america
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Registered: Dec 13, 2011 19:23:59 GMT -5
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Post by america on Mar 6, 2012 16:38:24 GMT -5
This chick that I'm actually "dating" right now is literally in love with me and because I didn't want to hurt her feelings, I lied to her and told her I loved her too. Tbh, the only reason I entered the relationship was to get some pussy since I was sick of being a virgin. The thing is, although I don't really like this girl, I still care about her, and I told her I wasn't gonna fuck her and leave her like most of her previous relationships happened. We're still "dating" but I honestly have no idea where the fuck to go from here. Do I be a total douchebag and ditch her, most likely throwing her into a downward spiral of emotions in which she would hurt herself, (this happened with her last boyfriend) or do I just stick it out for awhile and see if she becomes less attached?
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Post by amarok on Mar 6, 2012 21:37:54 GMT -5
Definition of insanity: Doing the same thing again and expecting a different result. If it's not working now it's not gonna work later. And her saying that she loves you right away shows how insecure/immature she is as a partner. So just own up to the fact that you lied and tell her you don't want to be together, that she rushed it and you weren't up to that point yet. And if you want, tell her you still want to be friends. If you know her best friend and you are worried she'll hurt herself, tell her friend to watch this girl and help her.
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america
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Fuck Yeah.
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Registered: Dec 13, 2011 19:23:59 GMT -5
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Post by america on Mar 6, 2012 21:58:46 GMT -5
That's actually some pretty damn good advice. I'm really good friends with her best friend, so that would probably work. I was actually kind of worried about severing that friendship though because her best friend thought I just used her for sex.
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