perceverance
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Post by perceverance on Aug 17, 2011 20:50:13 GMT -5
what do you do when a girl is on ur cock but you dont like her at all but would like to use her as a pawn (a bridge to meeting other girls). how would you go about talking with the girl in a way that would get her leaning more towards friendship rather than getting her more attracted to you than she already is.
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Amb1valence
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yo dawg
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Post by Amb1valence on Aug 18, 2011 0:49:23 GMT -5
I've been wondering about this. I asked on here once but all I got was "just friend zone her lol" which didn't help much
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Post by $wagg on Aug 18, 2011 3:27:57 GMT -5
setup activities that is group related..i like taking them to parties with me
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Post by canadiankid on Aug 18, 2011 7:17:37 GMT -5
Pretty much do not escalate, be less physical and flirt less. Please don't say "use her as a pawn". She's a person, no need to use her.
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Shampoo
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Post by Shampoo on Aug 18, 2011 7:36:34 GMT -5
^^^ LOL exactly what I was thinking. Was is this, war?
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Post by RMO on Aug 18, 2011 7:59:23 GMT -5
for fucks sake, are you asking how to make friends? Be a goddamn friend. Man this thread is an abomination.
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Post by jmac on Aug 18, 2011 14:28:23 GMT -5
for fucks sake, are you asking how to make friends? Be a goddamn friend. Man this thread is an abomination. More like this whole forum at times.... Perc, if she has told you just let her know you want to be friends. I disagree with Black Guy because bringing girls to parties can provide a whole different initial vibe. Just tell her. Obviously not about wanting to meet girls through her because she won't like that. And Canadian is right, pawns isn't the right word to use. |
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perceverance
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Post by perceverance on Aug 18, 2011 20:31:07 GMT -5
no need for her to tell me, i can see it. prod, i dont need help making friends, she might take it the wrong way and think i like her if i try to start a friendship and end up getting hurt when i tell her i dont like her.
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Post by amarok on Aug 18, 2011 21:53:04 GMT -5
People DO get hurt in the world, that's not a bad thing. Obviously don't do it purposely but if you just want a friendship then why be ambiguous about it? It's just like being direct with a girl you like and telling her it. If you want a friendship, you can't vague because you don't want her to get hurt, that just causes more problems.
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Post by canadiankid on Aug 18, 2011 22:32:16 GMT -5
Trust me, be direct. Otherwise 8 girls will be blowing up your phone calling you an asshole.
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perceverance
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Post by perceverance on Aug 19, 2011 3:32:18 GMT -5
ok you guys keep saying be direct but what does that even mean, should i tell her straight up that i just want to be friends even though she has never said she wants to get with me?
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Post by amarok on Aug 19, 2011 11:29:00 GMT -5
If she does anything that makes it obvious that she likes you, tell her you want to be friends. If she hasn't done anything to make you think that then you're just guessing. whichever one fits.
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Post by canadiankid on Aug 19, 2011 23:28:49 GMT -5
"I really like having you as a friend" and that sort of thing and if she ever starts stating that she likes you, tell her your intentions are to just be friends. She may not like hearing that at the time but it's the best option
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Post by jmac on Aug 20, 2011 0:53:49 GMT -5
"I really like having you as a friend" and that sort of thing and if she ever starts stating that she likes you, tell her your intentions are to just be friends. She may not like hearing that at the time but it's the best option Honesty is the best policy. |
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Adam
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Post by Adam on Sept 1, 2011 0:29:23 GMT -5
Pull her to the side and tell her to stop hitting on you. Girls do it why can't we. I never do this (even tho i should -.-) but I am guessing it is good advice.
I unfortanatly just start avoiding the girl (which is a bad thing) I have to kick that habit.
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