Help! convo log what did she mean

[lowp]

okay so this girl and i are friends~ atm, we've hung out outside of school once but nothing other than flirting went down, and shes kind of into this totallll douchebag, and i dont say that because im into her, this kid just looks like the biggest douche EVER. proof- www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=1463266306454&set=a.1380361073875.2053070.1377375662&pid=31007922&id=1377375662

Her:so this is a facebook im log between me and the girl
he told me he tthinks he likes meeg
meeh*

Me:thats soooo wack. that kid is a fucking pretentious douchebag, just look at him taylor. hes trying to look a certain way that he thinks will be appealing he wears his little fucking beany like hes some artsy motherfucker sdgah idk why i hate that kid so much, but im right about this kind of thing, im tellin ya

Her:ahhhshutup and go poop

Me:nothing that i can say will change anything, but you deserve better than some retro wannabe skater image absorbed person, you really do
SPEACHLESS


Her:im not sure if ur being sarcastic but if uur not, thts really sweet (:
( ^^^)
RWHRUGHPV


Me:and i wasnt being sarcastic, silly

Her:aw your so sweet!



shes a year younger than me, so i have the upperclassmen thing going for me, but yeah, any tips or thoughts, i dont know, w.e you guys can think of

[jester]

Lol. You sound really pissed off here haha.
1. Forget about the other guys. From now on, when you talk with a girl, you are no longer going to mention "other guys, or your competition". Unlessss it's in the context of the convo. When you diss the guy you sound like a low value asshole.
2. The fact that she says she is not sure whether or not you are sarcastic shows the weirdness of why you are so worried about the douchey artsy guy.
Don't take this as a negfest-you-suck response, it will come in time!

[canadiankid]

^pretty much sums it up

[tails]

The fact that you reacted so strongly to him, prompts her into protecting him.

What you should have done is qualified him, and then disqualified him afterwards. Especially in High School. You need to let her understand she loses social value just by being with him.

For example: "Hmm yah I've seen him around, he seems like a cool kid. How do you know him?" and after you have qualified him you can say "Hmm what do you think about his beany?" or just try to find the smallest thing about him she dislikes. Make HER say something about HIM she doesn't like.

Then focus in on that and make it so she loses social value by being with him => "Lol yeah you're kinda right. Haha I can just picture you with him hahaha, you and beanie guy lol. People would look and be like wtf?! Lol don't worry I'll be takin pictures for your future "Never should have done these things" collection xP ."
She might go like "noooo~ haha stop messing around"
And just amplify the frame. "Well, look at it on the bright side! You get the entire school's attention for a month or so as Beany's new girl lol. Not sure how well it would sit with your next boyfriend tho lol."

[manwhore]

^ na man.

[Contempt]

Tails thats a good theory, but its a much better idea to just not talk about other guys in general while texting a girl.

[manwhore]

Feb 3, 2011 18:09:33 GMT -5 Contempt said:

Tails thats a good theory

enough said.

[canadiankid]

Communism was good, in theory, as well... But it's never worked...

[Nick]

Communism didn't run the entire world, though, so it didn't *really* happen, but that's another story


I don't think you should EVER insult someone a girl is/was with or even thinks about. In fact, it's usually not even a good idea to put someone else down in general. If she ever brings up a guy (cause you better not!), just ignore that she even said it, or say as little as possible. You could also use the BF Destroyer thing where you talk about how *perfect* the guy is and then she convinces herself out of the relationship.

Just don't put people down. It's not a good thing to do at all.... unless of course your ego needs fed...

[canadiankid]

Yeah that's the thing, Communism has failed every time before it actually gets started lol but that's another matter (I'm doing ideologies in social right now lol it's clogging up my brain )

But I agree with your answer bolt

[jester]

Yay ideologies. Go Egypt! Revolution!
But seriously. The other guys will ruin your gaming of this chick, if you let them. Other guys are just ugly girls. Stole this line from someone. Haha don't remember who.

[RMO]

It was never good in theory, retard I wont go off into a prodigy rant, but dont bring politics in on a pick up form dude, you'll get mega nerd flame wars going, we dont want that now.

And when you are gaming a chick there are 2 rules you must follow

1.) HAVE FUN
2.) DONT REACT

Dont even mention other guys, just dont care. If you really are as awesome as you should think you are, then she will fall for you no matter what. More often then not when she tries to talk about him around you she'll use the boyfriend destroying subconsciously and fall for you even more.

[canadiankid]

Haha I think the true Marxist theory was good but impractical. Apparently you don't like equality, but I digress. My point was that good theories can be horrible in practice.

[RMO]

apparently you have no idea how humans and politics interact, the reason in practice that it didnt work is a flaw in the theory, it did not take into account the idea that people can be real bastards and if you give someone lots of power to make a utopia, they are not going to give all the power up to be merely a worker.

the 3 problems in the theory are work for works sake and lack of actual motivation, and who should decide what constitutes need. Sure its equal at first, but soon its more hierarchal then the most stringent capitalism. And of course I don't believe in equality of life, thats why PUA works. I believe everyone is born with equal rights (equality of state), but its what they do with their potential that makes them who they are.

Now lowp the tip I can offer you after my political rambling is that to game this girl is you escalate. It looks like she likes you and the only thing in the way is your massive ego whenever she brings up other guys. There was guys before you, there will be guys after you, the important thing is to note that at this moment she likes you, take advantage of that moment, don't bitch about the next.

[Eastcoast]

I really agree with everyones points here, tails you might be overthinking it a bit but i could definitely see that working if you played it right.

Basically, by you freaking out at that guy for no reason your gonna cause her to attach bad emotions to you and think about why she actually likes him when shes defending him. Which is completely shooting yourself in the foot.

I think the reason you freaked out with this guy is cause you saw him as a threat. I used to do the exact same thing when i first started out but then I realized that its completely counterproductive to what you want. If your confident in yourself and your game then you don't have to worry about him because your gonna be better than him. So dont even bother wasting your time with him stick to what you know and if you lose to him in the end that sucks but be mature about it and think about what your doing, dont freak out because that accomplishes nothing.