simple "date" idea

[jbold]

So I'm planning to hang out with this girl on tuesday that I've been flirting with, we talked about how much we both like Panera and I asked her what movies she likes so I said that we should do that when we hang out.
Does lunch at Panera and then a movie at my house seem like a somewhat decent idea? Obviously I'm trying to get a hookup out of this but I don't want to seem too obvious in her perspective.

[Parkwhore]

It can definately be done, but you're placing pussy on the pedestal and being outcome dependent. Its going to be fucking boring assuming you live a fun life and thus uncomfortable.

You have to understand that guys who get a large amount of women don't plan it out in this manner, its just part of their wild/fun lifestyle.

[amarok]

further on what Parkwhore is saying, you need to stop worrying about what's going to happen afterwards and if your tactically formulated date masterplan is going to get you pussy. The only way you'll succeed is if you are focusing on the moment, and having fun. Don't worry about her. 99% of the time, if you're having a good time and being outwards about, she'll be having fun too.

[Sloth]

don't think about it as a way to get pussy, but when the opportunity comes, be a man and take it.

[infamous93]

I personally hate having a plan like this.

It sometimes drives the girl crazy to but it's funny. She is all like "What are we doing tonight" and I'm all like "Chill"

Works well for me, I just do whatever I feel like at the time. I hate planned out stuff, in my opinion it takes out all the fun in the night due to the fact that part of the fun is not knowing what is going to happen that night.

I'm not a fan of getting food with a girl. I am a fan of movies however it's an easy way to get kino.

Due to the fact that you are both sitting together you can tell she wants you to just put your arm around her. So just man the fuck up and do it. And then after that comes the kiss, which is actually relatively easy.

[Amb1valence]

Infamous what do you usually do when you just "feel like it at the time"? I literally never have a fucking clue what to do except drive around the town a little bit, that's what I did the other day and it was boring till I parked and starting talking to her and just starting making out with her. What exactly is there to do

[Parkwhore]

Driving around doing nothing is lame and you got lucky honestly.

[infamous93]

Hahaha dude that's for you to decide.

That's just how I do things Sometimes I feel watching a movie so I suggest it, sometimes I feel like taking a walk in the park so I do it, sometimes I feel like driving around, sometimes I feel like just talking to her.

Use your imagination planing sucks balls (in my opinion)

[jbold]

Excellent advice, I've been trying to live in the moment but its hard to do that socially when I'm doing all my school work/ college planning. Thanks guys it was a good mental check

[smoob]

@amb Here's some of the stuff I like to do:
Go to a playground, go to a park, go to taco bell/waffle house, get high at 2 in the morning, get drunk at 2 in the morning (I like doing all this shit at 2 in the morning), blast the music in a car and get wild, rap, play fight, walk, etc etc. You can make fun out of just about anything.

[Amb1valence]

Parkwhore yes it was and yes I did lol.

Infamous those sound kind of boring...and my imagination sucks hahaha I'm not creative.
And smoob those sound really good actually, what do you do in the park/playground though? And do you actually buy food at taco bell and waffle house cuz I'm a cheapass and hate spending money lol. And doing pretty much anything at 2am is fun I agree lol. although I'm trying to think of things that don't involve drugs/weed cuz I try to minimize my use of those

[smoob]

Normally I go to the playground at night when no one is there. I like playing on the equipment - I go with everyone, not just chicks so you could like slide with the girl in your lap, I like using the equipment the wrong way, and I like cuddling on the equipment. There normally like a big thing with like 3 or 4 slides on it that you have to climb up and just chill...I like getting on that thing. Then from there I either play music, sing, dance, cuddle, wrestle, or play games like have you ever, would you rather, and truth or dare (just keep it sexual). I think if you go there at night, you'll find plenty of things to do...like i don't even have to plan slightly.

And nahh I don't buy nothing unless I'm hungry...but for some reason taco bell and waffle house seem like cool places to chill. And I feel you about the drugs thing, the girl I talk to want me to stop so I haven't smoked or drank in a while.

[Amb1valence]

Ohhhh shitttt that's a really good idea. hahaha seriously how did I never think of that! As soon as it gets warm again up hurr in maryland I'm absolutely doing that every night lmao.......just out of curiosity, what do you guys think is fun to do during the day? Cuz honestly the way I feel is that like you can do anything at night and it'll be fun, just cuz it's night.....there's something about the nighttime that makes everything have a mysterious exciting feeling to it. idk but I feel like daytime is just gay

[infamous93]

LASER TAG!!!

[Contempt]

panera is always a good idea. mmmmmmmmmm... food.

Other then that i agree with infamous, do whatever the fuck you feel like. And even if you have any idea of what your going to do, refuse to tell her what it is.