"Maybe"

[godtzilla]

So I've been flirting with this girl, and every time I ask her if she wants to hang out or do something she always reply with "Maybe " and it leaves me quite frustrated because I don't know what she meant, or is she playing hard to get??anyone willing to shed some light for me?

[Slick]

does she say maybe after you try to arrange something with her like lets do x at x time, or does she say maybe after you're like yo bitch lets hangout. if it is after you're arranging something then its probably her way of saying no. if its just you generally asking her to hang out that shes saying maybe to then she could be shy or maybe wants to examine all of her options or whatever, in that case try actually arranging something.

[godtzilla]

Its like she says maybe to "Yo lets swag around" hmm yeah I'll try to arrange x @ x and see how it goes.

[Purp]

When you ask a girl to hang out that you already know is interested in you and she responds with "maybe" I would say "don't give me that maybe shit" or "if you decide too late i'll be busy". But really, at that point she should already be attracted to you in the first place cause shes on your phone. If she says I'm busy Friday, ask her how about Saturday? Then cut it quick and say nevermind I'm busy Saturday, and say a different date. To frame that you really don't need her and show you aren't needy.

[Contempt]

^ He asked why shes doing that and what she is thinking... not for a bunch of canned lines?

If when you mention hanging out she looks of into the distance and kind of starts to ignore you in that "way" she probably doesn't really want to. (sorry if thats not clear, sorta hard to explain) However if she is looking at you and stays enthusiastic with the "maybe" she probably DOES want to hang out she's just not sure about the time etc.. Now for a word of advice, don't keep asking her a ton or you'll come off as needy. Try to "put the pussy on the pedastal" as little as possible so to speak. If she's interested, then make it happen, if not, no sweat move on. It happens to the best of us. Good luck man, i'm sure you can do it.

-Contempt

[godtzilla]

^yeah it seems that she's not sure about the time, should I wait for her to get back at me??? Also I realized today that I'm starting to blank out as I progress with her. It seems like I'm getting nervous and I don't know what to say. Usually I don't have this issue with talking to regular girl friends but it struck me pretty bad and it makes conversations quiet and awkward.... On a side note, her friends are like from a completely different social circle and most of the time conversations are hard for me to tag with her friends, what would be the best solution for me to work on at ??

[BROner]

Don't ask her, tell her. Lead her to it. And she's testing you bro. Just be like "Ok, cool. I'll see you then "

[Adam]

Maybe is a baby that just needs to be rocked until it says yes

-Johnny Bravo

[Andrew]

haha another classic line from Gay

[jmac]

Don't be too specific. Just generalize it like "i hope you plan on seeing me this weekend" or something like that. You don't want to ask a girl too much or keep asking her why she says maybe because it can come off as clingy, not saying you are but just a warning.