I think looks DO matter in high school

[bravo]

Hey guys, when I jumped into the game, I kept hearing that looks dont matter and stuff, and its all confidence etc. But I would have to disagree with this. I was walking downtown with a friend of mine today, we are both 16 and he is VERY good looking (no homo). All the girls our age were checking him out and giggling, and he is not confident at all, he never even noticed it, I did! I got no attention because all the girls kept looking at him, and one really hot girl he made eye contact with for a second shot her head down as if she was intimidated by his looks. God damn life is so unfair! That means I have to wait until I get into college to get all the hot girls because they will be mature by then and will not be looking for all "looks". I mean literally every girl kept looking at him when I was clearly leading and controlling the conversation between him and I, I was the leader, but I got nothing just because he is "hot" in high school. Also he has no game, and I went to a teen club with him and he made out with like 5 girls, and I have a little game, and all I got was a few slow dances and some girls checking me out, thats it!

Theres a cool post that eastcoast wrote about if looks matter in high school, It really helped me out.

Do looks matter in high school?

[phunclesam]

don't throw in the towel just yet. looks will only get him so far. OF COURSE he was getting checked out, because without any interaction, looks are the only thing girls can base their impression of you off of.

[bravo]

Yea, but he has NO game. Like when we went to the teen club, he said the most AFC shit and he still got 5 makeouts. Like he said the dumbest stuff that a girl would laugh at me if I said. They still were all over him even though they felt he had no game. One of the girls even asked him if he was "ok" after she made out with him because he said the dumbest shit but he still proceded to make out with her again right after. He is just really good looking, it sucks that some people dont even have to work for shit when some guys devote their life studying how to get the amount of pussy he gets. He even has a girl that he invites over and fucks every week, and this guy is only 16!!! I know I shouldnt be talking about him like this because he is one of my best friends, but it just pisses me off that he was blessed by the random gene pool.

[phunclesam]

be happy for him, him having success has nothing to do with your own success or failures.

[bravo]

Yes, Im happy for him. But I just wish it was that easy for me lol.

[Ari Gold]

No one ever said this game was easy. Or life.

[Shampoo]

I honestly dont see what the problem is... What just cause hes drop dead gorgeous you cant get girls? Mabe you might not get the girls that are sprung on him but I am pretty damn SURE you can get girls. Get excuses out of your head. If you are a smash mouth football team which means you love to just run on the defence. DO YOU think they are complaining that they cant win games because their not good at passing? You think their ganna convert to a passing team cause thats what ALL good teams do? HELL TO THE FUCKING NO! Same with this non sense, your probably not gorgeous so you gotta study pua. But youll be smarter and be able to get as much or even MORE girls than he can cause YOU sir know how to play the game BETTER THAN HIM

[Calli]

Yes I 100% agree with you that looks matter. Sometimes in PUA I hear that looks have no importance, but this is usually written by some guru who wants guys to feel good about themselves so they buy his products.

There is little you can do to change your looks, so dwelling on it is not going to give you any benefit.

I think its perfectly reasonable for you to be frustrated or jealous of this guy, most people would feel the same way. Just don't waste too much time worrying about something you can't change, and focus on things you can improve, like your game and your style.

[Shampoo]

^^^ Oh yeah he reminded me lol I had kinda the same issue about this, I was pissed about how shitty my class was until when there was 2 months of school left and I learned my classmates were pretty damn cool. Accept your reality and move on. Or else youll miss valuable time and regret it. I have it in my journal haha

[Luis the awesomest of awesomes]

looks matter but without congruence and fun to back you up you're going nowhere with girls

[bravo]

Aug 14, 2010 4:33:35 GMT -5 Calli said:

Yes I 100% agree with you that looks matter. Sometimes in PUA I hear that looks have no importance, but this is usually written by some guru who wants guys to feel good about themselves so they buy his products.

There is little you can do to change your looks, so dwelling on it is not going to give you any benefit.

I think its perfectly reasonable for you to be frustrated or jealous of this guy, most people would feel the same way. Just don't waste too much time worrying about something you can't change, and focus on things you can improve, like your game and your style.

YES.

[Chris]

quit being a victim. really. you are acting as tho the environment
and your conditions are controlling your life, a victim mindset.
maybe THATS one of the reasons your not getting as much as
youd like. your complaining that looks matter so much and that
your just gonna wait until girls are more mature? fuck that man.

fact of the matter is, looks do matter, but they arent a deal
breaker. straight up. do the best you can with what you have.
dress cool, be well put together.

if ur not getting as much as you want, you need to practice more
in the field instead of bitching about how unfair life is. sure life
isnt fair. but why not make that work in your favor?

[hoops45]

looks matter but not enough that it should bother you. if you have game you'll get girls.
if your problem is that when you're out with him he gets all the attention, i guess you could try peacocking. or just get over it.

[perceverance]

guys. i keep hearing that if you have game you'll get girls. what about a specific girl? what if you walk into a room and have a target? what are the probabilities that you will be able to score with her if you dont look like a prince? of course you'll get girls if you have game but the real art is being able to choose a girl and get her.

[bravo]

This is what I was getting at. He can have his selection of ANY girl, I have to work my game really hard even to pull an 8. Whereas he gets 10's by just walking in a room.