I said what i really think and everyone laughed

[fatalclaw]

Hello forum,
We all know how we are supposed to say everything we think, act like we want, be who we want to be and do what we think. So today during class named "World and Person" ( A philosophy class with a stuck up bitch for teacher with the biggest fake confidence i've seen in my life) We had a homework essay and for fist time in my life i made my homework, in that essay i said everything i think about education and life. She interrupted me while i was reading. She didnt stop making conflicts with me, askin me non sensed questions. I answered what i was really thinkin and guess what. she laughed at me. a god damn teacher did that. i though she was the one that was suppose to understand me...everyone laughed at me at class, i felt really bad.. i was talkin what i was thinkin and the result was everyone laughin at me and i got "f" for grade. in the hallway after class my best friend in school told me " you fucked up alot" i told him that i dont care and i was talkin what i was really thinkin. I've never felt that bad in my life. i dont feel sorry for what i did, i would do it again, i feel actually somehow good about that. i said what i was really thinkin...But if everyone laughs at me i dont see how im gettin better, even girls laughed... atm my inner game is really fucked up! For future i will continue saying what i really think and i wont care if people laugh, but how im supposed to get better...
What do you guys think about the situation?
p.s. my class is full of amogs

[samiam]

Not being afraid to say what you think is great, but after you get that confidence you need to start building up the social awareness to understand what should or should not be said. This doesn't mean don't say things because you're scared of others' reactions, but be aware of what people are going to think, and be willing to deal with that. Confidence is great, but without calibration it doesn't go very far.

You seem like you'll be fine with time though. The fact that you can still say "i don't really feel sorry for what i did, i would do it again" shows that you've got balls, and once you get the experience that gives you the calibration you need you'll be doing amazing.

[Caesar]

yeh, kudo's on speakin your mind and everything, but as samiam said, you need to build intuition. I suggest before your about to reveal yourself to other people, listen to yourself from a 3rd person view.

Keep speakin your mind man, i respect that.

Caesar

[Grape]

let me hit you with something: this community tends to teach a lot of bullshit.

the things of you doing whatever the fuck you want is ONLY supposed to make you feel better in the interior.

but when it comes to actually interacting and all you talk about is what you think, you'll fuck up and people will hate you.

this seems to me a case of you simply being socially dumb or blinded by the bullshit that resides in this community.

i STRONGLY recommend you add people on AIM by using that AIM SN list.

<33

[Grape]

p.s. read the articles in this forum.

[sharkoffs]

Dec 8, 2009 20:24:02 GMT -5 Grape said:

let me hit you with something: this community tends to teach a lot of bullshit.

the things of you doing whatever the fuck you want is ONLY supposed to make you feel better in the interior.

but when it comes to actually interacting and all you talk about is what you think, you'll fuck up and people will hate you.

this seems to me a case of you simply being socially dumb or blinded by the bullshit that resides in this community.

i STRONGLY recommend you add people on AIM by using that AIM SN list.

<33

True, but there also comes a point where you don't give a fuck about what your gonna say, and then not give a fuck about if people like it or not because it doesn't matter to you if you gain their approval or not but by not caring about having their approval you look extremely confident and most likely WILL get their approval.

It's a weird little concept isn't it? Just don't live your life by other people approval standards, only by the ones you set yourself.

Good Luck



Everything has to be done with a certain amount of social awareness though, always keep that in mind.

[acezero]

Honestly, I live by a few rules, one of them being:

"You can be yourself to a extent but don't say or do some weird ass shit that a normal person would question."

When I fuck up, I play it off as I don't care, I don't care what you guys think. You need to impress me. When someone laughs at me I look them in the eye.

But yeah I don't know about your inner game now.

One thing is that you can change it at anytime since :
"Believing IS Seeing."

If you don't believe, you can't see and thus no one can help you.

[nate303]

A psyc class? You said what you thought! That should be a passing grade

[extra]

If it's a psyche class tell her she's a dumbshit that's letting groupthink get to her head.

[WhiteKnight]

You are way too vague for us to give you any answer other than congrats on finding congruency between school and your personal beliefs. But based on the way you write here, where you have ample time to make your thoughts precise to ensure that we, your friends, your community can best answer and respond to what you write, tells me one thing. That perhaps you were mocked and received this grade not for what you believe, not for your philosophy, but instead for the way you said it.
I am not saying this to simply insult you, and as proof below is an example of something similar that once happened to me.

Me and my friend who was at a time fairly interested in Pickup/Seduction were talking about it while around some other friends during a basketball game. My friend only knew a lil PUA lingo, but there were some terms we both used. Maybe it was me showing off, I don't know...but I said way too much PUA lingo which my friends simply mocked. My Friends! I have since decided these aren't the best friends in the world, their idea of friendship is just not what I feel it should be. But I digress. I only used probably 5 PUA terms when I say too much, but the philosophy I was talking about is something AFCs refuse to accept until they open their eyes. In short if you didn't convert PUA philosophy into a life philosophy you may have sounded like a loser and a lunatic to these people simply because they are not ready. Frustrations for the next 10 years, and girls being seduced will lead to many more agreeing and hating our ideas by the time these people are say 25. Its the problem with being a High School PUA.