Just some questions...

[themachine]

I'm going to get right to the point.(scroll to bottom if you don't wanna read.)


I'm a senior in High school, but I have no friends that a girls, I think due mostly that I'm in advanced classes gearing my way for college where I'm not in a enclosed environment like high school, but anyway, it seems everyone is really deep in there groups, I would like to have more friends, but I really don't like the personalities of the people in my class.


I haven't had a GF since I have been in High School, which doesn't bother me, the fact is that not a single girls I can call my friend in fact pisses me off.


For little background detail, I'm not "AA" I can talk to people fine crack jokes in class, but still no results. I have been playing varsity basketball for a while, but still it doesn't seem to help.


My whole plan was to gear up for college, so, Gaining muscle, getting fresh clothes and a new sense of style, but HS is becoming more and more unbearable, on top of that my mom is putting way to much pressure for me to go to prom, but how am I going to explain, that "I have few/friends, let alone a GF, don't know how to dance etc."


I'm not really worried about my life after high school becuase of my sense of humour and personality, fits with the Fratboy and college lifestyle I think making friends and enjoying life more. However, I'm still in High school and being pissed all the time isn't really helping my emotional state, mainly because I have urges to fight people more often now, which I know stems from my HS problems.


I think the main reason I fucked up ism I took AP classes, why is becuase it is hard as fuck to talk to people/crack a joke w/o teachers yelling at me/threatening to kick me out, then seating charts where I'm always next to the fat chick.


I have never had a girl call me cute/or tell here friend that she liked me, which doesn't bother me, but I do get jealous when other guys are getting female attention and not me.

My goal isn't really to game the girls at my school, since to be honest theres not a girl that I actually like, sure there are girls that I would fuck, but not making my gf if that makes any sense.


I really just don't want college to be a repeat of high school, I really don't want to be dealing with the same shit I deal with here. Also I'm kinda at a disadvantage since a girl hasn't texted me in about three years, which is fine, but like I said this shit better not happen in the next year.

Even in facebook I see groups of people doing fun things like going to the beach, or doing fun stuff, but I have never gotten chance to do that. I have like 80 friends on FB and I never get sent anything, like never, not one notification so I just log off.


You guys maybe thinking I have a shit personality or something, but i'm telling you guys I have made effort in the past.


My past experience with girls in my entire life:

MY first day of 6th grade, I sat with 3 girls(I was new to the school didn't know anyone.) I got passed a note saying that "(my name, has hairy balls, and hairy dick)"

I never cussed back then, but had enough common sense to figure out what a "dick was" anyway to get to the point, they were shit talking me without even knowing, fast forward to 8th grade, I got some girls house phone # over myspace, and then her friend, ended up having a hoe for a GF that year and was fine, then freshmen year all the way till now, no girls have been in my life.


It didn't bother me until last year where I searched up on what people did who did not have prom dates, and then I eventually found out about PUA

I'm leaving out a lot of details of my life and to explain them would take way to long.



So here are the questions if you didn't feel like reading:


1.Not having girls as friends throughout high school going to affect my game in college?(I'm going in swole as fuck with super high confidence.)

2.I have never been invited to a party or a girl has never went out of their way to talk to me or etc....Should I be pissed off or sad at that.

[canadiankid]

I'm sorry buddy but here is my no shit assessment.

Your a cocky prick who no one really likes. Your ego is to big to take responsibility and thus you make excuses.

But it's alright, I was in a very similar (arguably worse) position. By the end of HS I was at least "friends" with everyone, and I still have lots of female friends from HS. If I'm right, work on toning it down and trying to relate to people more without worrying about their flaws or judging.

This may sound harsh but

You are not special. No one else gives a fuck about you, nor are you nearly as awesome as you believe you are.

I thought I was special, I thought I was the exception to everything. Guess what, it's not true. You are the exact same, and until you act accordingly, you will keeping getting fucked over by your own actions.

[themachine]

But my ego isn't big, majority of the time I'm quiet and reserved? So WTF? lol.

[Adam]

Sorry bro you seem like you are in denial. You ask yourself

"Why don't I have any female friends."

"Oh cause all the females around me have horrible personalities." <------- Highly unlikely

[auroturtle]

Hey you asked for advice and you got it.

If you're so certain that your ego isn't big, or that you're quiet and reserved, then why did you feel the need to reply to him?

[themachine]

Sept 11, 2011 9:02:29 GMT -5 Adam said:

Sorry bro you seem like you are in denial. You ask yourself

"Why don't I have any female friends."

"Oh cause all the females around me have horrible personalities." <------- Highly unlikely

The ones in my classes aren't the ones I'd like to be friends with.

[Sloth]

your problem is you just push everyone away and say it's cause they're ass holes.

you wont make friends if you think everyones a dick

people are probably dicks cause your a dick to them

[Amb1valence]

Sept 11, 2011 10:08:56 GMT -5 themachine said:

Sept 11, 2011 9:02:29 GMT -5 Adam said:

Sorry bro you seem like you are in denial. You ask yourself

"Why don't I have any female friends."

"Oh cause all the females around me have horrible personalities." <------- Highly unlikely

The ones in my classes aren't the ones I'd like to be friends with.

Why because they're all ugly? Understandable. I'm in IB so I feel you brah. But honestly it's not that bad, and you should strive to be friends with everyone! if you can.

I bet some of the chicks in your classes know SOME people in the higher echelons of the social ladder. Don't tell me none of them do because I know there's probably at least a couple who occasionally hang out with the popular people. That's how it happens. There's always a few people who were super smart and made friends with the popular kids, then started doing AP classes and chilled with them less than before but are still tight with them. You can exploit that dude. it may not be real easy but it's possible. Are all your classes AP?



and btw just so you know, I know EXACTLY how you feel. I was a total fucking pussy runescape-playing PC-building book-reading faggy nerdy chode nugget up until idk, a good bit into sophomore year. It was only by the grace of the unusually outgoing people in my new high school that I made some social connections in the first two years before IB started, most of whom I don't talk to anymore, only say hi to in the hallways. Because I don't have classes with them and never have time to chill with them outside of school anymore. anyway that's beside the point...but yeah dude AP can really fuck you over if you didn't make a good bit of friends before you started it. So honestly, don't worry too much if you don't make a ton of friends before high school ends. I still don't have a shitton of friends; I'm working on it. But it's senior year and I'm almost done and although I'm regretful that I haven't taken party pics and gone to the beach with a bunch of people and all that shit before, and am definitely jealous of the people at my school who always do that, it's really not that bad. All that shit will happen in college. Because as long as you've found PUA, and you've found confidence through it, you can be guaranteed that college will be one of the best times of your life because everyone starts over. Everyone makes friends again for the first time, and only the foreveralone virgin WoW geeks don't get laid. It's ridiculously easy to have fun and make friends and even if you can't salvage much of your high school career, don't worry about it too much. Life goes on. You have your entire life ahead of you, including 4 fucking fantabulous years of college directly in front of you.

[themachine]

It's good to get perspective on someone else who also takes ap classes. It's hard to
Explain if your in co classes or don't care about school.