bravo
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Post by bravo on Aug 15, 2010 0:37:55 GMT -5
Hey guys, I have this problem when I am trying to game girls out of school, it is summer now, and I keep facing this. When I see a hot girl she is either with her parents or she is either with a dozen other hot girls. I mean these really demotivate me and not allow me to approach. Like yesterday I went to a chipotle restaurant and I saw a girl that looked my age (16) walking to the bathroom, but her dad was nearby. And today I went to one of those giant trampoline gyms where all the teens go to jump , and I saw a hot girl but she was talking to her other hot friends (like 4 other ones) and that kind of approach, a random guy interrupting a group of 5 hot HB9'S and 10's, is something that I dont have the balls for yet.
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rocknrory
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Post by rocknrory on Aug 15, 2010 5:25:38 GMT -5
I know the feeling man but you..actually WE got to stop making excuses for ourselves. Get out of your comfort zone. Chances are hot girls are around there friends, don't expect the hot girls to be walking about alone all the time, especially when we get older.
Every person feels nervous or awkward at first when they want to or actually approach a hot girl for the first time. I still need to not think about it and just go in, like so many others have done here. What do we have to lose? Sure we might get rejected, especially the first few times, but we can learn from that and get more comfortable with the situation. Also, one of the girls actually might be nice and interesting and take interest in you, we just have to do it.
School starts for me soon and my goal is to make lots of friends first, I don't want to game girls off the bat or I'll come off as creepy (if I mess up that is.) I'll get into it as soon as possible though. Try the 3 second rule dude, don't think, don't worry, just go up to her and start a conversation however you damn well please. Trial and Error.
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Post by bravo on Aug 15, 2010 16:26:41 GMT -5
Yea, but the thing is, if in high school, you do get rejected, you will have the reputation of the creepy guy that gets rejected. That is negative social proof, so approaching in high school is risky unless you are sure you it will go some where. Where as in college, it is so big, that nobody really has a reputation, you could get rejected all you want and no one will really remember you. Thats kind of what is stopping me from approaching the hot high school girls, I dont want to be known as the "weirdo" if I get rejected more than once.
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Post by Luis the awesomest of awesomes on Aug 15, 2010 16:35:55 GMT -5
Yea, but the thing is, if in high school, you do get rejected, you will have the reputation of the creepy guy that gets rejected. That is negative social proof, so approaching in high school is risky unless you are sure you it will go some where. Where as in college, it is so big, that nobody really has a reputation, you could get rejected all you want and no one will really remember you. Thats kind of what is stopping me from approaching the hot high school girls, I dont want to be known as the "weirdo" if I get rejected more than once. see thats where you're wrong.... in reality in highschool if you get rejected people might make fun of you for like 2 days. besides hae you ever really been rejected and people treat you like a creepy guy? and dude girls of beuty are rarely seen alone even mystery has that right... just don't see them as hot girls they're just people |
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misterflower
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Post by misterflower on Aug 18, 2010 11:09:33 GMT -5
K these guys are right but let me expand on this a little. Okay, first of all you are wrong about the rejection thing. When it comes down to it, I mean really comes down to it, women dont give a fuck what you do. They just don't care and niether does anyone else. All women care about is how you make them feel, that's IT. Dude, getting rejected doesn't automatically make you the highschool loser, trust me, I've been rejected tons of times. The chick will act like a bitch cause you said something that made her put her guard up or she just ignores you. And then everyone else does the same thing and you walk away like wow that sucks. But next week that same chick could be totally hitting on you. People forget about stuff like that really fast. You want to know how to be the highschool loser? Settle for lame friends, ugly girls, and don't talk to anyone or try to communicate with high value people, ever. Honestly, you're on the right track bro, just be willing to trip over your balls a little bit. It won't be that bad especially with the community here to help you.
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