Cute, Funny, Caring, Charming

[Grape]

It's actually pretty simple.
What you focus on is actually pretty significant when you talk with girls. Just focus on 4 simple things: being cute, funny, caring, and charming.

These are every day things that we can all be at times, but with focus comes action. Seriously, it's usually the only thing I "focus" on when talking with girls and it works pretty fine.

But also remember to read up on some routines, material, and basic concepts just to get your subconscious to help you out while you focus on all these things.

[Contempt]

I read all this stuff to "train" my mind the correct responses in situations, but when i'm actually "in field" i never think about this stuff, if you analyze situations like that while in them it definitely drops your game.

[Grape]

the great thing is that these words arent anything special or "pua," it's just normal terminology and really really simple to grasp in mind. when i cold approach i focus on just coming off as a hot, funny guy and it works well.

and dont fret to debate/argue about these things, i love talking about it and i think debating about these things can really help reveal more details behind these beliefs.

[RMO]

I agree grape, those are good things to 'focus on'

I personally throw the 2 rules up before any other thought comes forward.

1. have fun
2. dont give a shit

[creaturez]

Yea, I definitely see where your coming from.

Whenever I'm talking to a girl I dont know too well, I always focus on the funny right away to come across as a guy who just wants to have fun. I feel like if the girls a little shy or takes time opening up this helps alot, because hopefully theyll feed off your good vibes

[Slick]

Focus On Her Eyes! They'll tell you everything you need, and they'll let her know what you want .