New member of forum and life

[hyperfulltwist]

Hi guys
I'm 14 and I'm definitely an AFC.
When I'm talking with guys, I don't give a shit about what they think about me; with girls, however, I get nervous and I'm always thinking about what they think of me.

When I was 12, I got depressed and I never really socialized.
As of now, I try to make a conscious effort to meet people but I'm really shy.

If anyone can give me some advice on what to say when talking to girls and people in general, it would be greatly appreciated. : )

[kidd]

Hey, just wanted to welcome you to the forum even doe i just joined a few days ago :/ I could relate to the depression.. ive been there before.. as for what to say when talking to girls.. im a pretty shy person myself but ive learned that noone can tell you what to say. you just need to be confindent in yourself and just talk about what ever comes to mind.. but like i said im new here myself so im basically where your at rght now.. hope you reach the goals you came here with
Kidd

[SamethP]

Hey dude, wow you're starting young haha but welcome to the forums nonetheless
Kidd is right, there is nowhere on the internet or in any book that can tell you exactly what to say when, its all about experience and developing your own game take in the advice from everyone and just get out there and have some fun in all honesty

[hyperfulltwist]

haha, isn't this a 'highschool' forum? i'm assuming the range of ages is from like 13-20 around here
well anyway i'm not after sex just yet; though i'm sure learning this stuff will help later one ; )

so if u can choose what to say, what's the point of rountines and other shit?
are u meant to integrate planned and unplanned dialogue together?

[SamethP]

hahaha yeah it is, but youre the youngest i've met haha

i never said it wasnt helpful mate, just that its not going to give you the answers. they can act as your guide toward your own style, where you make up your own planned stuff.