rlouisj7
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Post by rlouisj7 on Feb 4, 2009 19:08:05 GMT -5
ok story: i already promised 2 go 2 prom with some girl. we're really just friends and shes not ugly or anything. a solid non-embarrassing prom date. BUT theres a girl that i really like that i wanna ask. the thing is i already asked her to the semi formal and she waitlisted me. but since then i feel like we've gotten closer and we've been flirting alot. and after the fact she texted me being real apologetic abt waitlisting me and shit. on top of that i was more of the alfa male at semi compared 2 her date. i danced better than him and i looked better than him (outfit). so i do want 2 ask her but help me out on a way i can ask her again but this time the alpha male way. im jus worried that if she wait lists me again my value will go down and i'll look lik an idiot again.
or should i ask at all..
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optimus
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Post by optimus on Feb 4, 2009 23:37:21 GMT -5
You made a deal, so you really don't have a choice about prom, but if you like her and you think you've gamed her well, ask her out.
You could probably convince your friend to let you ask the other girl, but I (personally) wouldn't.
The third option is that if your target doesn't appreciate you, just move on.
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kristallnachte
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Post by kristallnachte on Feb 17, 2009 21:46:10 GMT -5
Just go with said girl you promised, and game other chick there.
Oddly enough, most girls get sick of their dates before the dance is really getting good...so its easy pick-up =P
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optimus
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Post by optimus on Feb 17, 2009 23:45:37 GMT -5
Just go with said girl you promised, and game other chick there. I gotta take the other side. When I take a girl to a dance, I'm all about her. That's just the way it is. Ask the other chick out. It isn't really a big deal. |
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kristallnachte
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Post by kristallnachte on Feb 18, 2009 0:07:32 GMT -5
lol Optimus
Only once did I stick with my date, and I dated her later and she became my one-itis....its funny, cause I was doing EVERYTHING right, until i cheated on her. Only when I was trying to get her BACK did I go true AFC, and even though not that much.
Had I not cheated on her, everything would have been perfect.
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