Interesting Girlfriend Problem

[legacy]

So first I might have to drop a bit about my background:

I never had problems getting girls to like me. Not really, anyways. I have, I guess you could say, very finetune natural inner game.

But I suck[ed] at kino escalating, which is why I bought into this stuff. I never run openers or routines, but I use a lot of the techniques to escalate and what not.

That being said, I've since gotten a hell of a lot better at kino escalation; I move faster than pretty much anyone I know and almost never get rejected. Friends with benefits [yes in high school], I've done that.

So I got a girlfriend.

But I kino escalated pretty fast (3rd base in about 6 weeks, which is really fast considering it's high school and I started with a really conservative girl and we see each other maybe once every 3 days max), but the problem is now that every time I see her all she wants to do is basically makingout/fingering/oral/probably sex soon. That is, it's turning into friends with benefits.

I know a lot of you are gonna be all "wtf why don't you just wanna do that", but honestly, if all I wanted was pussy, I'd get friends with benefits and have a couple of girls on call whenever I felt like.

Basically, how do I unaddict my girl from the physical sensations I'm giving her?

[Sloth]

If you dont want it to go sexual, then don't go sexual. Jesus christ man she doesn't control what you do, you control what you do..

[Adam]

How'd you get good at kino? Can you PM me I too have pretty good calibration but kino is kinda hard for me.

[Nick]

Maybe you could talk to her... I mean, she's yours just as much as you are her's. If you don't like the path your relationship is going down, SAY SOMETHING. You're in a relationship, you don't have to beat around the bush. In fact, you really never should have to. Speak your damn mind.

P.S. - 3rd base in 6 weeks is not really fast at all - unless you only saw her once every 6 weeks.

P.P.S - Am I being a dick?

[Parkwhore]

Nick, you're not being a dick. 3rd base in one night is typical haha.

[canadiankid]

I can't foresee it taking more than 3 days to get sex from a non-virgin lol

[Michal]

Man for first...3rd base in 6 weeks is fast? Where the fuck are you living? Coz I never want to get there...

2. You just woke up an erotical dragon in her. Every girl has one. She has too and you woke it up. But as every animal you can train her. Just stop doing what you dont want from her to do!
If you dont want from her to drink cola from bottle stop doing it. If you dont want her from sucking your dick,stop licking her pussy. Easy as that.

stop being pussy and fucking get control or viagra.

[legacy]

Jan 3, 2012 7:42:25 GMT -5 Michal said:

Man for first...3rd base in 6 weeks is fast? Where the fuck are you living? Coz I never want to get there...

No you don't, I live in a ridiculously conservative city with a Tea Party mayor and where the girls take like 2 years to give it up in most cases.

Most of the time a guy can take 6 weeks to get a makeout.

Fucking bullshit lol

I'll try just doing what the fuck I want; if she gets super pissed I guess that'll be the end of it *shrug*

[amarok]

I kinda have the same problem. I made my gf squirt and now every time she sees me she's super horny.

On topic, if it is the end of it, like you said yourself you have other girls to get with. Talk to her

[qaz]

Jan 3, 2012 1:03:37 GMT -5 Adam said:

How'd you get good at kino? Can you PM me I too have pretty good calibration but kino is kinda hard for me.

Same here, one of you guys pm me too when you get it

[Sloth]

i dont see how kinos hard? just touch her

[looknlisten]

Kino=touch. You can't master touch and you can't acquire good kino, its like saying "hey can you help me to breathe I'm pretty calibrated in moving my muscles, haven't mastered breathing though". Touch her. Root problem again is FEAR. Fear of what I dunno I could only assume. You can't give your responsibility over to an idea, a "pua skillset". Let's simplify - if your talking to a 10 year old you would not say I'm not the best at kino, you would prob say I'm not very good at expressing/showing my feelings physically, grabbing her, pushing her around, smelling her up close. Why the kid asks - (insert your answer here). You see its very hard to teach someone what they already know how to do and I'm gonna be honest here cos my days are getting numbered on these forums .. "KINO" has never been a problem to me why ? Cos I have not acknowledged it, it means nothing to me, only when I was scared to get rejected, laughed at, not accepted did I build walls, that wall you've built, its name is kino. Kino doesn't exist, fear is real, its easy to say just touch her but you see the problem is not the skill itself, many guys walk into this with demons from their past, with hate, fear, depression, doubt, anger and those are the things we must let go of - these insecurities are not real we made them up. Let go of these demons and you let go of the fear, hurt ect that came with them, allowing us to express how we feel, to do as we please and be a confident man that is unapologetic of his actions. Touching is in us to say "How'd you get good at touching" tells me a few things about you, you don't believe you deserve, you don't believe you have it, tells me you are not there yet, why ? Well you'd have to be honest to yourself about that one.

[Sketch]

Why are people here complaining that their gf's get super horny around them? wtf is wrong with you guys. I LOVE that my gf gets super horny around me. seriously. wtf guys.
And as for the kino..it really is just touching a girl. Grow some balls and just touch her.

I really don't see why your trying to stop your gf wanting you physically. ITS NORMAL. Its not going to turn into friends with benefits if you dont want it to. If she does want that, then worst comes to worst, she breaks up with you because you want different things. If you weren't physically attracted to her, or her to you, that's a problem. So stop omplaining and fuck your girlfriend.

-Sketch

[Adam]

Im not afraid to touch the girl it is just guys on the site keep saying "KINO ESCALTE" "KINO IS GAME" "KINO HER HARD"

It leaves me thinking wtf do they mean kino hard. Usually I touch the girl when I want. It's subconcious. If it doesn't make sense to touch her to me I won't.

For example if I'm sitting beside a girl and i keep thinking in my mind "put your arm around her put your arm around her its kino escalation i need to build attraction with kino" Thats when fear seeps in makes me scared of her body. But if I forget about kino and go with the flow next thing I know I'm jumping on the girl's back forcing her to give me a piggy back.

Was it to build attraction. No. Was it to kino escalate. No. It was for fun.

Please tell me if this mentality will help me further my success with women.

[looknlisten]

Yeah