, well I would like to start off with...I have never really had a "real" girlfriend, so basically I have no game either because...well...I dont have very much confidence in my "game" abilities and I would rather not know a girl and just see them around than have them think im a creep and have them hate me.
Well, now that I got that off my chest; here is where my problem starts.
There is this attractive girl that I like in my grade (Sophomore), but due to my confidence in myself and my abilites, I have never really ever talked to her for more than like...."Hey, what homework did we have for english" and even then I try to avoid that, because I just feel wrong for asking.
So, a couple of months ago during Valentine's Day she got a rose from another guy in front of most of the grade in gym. Well...seeing as I got jealous...I started to make faces and my friend somehow saw my face and realized that I liked her. So, once they corned me in a conversation (they are kinda pretty big dicks) and had me admit to it, they would start to tease me about it and have me try and talk to her. Well, I just didnt feel ready to talk to her and they were still trying to push me into doing it. After about a month of this happening, she found out that I liked her, but then my friends still continued to tease me about the situation and even more obvious than before.
This still goes on today...in fact...it happened again today in my English class where one of my friends would just say out loud " Hey, dont you like *insert name here in caps*" and then I just stare at him for a moment trying to act cool and blow it off.
I do think about her alot and I might think i have a case of "Oneitis".
Part of me absolutely thinks that I am not good enough for her and another part of me says "fuck, that I need to do something", but whenever I try to do anything my mind just stops and I go back to my non-confident self.
Now, I am pretty skinny and I told myself that I would achieve a(or atleast try to) achieve a six pack by the end of summer and I was going to do some pectoral workout so I dont look so skinny (I have been currently doing this for about 4 weeks) and then maybe I would have enough confidence in myself to maybe just talk with her.
Another problem is...now that she knows that I liked her...how do I talk to her without her have the midset "He just wants to go out with me etc". It pretty much destroys my ability to talk to her when I think she knows that thats all I am going to do.
Also, another thing that hurts me..is that I know that I am atleeeasst a average looking guy and she has said that "I have a good profile" (which i heard from a friend) in which we translated into "You have a good looking face", which made me ecstatic, but I still somehow cant find the confidence to talk to her and such.
One last thing is that most people think that I am a nerd. (Fuck ya lord of the rings
), but I know I dress the way "cool" kids dress. Polo and and jeans with maybe some cologne and some nice looking tenis shoes. Also, I am pretty athletic. There is only one sport that I suck at and thats basketball, but I never liked it anyway, so meh. She plays soccar and welll...I dont...I used to play for 5 years, but that was about 6 years ago and I am pretty rusty. I was thinking about joining Junior year with a friend to make sure it isnt creeper and that i am only doing it for her (i love soccar btw 
), so that kinda cuts me off on a topic I could talk to her about. I also have a big thing for my hair looking good. I find that it makes me look good...so if my hair doesnt look good....I dont look goodReally sorry for the huge post...If you need me to clarify on anything or such I am willing to do so. Hope yall can help
