Michal
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Post by Michal on Nov 14, 2011 1:59:43 GMT -5
Aaargh sketch you seem to me like a little boy which is writing to chats and facebook about morals and so on and girls are ,,loving,, you,giving you ultra place in friendzone ...but everything is doing till people like me,savant and so on are in bed with girl you always wanted but never make out with,because she had a boyfriend  peace |
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Post by Sketch on Nov 14, 2011 5:53:29 GMT -5
I don't think any of you have really understood what I've been trying to say. Maybe because I haven't explained myself properly. So I'll try and make it clearer.
If I was single, I would still go after a girl who had a boyfriend, I have done in the past several times, I don't have a problem with that. Because people don't cheat unless they're unhappy in they're relationship (usually, not always) so I don't mind that.
What I do have a problem with is if you go into a relationship and you cheat. If you know your unhappy in the relationship and want to get with other people, then break up with them or see if they're okay with being in an open relationship.
For what people are saying about me thinking i'm 'morally superior', I don't. I'm expressing my opinion on this thread just like the rest of you are, so I could say the same about you guys approving of cheating.
So basically, If i were single, I don't have a problem with getting with someone else who is in a relationship, but if i'm in a relationship I would break up with them first or ask if they're okay with an open relationship before I would cheat.
I hope this clears some of the haze that this thread has caused.
-Sketch
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RMO
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Post by RMO on Nov 14, 2011 6:40:58 GMT -5
Just to make sure everyones on the same page, most everyone agrees, we're just saying it differently. In short: Cheating sucks.
as a personal aside, this is unrelated to comments after mine, just for general internet
Don't be a bitch on the internet, it makes stupid shit happen.
I would also like to let everyone know that in my book acting 'morally superior' is defining something has wrong just because you feel that way, not for any logical reason. The comment wasn't sent to anyone in particular, but if you feel like something is fucked up, and there is quite a bit of that in PUA, just have a good reason to back it up.
aaaaaand don't be a bitch on the internets.
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Post by Sloth on Nov 14, 2011 6:59:07 GMT -5
it appears i've started quite the debate.
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Michal
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Post by Michal on Nov 14, 2011 8:56:57 GMT -5
Now sketch I can agree with you,coz I have understood that you said you are not going to pickup girl which is in relationship. And btw. I don't see difference in : 1. When you are in relationship,you cheat ,tell her and just broke up or 2. If you are in relationship,broke up and than ,,cheat,, because she would be hurt anyways. |
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Post by looknlisten on Nov 14, 2011 9:49:54 GMT -5
Exactly there's no difference. Just in your social conditioned head your gonna think "I broke up with her before I cheated so it doesn't make me responsible for the break up, she's responsible because she didn't fulfill me, she never made me happy" .. Bullshit that's what chodes do. Take responsibility it makes no diff. I leave my morals in the lost and found with chicks cos I'm still young its its cool to fuck around girls will see this and they will know their role. The girl will understand who you are and by nature you are enclined to have as many partners, like jeff said: Back in the days cave men took the girl that they wanted, sometimes even grabbed them by the hair, throat and she eventually followed, present days motherfuckers are scared to even look into a hot girls eye, half stepping stuttering to make decisions, and your gonna come tell me I mustnt cheat cos you'll feel bad about it ? She's gonna get hurt ? Soft shit, and you will be very suprised when you run into a 10, and she cheats on you cos your scared of losing her .Maybe in 4 years time I will say yeah shit is real but if ur standing up 4 somethings that never happened to u and you've never felt that emotion, whose opinion is it ?
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Adam
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Post by Adam on Nov 14, 2011 16:20:48 GMT -5
Shes gonna get hurt ethier way but would you like it if
A. The person was honest and told you they didnt want to be with you anymore or
B. Went behind your back leaving you to find out through other means
I dont think sketch is subject to social conditioning it just seems more respectful to tell a person first.
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Post by Sketch on Nov 15, 2011 15:55:27 GMT -5
okay if you cheat, then break up with her. That's fine too. Coz you can be in the heat of the moment etc. But what I dont like is when people cheat, and don't come clean about it and keep doing it behind there backs etc.
I personally still wouldnt, but i wouldnt have a massive go at someone else for being a 'jerk' if they did break up with them after. Because like Adam said, i think its more respectful to hold off that one night where you would cheat, then break up with them after because you know you wanted to cheat. And i dont see why that shouldn't be a promlem with us guys. after all, we're PUA so should easily be able to recreate that moment.
thank god this has all been cleared up.
and yes sloth. yes it has. you need to get back home, i miss winging a pua. These AFC's back home are so dull to wing.
-Sketch
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Post by looknlisten on Nov 15, 2011 17:13:37 GMT -5
I'm no pua taken me like 2 months to remove these pickup layers of bullshit
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Post by Sketch on Nov 15, 2011 18:17:44 GMT -5
I'm no pua taken me like 2 months to remove these pickup layers of bullshit that made no sense to me... |
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Post by looknlisten on Nov 15, 2011 19:15:38 GMT -5
Pua/pickup is shit, money making scheme cos guys wanna get laid desperately, makes you think you need to add on something more to become better. Just puts you more inside your head. We 16 not 42 we know how to pull don't need this shit. There are maybe 4 or 5 root problems in reality, add pickup faggotry into the picture and you got 20 more problems
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Post by Sloth on Nov 15, 2011 19:41:04 GMT -5
pua is just a term savant, dont cry about it haha
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Post by looknlisten on Nov 16, 2011 1:02:30 GMT -5
I don't associate with that word
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Post by Sketch on Nov 16, 2011 2:26:46 GMT -5
then why are you here savant? you wouldn't be here if you didn't want to improve yourself some way.
If you practise the 'rules' and 'laws' of pua, then you can't say you're not a pua
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Post by amarok on Nov 16, 2011 6:18:47 GMT -5
Look what forum you're on... High school PICK UP forum. You've associated yourself with pick up just by posting on here.
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