7/Easy target or 9/Extremely hard target.

[nine]

So I have this one-itis. She's a 9, no exaggeration and she's really fun to be around, but currently she has a bf and I pretty sure I've friend-zoned myself by not escalating quick enough. I've already read Chris's amazing post on breaking LJBF and it seems like a lot of work, plus I'd have to use bf destroyers, which I'm not very experienced at.

On the other hand this 7 I've known for a year now is really feeling me, like I seriously think she'd put out if I played it right. The thing is, it's so easy I've lost interest. So I pose a question to you: in the instance of losing my virginity should I strive for excellence as I've always done and go for the 9, potentially meaning I could be a virgin for another 6-8 months, or do I go for the almost sure thing?

I've thought this over and my best friend says the 7 but I'm sure that I won't want her for anything else besides sex. Not that this is a bad thing, but that quote, "Leave her better than you found her," keeps eating away at me.

Nine

[SenorBubbz]

Go for the HB9 because by doing that, you'll be getting better at an aspect of you're game that's not so strong right now, destroying a boyfriend. So it will make you better and you'll feel better because it's a bigger accomplishment.

[Andrew]

Definately. Hold yourself to standards, and others will too. Thats like taking the easy way out xD

[Luc]

Think of what will make you happier
Is it better to lose your v plates with the 7 or fight for the 9?

[nine]

Gay and I had a discussion about this and we both came to the decision of the 7. We reasoned that I might as well get it over with and if she does end up wanting a relationship breaking up with her will be less of a dick move then just using her.

Thanks guys,
Nine

[sylar]

Why not both?

Use the 7 for social proof, which will be a DHV to the 9. Even if you can't have them in the same room at the same time, embed things about her in your stories or put her in a position to see text messages she sends you.

[nine]

Nov 7, 2008 10:47:19 GMT -5 sylar said:

Why not both?

Use the 7 for social proof, which will be a DHV to the 9. Even if you can't have them in the same room at the same time, embed things about her in your stories or put her in a position to see text messages she sends you.

The 9 is a very possessive girl and the 7 is very insecure. The 9 would just get angry and the 7 would be heartbroken if she found out she'd been took.

NIne

[optimus]

I'm with sylar. If you're causing that kind of commotion you're gaming wrong.

Take the seven with you to a party that nine throws, if you are gaming nine right otherwise, this will socialproof and DHV. Be totally upfront with seven. You think she's great but LJBF etc.

BONUS: this doubles as a test. If nine asks you about it, it's an IOI. (a lot more meaningful if she asks after the party.)

[nine]

Nov 9, 2008 1:22:03 GMT -5 optimus said:

I'm with sylar. If you're causing that kind of commotion you're gaming wrong.

Take the seven with you to a party that nine throws, if you are gaming nine right otherwise, this will socialproof and DHV. Be totally upfront with seven. You think she's great but LJBF etc.

BONUS: this doubles as a test. If nine asks you about it, it's an IOI. (a lot more meaningful if she asks after the party.)

Whoa, your use of the actual word 'nine' through me off for a second ;D

The 9 doesn't throw parties, but I'm telling you: She'd just either A) Run back to her bf and try to make me jealous or B) Text me later insulting the girl.

Plus the 7 is a friend of all my friends, they'd be ok if we broke up after getting together, but if I led her along then ditched her I'd never be able to sit with my back to a door again.

Nine

[SamethP]

could always do something that no1 has mentioned yet...
go neither. this has a lot of complications, and the odds of leaving her better than when you found her will be extremely difficult.

thats just my two cents, but ive been in situations like this in my AFC days, itll be hard to have your cake and eat it to.

[nutrick]

Nov 9, 2008 8:01:26 GMT -5 SamethP said:

could always do something that no1 has mentioned yet...
go neither. this has a lot of complications, and the odds of leaving her better than when you found her will be extremely difficult.

thats just my two cents, but ive been in situations like this in my AFC days, itll be hard to have your cake and eat it to.

hmm those things are from "the game" no? (cake metaphor and ross jeffries belief ) lol just pointing that out.

i'd go with getting the 9 and LJBFing the 7 (or friend with benefits.. if possible) i agree that you should work on the part of your game that you're not very experienced at, it'll only help you grow. as for your 7, you should be straight up with what you want from her.

[kristallnachte]

she's not a 7 if she's an easy target

[manslaughter]

go gay

[friedice]

^hahahahaha go gay

but now why stress ur self out go for the hb7 its no challenge but thats just me... I HAVE ONE QUESTION ARE YOU IN LOVE WITH THIS HB9 if so then steal her or try n get her and the 7 in bed for a threesome:)

[Alek]

dudes, this thread is like a year old...why do new people always bump old threads lol.