Out of the Circles-HELP

[cork]

Here's the situation:
My parents broke up before I was born. My dad is pretty cool, and he went on to marry a type-A, superorganized, just overall great person. Mom is a helpless romantic, who married the whitest, geekiest, most socially awkward person I know.

Guess which ones I live with?

Living with my mom is a battle. I have to entertain her need for "the perfect family" who only need each other, while at the same time struggling to maintain the social standing I've resultingly only just begun to build since leaving the extremely confining private school four years ago.

This is sometimes ignorable. When I first tapped into the game this summer, I found sarging at the mall was great, because the only time I saw the girls was when we hung out. At least that was the theory, because 9 out of 10 times, I didn't actually succeed (I was brand new, and hadn't even learned half the rules listed in Strauss's THE GAME, which was my first exposure to the communtity). Social proof was easy to create. It was all fun.

Then school started, and I realized something. Just because I was learning how to really game didn't mean I was set. I had just realize that there really isn't a way to make up social proof. Your rep leans heavily on your friends.

I mentioned I came from a private school. Since "going public," as I like to say, I have found I get along well with anyone I want to. But that isn't enough. How do I secure the trust of, well, anyone (guy or girl) in order to get myself into social circles and up my game? How do I overcome a deeply rooted AMOG? (yes, that is a specific problem I'm facing) And when, in a High School setting, can I show that I am the ringleader, the "guy to be with"?

It's great talking to you all. It always is.

[nino g]

So as of right know would u say u have friends?Or just people ur comfortable with in class,
anyways its easy to vibe with people and get them to wanna chill with u..i used to be a cocky
whiny bicth and yes i had friends also had alot of "haters"
well i found that always being positive is the way to go, i have ALOT of friends girls tell me i have a energy when they come around where they just wanna smile all the time..
And make friends with GIRLS, GIRLS, GIRLS i think gay and plenty of people have said
that also " u see a table with ur homies and one with girls GO GIRLS!!!"
talking to girls will help u learn to socialize wayyy better theyve done it longer..
plus ull get a dhv effect when u meet her friends and she introduces u..
so be positive..Practice gaming men also, no homo but u gotta learn to vibe with
everyone even AMOGS! To the over emotiond emo..
Now amogs i dont have trouble with but they do occur one in awhile..it depends on ur situation though, like just the other day this amog came into my set
i opend at school, and trys to give me a titty twister.
so this is what i did i pushed his hand slightly hes a fat fuck and is slow, and i was kinda outlaw josey whales stlye unreactive, i waited like 3 sec looked at him
and i said
Me: wtf is wrong with u?(with a dirty ass look like a adult gives a dog who got into the trash loo)k, u must be nervous so i introduced him to the girls (note im befreiending him)
i knew him kinda but never talked to him outside of school i ended up getting him a gf
and guess what shes trying to get me, now.
Just be positive things will work out if u can re-frame decently..anyways hope i helpd on some level and whats the situation with this amog

[cork]

Here's the amog deal. He's nice. Just nice. He's friendly to everyone including me, and he's known all the hbs in my english class since they were all in the 5th grade or younger. Superpositive attitude, Impossible to overcome. But he's not a huge problem. The bigger picture has me in it. Me, but with no close friends, no reputation. Noone to back me up in what I do. I have tons of people who smile at me, who talk to me, who say, "How are you" and "good morning" and we all have a great time. But in the end, hardly any of them would walk with me to classes like old friends, sending the message out to everyone that I have friends and am not to be messed with. Noone hates me, but noone looks up to me either. I need a social standing.
How do I get other guys to look up to me, to stand down and say, "If I'm with him, I get women", in a high school setting where I can't make up a story?

[shadow7]

I can help with the whole gaining friends in cool social circles. So first, Make every guy love you, then, make every girl wet themselves when they think about you at night.
First things first,
Watch "Can't Buy Me Love" It'll probably help your situation a good amount. What I would want to know next is if you were in the cool social circle at your private school. Since I'm probably half the country from you I'll just move on to the next point. You must act like the cool guys do. You have to talk to girls like the cool guys do. You have to befriend each one, act cool yet friendly. 65% Cool and 35% Friendly. You then should pass them in the hall (your body language should be erect and alpha) and say "(their name)! Whats up! (then you **High Five**)" Talking to them is optional. You must be casual, cool, confident, your own man, and easy going. Once they think you are cool, then you are IN. Okay now the fun part. Girls. So to me flirting is easy so I assume its easy for you, if It isn't, PM me. So you will introduce yourself, immediately show in some way that you are entertaining, alpha, confident and have an attractive personality. Show pre-selection whenever possible but not to an overabundant degree.
You should then have some friends in the "IN" circle and some girls who you flirt with/or are having relations with. This will get more friends who are cool guys. Which means more girls. Perpetual Cycle of Pure Bliss.
So now you have friends in the social circle, girls who think you are attractive and will talk to you because you have mutual friends and have seen you around, and basically a life.
If I have left anything out or need to clarify more, let me know.

Shadow

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