Post by Snow.za on Aug 5, 2012 9:43:40 GMT -5
Hey guys, wasn't too sure where to post this so if its in the wrong place just tell me where to move it too.
But anyways...
i have found that the one reason for not getting as much success as you would like is that fact that you are not closing!, you need to go for the close every single time, and when i talk about closing im not just talking about getting the number or the kiss or the fuck, im talking about every little escalation in the interaction from meet to sex, you could also call them milestones.
from meet to isolation, milestone
from isolation to k-close or n-close, milestone
extraction or day-2, milestone
and everything else, im sure you get the point.
The problem is there are windows of opertunity, you only have a second to get in and if you miss it, it shuts on your fingers and its over, but the worst thing is sometimes you cannot even see the window before it closes on you, that is why you just need to assume its there, sort of like jumping through the window blind.
Basically as soon as you think its time too do something, dont even hesitate, just do it. If you think it then it has to be the right time...
so thought patterns:
"maybe i should go talk to her" DO IT NOW!
"maybe i should ask for her number" DO IT NOW!
"maybe i should pull in" DO IT NOW!
"maybe i should extract" DO IT NOW!
"maybe i should fly through to England to steal her from her bf instead of waiting till tomorow and giving her bf a chance to sob his fucking little eyes out and get her to take him back" DO IT FUCKING NOW!!!
Also this can work in most aspects of your life, so just go for it
Safe, Snow.
But anyways...
i have found that the one reason for not getting as much success as you would like is that fact that you are not closing!, you need to go for the close every single time, and when i talk about closing im not just talking about getting the number or the kiss or the fuck, im talking about every little escalation in the interaction from meet to sex, you could also call them milestones.
from meet to isolation, milestone
from isolation to k-close or n-close, milestone
extraction or day-2, milestone
and everything else, im sure you get the point.
The problem is there are windows of opertunity, you only have a second to get in and if you miss it, it shuts on your fingers and its over, but the worst thing is sometimes you cannot even see the window before it closes on you, that is why you just need to assume its there, sort of like jumping through the window blind.
Basically as soon as you think its time too do something, dont even hesitate, just do it. If you think it then it has to be the right time...
so thought patterns:
"maybe i should go talk to her" DO IT NOW!
"maybe i should ask for her number" DO IT NOW!
"maybe i should pull in" DO IT NOW!
"maybe i should extract" DO IT NOW!
"maybe i should fly through to England to steal her from her bf instead of waiting till tomorow and giving her bf a chance to sob his fucking little eyes out and get her to take him back" DO IT FUCKING NOW!!!
Also this can work in most aspects of your life, so just go for it
Safe, Snow.
