Push-Pull in the Hallways

[Grape]

Alright so Chris, Andrew, and I talked about this together and thought this would be a pretty good tool to apply.

1. Eye-contact
You see that when a guy and a girl walks down a hallway, one is facing the other one while the other one looks ahead. Similar right?

Use this and BE the one who looks ahead. The girl will stare at you and will crave your attention.

2. Willingness to Leave
As SOON as you see another 'target' walk by you, desert the one you're currently talking to and talk to that one without even saying BYE. Ignore her. Don't make eye contact with your new target as well except for the beginning when you say "Hi". Then as soon as you see ANOTHER girl, desert your current. Repeat pattern until classroom is reached.

I will try to add onto this as much as I can.
Enjoy,
HSPF Staff

[Johnny Bravo]

Thats a dick move.

Im sorry, but look, I can back it up.

Why in the world would you follow around your friend (supposed friend) that never looked at you, and whenever someone came by that they knew, they left you.

It may be a push, but there is no pull.

An approriate way to do it would be
"OMG Sarah! I love you but *quick hug* Gotta go!"
and walk to the other girl.

She thinks to herself
"He loves me? but he left me for another girl?"

That is the correct way to do a push and pull.

Thats wrong. Just wrong to do to a girl, unless she is trying to get into your frame all day. Or if shes annoying and you don't care if you lose any attraction with her.

When you are in doubt, think how it would make you feel, in the words of Mystery
"Guys are just ugly girls."

Gay.[/color]

[Grape]

Ehh..
You're not supposed to act like a dick. Like Gay said, that's wrong.
Instead, you're supposed to have fun with her, smile with her, just not look at her. The only thing.
In sense, it's a 'sincere' disqualification, not a complete freeze-out.

I field-tested this today anyways.. It's fine. Mix it up to your liking because there is no right and wrong in society.

[Chris]

yeah dude, you need to show your willingness to walk away.

[Andrew]

dude Gay sometimes you gotta be a dick in this game.

[jsquared11]

Ok, I'm going to address this issue as much as Gay's negativity.

It's creepy to follow them around yes, however you need to be a man at some point and punish a girl.

Alright Gay, I've noticed that you seem to have a nack for challenging and going agaisnt what others say. There is no problem with a difference of opinion. However, you are being an ass about it. You sit there and tell everyone us that what they are doing is "wrong". Who died and made you the judge of right and wrong? There is nothing wrong about holding to your frame if a girl has an issue that takes it away. No matter how minor it is.

I'm going to warn you, publicly. That if you don't stop flaming people you won't be welcome here. If you have a difference of opinion present it in a polite and mature manor. Don't run your mouth like we are all going to hell for ignoring a girl. Think before you write.

[Andrew]

amen

[Johnny Bravo]

I actually tried, to think of saying it in the most proper way.


And I even asked my brother the right way to say it. But he couldnt think of one.


I think its becuase we are thinking from another view.

All im saying is if you think from a girls veiw, how would you feel?

Its all about calibration.


I see how dicky that was, Im sorry, Andrew, im not trying to be a prick.

I enjoy challenging people, gives everyone a chance to show what they are. Like I said man, no personal feelings, I swear.


Gay. [/color]

[Andrew]

I totally understand that. It might just help to phrase your opinions as opininions rather than "this is the correct way." approach.

[nine]

In Gay's defense: if you've ever taken an English class then you've learned to never write a paper with, "In my opinion," or, "I think." Why, because the reader already knows it's your opinion since that's what you wrote down. While it may have came off assertive, that's because it was.

Jsquared, if you can't take a little AMOGing on a forum, how do you expect to handle it in the classroom, or better yet in front of a cold set? You told Gay he needed to present his opinions in a mature manner, well shouldn't you have read his post with that same level of maturity you expect?

Gay's first post had all the criteria of an intellectual argument, minus the vulgarity (which it should be noted were not aimed at you or anyone else, merely at someone else's proposal). He presents evidence, offers testimony from a highly respect community member, plus he gives a solution. Hell, he should've been rep'd, not flamed.

Nine

P.S. Oh, and in case this hurts anyone's feelings, it should be noted this is my opinion. Don't worry, no one else thinks you were completely irrational and unnecessarily defensive.

[Grape]

Or maybe different opinions broke rapport....
Emotions vs Logic, guess who wins?
This is pua, not debate/english

[nine]

Oct 27, 2008 13:57:03 GMT -5 Grape said:

This is pua, not debate/english

I was pointing out that Gay's lack of a weasel statement was him asserting his frame. It wasn't an insult or some misconstrued sign of disrespect.

Nine

[Grape]

Exactly man! =D
Changing up a few words can change the outcome dramatically, in such a case the point is proven.
Oh well..

[SenorBubbz]

Is this why gay left?

[Grape]

I'm deleting these posts.