Meeting up

[afro]

So things have been going well for me, been working on inner game and just chilling out and whatnot. However I'm inexperienced with dates etc and so it's a real sticking point. What should I do for a first meetup or date, I'm skint at the moment, so expensive ideas cant really help.

Also how to ask, like things I should look out for when asking that could ruin my smoothness. For example, if I ask a girl bowling and she asks if it's a date. My natural reaction would be to be like "yeh like a date", but I'm inexperienced and mindfucked.

It's like 7am and I've not been to sleep yet(fucked I know) so if I make little sense, you know why.


peace,

[Sloth]

this should be easy, if you have no money just go to the park or something - or have her over/go to hers.
if you can drive take her for a drive

Ways of asking, just do it. Most guys will tell you not to ask, but to just say like 'we're going to the park, im bored' rather than 'wanna go to the park?' - and that's kinda true, cause the question comes off as 'beta' but honestly if she's interested it shouldn't matter massively at all.

If she says something like is this a date, just be alpha about it and be like 'i'm not that easy', i use that all the time, you're not REALLY answering the question but it doesn't matter.

[amarok]

Agree with sloth.

I think with asking there already has to be a good degree of attraction/comfort, otherwise telling might be the better idea. It tends to create more of a game or fun aspect to it. "Oh, are we now?" I've gotten that consistently, and it's always a good sign.