orangejuice
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Post by orangejuice on Dec 22, 2008 9:40:26 GMT -5
Well, I was trying to game this hb that I've hung out with because of our group of friends.This is how it went... Me:Knock Knock Her:Whos there Me:Zakky (That's what she calls me) Her:Lmao NO SCHOOL! (Today is a snow day) Me:Ya im so happy.I get 2 stay home and have snowball fights! Her:Lol i have to babysti!Isnt that awesome. Me:Haha..Sucks for you:) Her:I know! Me:So what sort of trouble r u causing? Her:Im not causing any trouble lol. Me:Ya alright...i know ur type:) Her:Lol, what's that supposed to mean? Me: Nothin:) Her:Suree Me:Hey, wanna play a game? Her:Lol wat kinda of game. Me:Ok, im g2 ask u five questions but u have 2 lie for each question.Do you understand how 2 play? Her:So I have to lie? Me:Yup,do you get it? Her:Yeah i guess lol Me:Wow...You just failed.You just told the truth.Jeez..i thought u were smart.guess not Her:Lmao wow i didnt know the game had started already! Me:Haha.that's why it's so tricky.You might not b smart but alteast you have a nice body. Her:Lmao of thanks i guess haha. Me:Ughh.. im so tired. Her:Me too im prob going to bed soon. Me:Imma go 2 sleep.sweet dreams Her:Lol alright you too.Night. So how do you think I did?And what should I do next?Critisizim wil be much appreciated.
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SenorBubbz
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Post by SenorBubbz on Dec 22, 2008 17:21:05 GMT -5
some good push pull on the "no smarts/nice body" comment but you left it at pull! YOU HAVE TO PUSH!
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orangejuice
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Post by orangejuice on Dec 22, 2008 18:05:35 GMT -5
Ok, um... what do you mean by that?
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optimus
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Post by optimus on Dec 22, 2008 18:27:07 GMT -5
If you keep complimenting a girl, you come off as an AFC. If you keep calling her on her shit and insulting her, you're just a jerk. The trick is to balance it. That's push/pull. Search the forum, there's a ton of stuff about it.
You could have just told her that she had a nice body but that she wasn't your type. Then you've pulled (nice body) and you've also pushed (not your type).
It also doesn't seem like you have enough rapport. You should run some face-to-face game and get a couple of good compliance tests in there. Then you have something to calibrate off of.
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