Post by canadiankid on Feb 17, 2011 1:52:29 GMT -5
So recently I've been doing alot of thinking about how I want a great, steady, solid woman in my life. Someone more than a friend, and way more then a casual hook up. I was talking to my cousin and she was berating me for my latest exploits lol and telling me why I should get a girlfriend. Although I didn't really like what she was saying she made a few valid points (learning experience, more frequent sex (actual that was my add in lol), caring about someone/them caring about you and some other things I don't remember 
). Now my cousin isn't some ugly chick, quite contrary. Shes actually dated an MLB player and is currently dating a very successful awesome guy (she's basically the girl all you mo fos would be trying to game). So that said I did find her perspectives interesting. Apart from the fact that she called every girl I've hooked up with a tramp lol and that she thinks you have to buy a girl a drink to take her home. This was the day before valentines day and I said something about the girl I like. She said everything the opposite of PU, like get her flowers and ask her out. Nah not my style (cocky bad boy) but after today when I ran some of my better game on my oneitis without all that much progress, I figure a hybrid of the two may work well on certain types of girls. I'm talking self confident, classy not hook up type girls.
Now she did acknowledge the effectiveness of some PU concepts I introduced not as PU (c/f, social value in HS, confidence, that I can think of off the top of my head). She did however think that dates, romance and normal couple stuff is important. Now if you think about it, she makes a point. Non PUAs get girls too, lots of guys take hot girls on dates and continue dating them. I'm not hating on PU cause I think alot of it is awesome, but guys do get girls without these tactics we have.
So before I get told I'm going soft and reverting to afc over my oneitis, what do you guys actually think about this, it's chances of working, thoughts on how, or personal experiences similar? I'm going to try it and hopefully there will be a detailed FR to follow.
). Now my cousin isn't some ugly chick, quite contrary. Shes actually dated an MLB player and is currently dating a very successful awesome guy (she's basically the girl all you mo fos would be trying to game). So that said I did find her perspectives interesting. Apart from the fact that she called every girl I've hooked up with a tramp lol and that she thinks you have to buy a girl a drink to take her home. This was the day before valentines day and I said something about the girl I like. She said everything the opposite of PU, like get her flowers and ask her out. Nah not my style (cocky bad boy) but after today when I ran some of my better game on my oneitis without all that much progress, I figure a hybrid of the two may work well on certain types of girls. I'm talking self confident, classy not hook up type girls.Now she did acknowledge the effectiveness of some PU concepts I introduced not as PU (c/f, social value in HS, confidence, that I can think of off the top of my head). She did however think that dates, romance and normal couple stuff is important. Now if you think about it, she makes a point. Non PUAs get girls too, lots of guys take hot girls on dates and continue dating them. I'm not hating on PU cause I think alot of it is awesome, but guys do get girls without these tactics we have.
So before I get told I'm going soft and reverting to afc over my oneitis, what do you guys actually think about this, it's chances of working, thoughts on how, or personal experiences similar? I'm going to try it and hopefully there will be a detailed FR to follow.
