Need Advice

[SamethP]

yea, apparently ive been two timing o.O

the i f*closed a few weeks back and this girl who ive been gaming online added each other...

i even told the f*close one that i dont like her more than a friend
and now shes saying that she though i love her...

and the online one (who i havnt even had the privilege to meet yet, is going to find out soon enough, and im gonna have two girls, who are over-reacting in my opinion spreading that im a player etc around
and have groups of guys who are gonna wanna kick the shit outta me... therefore im restricted to where i can actually go...

i know that i shouldve been honest to them about other girls, but i made the connections with them before i discovered PUA and i didnt know how to tell them properly...

i need some help, this is killing me physocologically

[SamethP]

dw guys, someone can close this
i decided to tackle it head on and test my character, i believe im up to it and i can handle anything that is thrown at me >=)

btw, i found evidence for the belief that this is MY life and they are just in it
see, it aint all bad

EDIT
yup, my character is greater than two angry females, i was able to create a frame that i am innocent and then keep it =]
my beliefs are going to be powering now

[Grape]

Uhh, maybe the chick was a virgin or something..
Freeze her out if you have to.

[SamethP]

probs
im feeling like doing a permenant freeze out on both of them

[Grape]

yeah, if they had a bad vibe, avoid them.
emotions are contagious

[nine]

Nov 3, 2008 15:28:00 GMT -5 Grape said:

yeah, if they had a bad vibe, avoid them.

This, is advice to live by. Not just for females, but for every person you'll ever meet. That's how I deal with people, if they're overly negative and don't know how to laugh, then I don't associate with them.

Nine

[SamethP]

they have both been permanently blocked etc
im gonna keep a lookout for these vibes now

[Grape]

Sadly my filthy rich school is filled with those kinds.

[nine]

Nov 4, 2008 15:28:57 GMT -5 Grape said:

Sadly my filthy rich school is filled with those kinds.

Hey, I'll trade spots with you ;D

Nine

[Andrew]

dude, this isnt necesarily a bad thing. Psychologically it might be killing you, but your developing a rep. Whats that saying about no matter what someone says about you its good?

You may be developing a bad rep as a playa, but when all this hoohah dies down, the girls and guys are gonna forget all the bad stuff and be left with the value and good stuff.

[optimus]

Way to be upfront. Always the best approach.

As to the rep, just tell someone the story from your point of view (keeping the inocent frame), if you've DHV than the girls, your version will win.

[SamethP]

yea, well i am in the clear
wasnt dating either, therefore no cheating
but meh, its all good