Grape
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Post by Grape on Dec 22, 2008 22:26:12 GMT -5
I've noticed this and it seems to be vital. It doesn't matter what you have going on in your head, it doesn't matter what you say, as long as it's not repulsive, what MATTERS is the FACT that you're talking with your target!
Back in my AFC days, my body language was horrible and my value was completely off, but the fact that I approached and talked to my target had given me points.
Even these days, I ask myself am I talking to her or am I just talking in my head and telling myself why I shouldn't need to talk to her?
"The WHY doesn't really matter, but the fact does matter."
Always evaluate and see if you're actually getting laid or not.
Ask yourself "Have I been getting laid lately?"
"No, but I could."
"Then why not?!!"
"*blank*"
Just go for it. It's the easiest way to get rid of everything holding you back and the hardest way for you to NOT get laid.
Amirite, Grape
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Chris
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"you will never regret doing an approach, but you will always regret not doing one."
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Registered: Jul 6, 2008 12:05:22 GMT -5
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Post by Chris on Dec 23, 2008 16:36:20 GMT -5
Yes you are right lol. Back a few months ago, i was soo caught up in the PRIZE frame that i wouldn't even approach my targets cuz I wanted them to come to me. REALITY CHECK: Girls are PASSIVE. YOU have to LEAD. It's called PROACTIVE prizing.
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