Knowing when to make the move

[Soul]

First just let me say, I’m thinking that this cant be taught and only learned by spending time the field. No harm in asking though.

I seem to have a problem of not knowing when to make the move for the k-close. I think a lot has to do with my anxiety about being rejected or jumping the gun. So what exactly do you guys look for before going in for the k-close?.....IOIs? or are there other give aways that its safe to go in for the kill ( k-closs)

Cheers all
Dreads

[SenorBubbz]

Well to kill your anxiety, use Mystery's Kiss Close Gambit, which has a response for anything she might throw at you, and usually you go for the kiss once you two are isolated and you have 3 IOI's.

[Soul]

Three IOI’s once isolated, or three anytime throughout the night?

Nice avatar and signature to SenorBubbz, didn’t notice it was you until I looked.

Cheers
Dreads

[SenorBubbz]

Three IOI's anytime, then isolate, wait for at least another IOI so you can make doubley sure she loves you, then pull the trigger.

Don't think, just do it.

[Alek]

When you think you should, you should. Its somethin you gotta kinda feel. When you get in field, and your runnning a good set, you will just feel the spark and momment. Remember to kino escalate constintly up to the close, and after

[SenorBubbz]

May 20, 2009 21:50:43 GMT -5 Alek said:

When you think you should, you should. Its somethin you gotta kinda feel. When you get in field, and your runnning a good set, you will just feel the spark and momment. Remember to kino escalate constintly up to the close, and after

Yea definitely. Once you're pretty calibrated, it will come naturally and you'll just feel like you should, so you will.

[Paetar]

I love Badboy's way, and actually agree: he says that when a woman wants to be kissed, she releases some hormones that give you the idea. I think it even applies to attraction and rapport - the vibe is there. I know I fucked up more than once (actually, for several months I haven't kissed a girl... sad but true, and I'm still searching for chick good enough for me) but in essence, that's it.

Mystery's kiss close should work great, no matter what you do, you never lose .

[sparkogre]

^{I'm still searching for chick good enough for me}

Excuse.

[Alek]

May 20, 2009 22:07:34 GMT -5 SenorBubbz said:

May 20, 2009 21:50:43 GMT -5 Alek said:

When you think you should, you should. Its somethin you gotta kinda feel. When you get in field, and your runnning a good set, you will just feel the spark and momment. Remember to kino escalate constintly up to the close, and after

Yea definitely. Once you're pretty calibrated, it will come naturally and you'll just feel like you should, so you will.

yeah man, thats just like looking for iois. I dont even look for them anymore, i just feel it out and know

[Keysersoze]

AFCadam's k-close... genius!!! it's exact purpose is to establish whether she is ready to kiss you without her knowing... by far my favourite PUA, one of the few guys whose game would not need any adjustment's in a HS setting...

[Soul]

Any links to AFCadam's k-close or Mystery's Kiss Close Gambit? Are they out of books or just on the internet? I had a look on google, but theres so much shit on there. Ill try again

Got a couple of parties to go to this weekend, so hopefully I can get a k-close or three

Cheers
Dreads

[kristallnachte]

A good rule to go by, is to go for the kiss before you feel its ready. Its a LOT easier to calibrate when to move when you're early than when you're late.

[Zomga48]

May 29, 2009 10:25:22 GMT -5 kristallnachte said:

A good rule to go by, is to go for the kiss before you feel its ready. Its a LOT easier to calibrate when to move when you're early than when you're late.

What he said, let's say you're ona date, much easier to do it before you're at her doorstep.

[jd421]

May 26, 2009 15:41:05 GMT -5 sparkogre said:

^{I'm still searching for chick good enough for me}

Excuse.

i agree, aslong as she isn below a 5 go for it. last night i fucked up cause i know i coulda hooked up with this girl at a party i was at but i was trying to think if she was up to my standards. im regretting that now haha. ive been slowly but surely working on my game and a little practise wouldnt hurt so when you do meet a girl up to your "standards" she wont think your completely lame in the sack.

[bash]

Lately I have been hanging out with a female friend and her circle of friends. I know she likes me but I don't like her at all, but I like one of her friends. I text her friend every few days and we really seem "click". Tonight we went to a church event were you watch movies on a projector. I looked like the friging man because I was in a group with six girls.

Wasn't really able to talk to her because my female friend was vigorously trying to flirt with me which annoyed me at first but I began to see how jealous it made her friend. She tried to get my attention but stroking her hair. At the end of the night i managed to talk to her alone for like three minutes and she said "be sure to text me". I had like two texts from her by the time I drove home.

Should I take the next step and ask her out because I feel like it's the right time and I don't wanna miss my opportunity.

Any other advise is apriciated.