Amplified
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Post by Amplified on Oct 10, 2008 1:26:25 GMT -5
You guys were, at some point, where I am now. You had a problem. I have a problem.
I'm a 16 year old Junior, and I'm in total need of help. I'm not just bad with women, I'm not great at being social. I'm constantly thinking if other people don't like me and whether my friends actually like having me around, and it's really bugging me at this point. I've already learned the hard way about girls who want to turn you into an emotional tampon, and I've dropped a big group of friends who weren't any good for me in lots of ways.
I'd love some help and support on this from you guys. My goals are to increase my social circles, become good at talking to and dating women, and to get a group of supportive friends.
If anyone could suggest what books and courses I should look up or download to get me started, that'd be incredibly awesome of you. I have some basic stuff, but I haven't gone through too much of it. I'm a little lost in all this stuff.
Hi, my name is Amplified, and I'm bad with women.
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Rusty
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Post by Rusty on Oct 10, 2008 2:21:13 GMT -5
Lol hey man! Welcome to the forum. Yeh, same problem last year. But man, it doesn't even matter about the issues you had in the past, today marks a new day for you. Pickup isn't JUST about women. It's actually way more then that. It's about you and what you want to achieve, and it allows you to be yourself so you can truly achieve those things. I'll give it a couple of months at the most, if you really get into, your situation will drastically improve. I'll try and get you started with some stuff.
Ok! The best way to go about HS game is definitely natural and direct game. I tried most of the others, got labeled weird, bad spot to be in. Natural Game is definitely the way to go. Alright, now what sources to look at. 'The Attraction Code'. A must get by Vin DiCarlo. GET IT! 'College Dating Domination', it's REALLY GOOD for highschool even thought it's about college. It's stuff about being a value-giving guy will get you a new circle of friends (because the one you have now obviously is very destructive to your confidence) that are more solid and will actually love having you around. If you like the one you have now, it can help you solidify it. 'Direct Game' which is also by Vin DiCarlo is also a very good book. Buy that and read it as well. Finally (and this has been the most helpful thing to me other then The Attraction Code) download 'The Pickup Podcast'. AT THE VERY LEAST GET EPISODE 50, 53 AND 54!
Hope all that helped. It's alot of material, but its the right material and will take you far. Man, don't worry about it. All those issues you had in the past are behind you now, you can fix it all. Good luck. See you around the forums.
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Amplified
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Post by Amplified on Oct 10, 2008 3:10:10 GMT -5
Thanks so much for pointing in me in the right direction, King. Already checking out the material you mentioned, seems like solid stuff. Nice to know I'm getting some boost here. May all your ups and downs be only in bed! PS: I've got some more questions, if you or anyone could answer these it'd be great. 1. How does NLP work out in High School? It sounds like a weird deal to get into. 2. How much social proof does being in a band get you? I'm learning guitar right now, going to play lead with my friend who's a drummer. Sort of like the White Stripes but with more distortion and punk.
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Grape
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Post by Grape on Oct 10, 2008 14:36:21 GMT -5
lol quick fact for you: A dick movie star isn't attractive. A dick king isn't attractive. A dick guitar player isn't attractive.
It's all about how you look at the world, whether you look down or up at everyone, and your MINDSET.
A poor chump can easily steal Brad Pitt's date if his beliefs and mindsets are strong enough.
However, being in a band WILL generate attraction. Just don't think "Oh I'm in a band, will ya fuck me now?"
Don't worry man, you'll become a great PUA. We all do. Lookin' forward to talkin with ya.
Grape
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Post by Andrew on Oct 10, 2008 15:18:56 GMT -5
sup bro. It was really big of you to realize that you needed to drop friends that werent good for you. I didnt realize i had to do that until i was maybe four or five months into game.
Id get david deangelo's double your dating.
See you around the forum, IM me if you want. My sn is my forum name
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Amplified
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Post by Amplified on Oct 10, 2008 18:04:36 GMT -5
Thanks for the response, guys. Grape, that's some inspiring stuff. I don't think anyone who saw Fight Club would want to steal Brad Pitt's date, but let's hope I can get to that point. Andrew: I decided one day I didn't need friends who wanted me to play World of Warcraft with them forever, lol. I'd love to hear about your experiences with this stuff early on. Anyway, seeya around.
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Post by Andrew on Oct 10, 2008 18:41:37 GMT -5
definately Im me dude. i got good stories xD
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Luc
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Post by Luc on Oct 12, 2008 21:09:56 GMT -5
Man you are definately on the right track and if u continue you are gonna do pretty well for yourself. The one thing I suggest is to really start and look at inner game. One large thing is that if you feel good about yourself others can see it. Its the same reason naturals get all the girls.
Remember to do things that make you happy. Whats the point if you dont?
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