Relationships Squad

[RMO]

Welcome all to the Relationships Squad.

Relationships. This is where normal PUA ends. As long as you act normal, as to not let loose shit tests, theres not really any useful stuff out there.

This squad can discuss friends with benefits through dating and beyond. This is one of the most difficult parts of game, it turns mPUAs into little bitches and can annihilate many people who dont know what their doing. This squad will be less mentor-student and more of a general discussion of the concept and peoples experience as well as a center for advice.

Offical Squad Rules : cl.ly/072T35292j1u3D3i1J3V

[RMO]

I personally feel that I could go to any of these squads and do just fine, but I think this is the squad for me. I'm currently in a relationship with the crazy, yet fun, jealous girl. I will be posting progress and more then willing to have fun discussions. Heres the link to the current crazy for all those interested in checking it out.

cl.ly/042B062n0Z3I40112q0I

UPDATE: I have updated the report

If anyone has any tips on heart to heart communication that would be awesome

[slyman]

I'm gonna be in this squad for now, as I believe that random hookups are fine, but its 20x better in a relationship. The connection takes it to a whole new level from my experience.

I've only had 1 real girlfriend, and it was freshman year. I'm now a Junior, and on the verge of starting a relationship with a really cool, fun HB8.

Is it just me and you so far Prod? I think we will get a lot more followers, especially after the AFC's learn how to get chicks naturally and figure out its about one at a time.

Thats another thing - I find it difficult for me to hook up w/ more than 1 chick at a time. Even if I'm not in a relationship with them, I keep on thinking about the other girls who I'm getting with while hooking up with another girl. I dont think thats healthy. 1 at a time for me is ideal - im sure many will disagree, but I dont.

Heart to heart communication - vital in any relationship, and even encounter. Some things I do is great eye-contact, kino, and being very physically close to them, preferably sitting. For the verbal part, if you are the one opening up, I find that letting her talk and reflect on what your saying makes it a more mutual experience rather than a therapy session. and obviously, isolation. must isolate during heart to heart.

hope this helps, as a new "pua" (not actual pua, just have had some success lately with natural game) giving an experienced pua like yourself advice I feel a little overmatched, but hopefully this helps man.

good job setting everything up also.

[Nick]

Hmm. This is the last squad I thought I'd be joining. After I thought about it, this is where I want to be.

slyman, I really liked your post. It made sense.

[DanZy]

I'm in this one but I'm going to contribute to all of them. Currently I'm in a relationship and am bored of hookups. Personally I want to improve my game in any way possible and take myself from PUA to mPUA

[owl]

Hey, this is the squad for me.

I'm going to be straightforward. I'm not a monogamous guy. But, I do realize that monogamous, dedicated relationships with a single person, at least from my social environment, are pretty much the only thing accepted.

I've tried to get into no strings attached relationships. For the past year, I've been trying to get into a "friends with benefits" stage with girls, with only a little success.

For me, this squad will be dedicated to reaching that plateau of relationships, and perhaps, if I find a girl I like enough, stick with her for a while. I'm not opposed to relationships, it just won't suit me best at this time. Looking forward to this though.

[RMO]

I would like to give a little piece of my mind on experience and advice.

If you ever find someone who is particularly knowledgeable in any field, be it medicine, academia, strategy, ect ect ask them if they know everything about their topic. Now ask someone who has a vague interest in the same topic, whats going to become apparent frightfully fast is that the expert knows how much he DOESNT know. The only way to explain it is to say te apprentice thinks he is a master, and the master thinks he is an apprentice.

I personally am not a master, especially in relationships. I play fast and hard with the hottest and bitchest girls because their not interested in relationships. I'm a man whore who holds a self professed harem. No I'm with someone that i might actually 'care' about. I removed the sex component of the relationship, and now its fucked. I thought shes just a pure girl, i wouldnt dream of it, now that image of purity has fucked my whole game into the wall.

I joined this squad because I want to learn, I joined and kept up with this forum because I want to learn, I need to learn.

friends w/ benefits doesnt work. Duality is why. You need sex and comfort. I tried it even before this girl, you can have a booty call, but not a long term strategy. I would love for someone to prove me totally wrong, but thats what my current experience tells me.

but we got 4 squad members, we have enough momentum to actually get some discussions going. I recommend skype, but thats just me.

[slyman]

I posted this in the relationships thread, but how do you guys transition from hooking up w/ a girl to being in a relationship with a girl?

[slyman]

hey guys i decided that i really need to be in the escalation squad, but I will be back once I feel comfortable with that.

[owl]

Prodigy, let's work on a way to making friends with benefits as a viable alternative to "solid" relationships. If not that, I think combining elements of both long term and FWB relationships into one could help all of us out.

I know couples whom are committed to each other but pretty open in terms of openness in the relationship. There is a way, let's iron out the deets.

I think a relationship squad skype sesh is in order.

[RMO]

Whens the best time for you guys? I'm going to be unavailable fri-weekend and if Danzy is in south africa we are on opposite side of the planet

[owl]

Any night really after 6, I'm up late. How about Sunday nights?

[RMO]

sunday works for me whats your time zone? Im in AK so I'm -9 UTC

my skype is thomas.is.gold BTW

[Nick]

I'm in.

Skype: nkcrpn

Time zone: -6 Central Time

I'm open sundays.

[owl]

Edit: I'm also from the central time zone.

skype: patrick.matteo27