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Post by cork on Aug 31, 2009 9:46:26 GMT -5
I've tried sarging in lots of different places, but few can beat malls. At the movies, no girl really goes alone, or if they do, it's because they're ugly and can't get a date. Parties are better, but there's not always a party to go to. So, the mall. It's the Red Truck Wine of locations. A point of reference. Plus, you can create social proof that may not exist outside in the real world. But even at the mall, most [hot] girls are taken. And anyone else is good for nothing but target practice. So, in a world where the good ones aren't availible, we have to be able to keep cool, and catch the target off guard with witty, spur-of-the-moment comebacks that get us back in the game when we look trashed.
For me, what worked for awhile one time was when this HB said she had a boyfriend, my reply was "so do I". It got me back to talking with her and her friend, and things were going great. Then, I started to look at where I was, and I realized Icouldn't nullify what I had said. so, she went on thinking I was gay, and it went downhill from there. I didn't even number close. I put up a time constraint and left. She never knew I was trying to hit on her.
The point: Girls have boyfriends. And...? There is no reason for that to shut us down and send us searching for "second best". So what can we do? Obviously the gay line didn't work, or else I didnt know how to do something I should know how. How do you get over the "boyfriend" barrier? And when you disqualify yourself, how do you bounce back?
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Post by SenorBubbz on Aug 31, 2009 15:40:23 GMT -5
Ignore it. If she persists, say "That's ok. He can keep my girlfriend company while we hangout." And continue to a new topic.
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Post by anarchy on Sept 2, 2009 21:21:35 GMT -5
Punch her in the face
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Post by zegoni on Sept 6, 2009 13:40:27 GMT -5
Or simply don't mind it. If you're trying to pick her up at the mall, wanting to bang her in the toilet... Your chances are small even though she doesn't have a boyfriend. Just go for the social circle game, with a lot of don't give a shit attitude + attraction, and you'll get taken girls in the end. You need to focus on one thing without being outcome dependant, and it's the only thing that really works.
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Post by darkpwns on Sept 7, 2009 13:48:09 GMT -5
There's a girl that looks just like her 30 steps away, what's the point in wasting your time and mental abilities on a girl who persists that sleeping with her lamedick boyfriend is better than sleeping with you
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Post by manslaughter on Sept 7, 2009 17:32:02 GMT -5
a good one to say if your stuck in the gay corner ''well actualy my brothers the gay one of the family'' or if she has boyfriend thats ok maybe he can cook us dinner somtime
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Post by manslaughter on Sept 7, 2009 17:36:28 GMT -5
acording to mistery thats a disqualifyer thats bad the better thing to do is use a false disqualifier then she will try to qualify her self to you and the you remove the false disquaifier
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Post by nutrick on Sept 7, 2009 18:00:49 GMT -5
please manslaughter, unless you can come up with concrete evidence based on first hand experience and not just something you read out of a book to prove your point, don't give out advice. i know you're trying to help the guy out, but it's more like "blind leading the blind"
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Post by cork on Sept 9, 2009 10:08:15 GMT -5
a good one to say if your stuck in the gay corner ''well actualy my brothers the gay one of the family'' or if she has boyfriend thats ok maybe he can cook us dinner somtime that is so taken fro m mystery. Disapprove. Look, manslauiter. If you're just going to quote your favorite famous PUAs, I can do that much. I'm not some AFC who's ready to try whatever canned material is thrown at me. What do you take me for? Or worse, what are you?
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Post by Deleted on Sept 9, 2009 14:23:44 GMT -5
There are sooo many responses to this. And by the way cork, almost everything in the community nowadays is taken from someone. You're "So do I" response isn't original.
What I would say is (yes these aren't originally mine, but you don't have to bash me)
"Good, he can serve us breakfast in bed"
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"I've only known you for a few minutes and you're already telling me about your problems?"
There's a million of them. Girls really don't care about their boyfriends. They need companionship and will dump him for the next big thing.
EDIT: Btw Darkpwns, sometimes it's used as a shit test and they don't actually have a boyfriend. A loooooot of girls have "boyfriends". I agree on moving to the next girl, but if the girl is smoking I say game her a little bit more.
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Post by cork on Sept 10, 2009 16:14:41 GMT -5
Really? ''me too'' was taken? No, I'm not against using other people's lines, but quoting the most widely known puas as advice to someone when you don't have any field experience yourself is just not smart. Thanks for the advice, but I think for now I'll stick to single targets for the time being.
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Post by manslaughter on Sept 12, 2009 11:48:08 GMT -5
the ''maybe he could make us dinner some time'' wasn't from mystery but i am still sorry if i offended anyone
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Post by bloodlust on Mar 16, 2010 13:08:31 GMT -5
this is quite possibly the most relevant post ive come across yet. Not really about the malls or dq theory, but every girl i have successfully gamed since i started has had a boyfriend. and i have a ltr myself (gasp). It seems that the whole boyfriend barrier is best dealt with early on, because as trust, comfort, etc build, its almost like your breaking all of that by tempting her. On the other hand, if she knows from the very beginning that you don't care at all, it releives the future tension :] Also good for building the reputation of "the guy that will keep quiet"
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Post by Luis the awesomest of awesomes on Apr 27, 2010 11:22:26 GMT -5
if she tells you she has a boyfriend and your game was tight (I.E. you didn't suck) then she is just using that so she can rationalize slepping with you later example: "oh I told him I had a boyfriend he came on to me, it's not my fault that he seduced me"
don't let it bring you down if your game was good then just ignore it haha Idk but i just thought of something funny to say: you: no im not gonna have a threasome with you ( XD)
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Post by Deleted on Apr 27, 2010 12:04:49 GMT -5
God damn, I've changed a lot in these past months! I should've totally ripped on you for using "So do I". Why would you even want a girl to consider the possibility of you being gay? You're just going backwards. Also, why use false disqualifiers like you are saying? Why would you want to disqualify yourself to a girl? Once again, you're just going backwards. Seriously, what does "If I wasn't gay, I'd totally go for you!" prove? That you're too insecure to actually telegraph interest and instead hide behind pretending to be gay? If I ever use a false disqualifier its when I know that she wants my nuts. It's more of a "you can't have me but I know you want me " kind of thing, not a "I'm scared of showing interest so I'm going to pretend I don't like you" /thread hijack
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