Post by Sloth on Nov 4, 2010 16:03:42 GMT -5
Alright, this is a gargantuan post about party's, and the various different types and just general tips. Kind of like a guide, we have a lot more parties in England, cause the drinking age is lower and the police aren't a problem!
Starting Point
Alright it's the day of the party, and you're looking forward to it - standard.
1. Get some friends over to travel with/ go round a friends.
Make sure these are people you want to go with, but also people that have high value i mean, you guys should all be of high value, so the guys you hang with should be to - naturally. But what i mean is, don't walk in with a bunch of ass holes. Who you enter with tells people what kind of person you are straight away, if they don't know you and you walk in with a drug dealing ass hole, they're gonna think you're just like him etc etc.
2. Get up for it, get some music on, get a smile, make yourself look dapper and maybe even try something new with what you wear/your hair, make sure your friends approve though.
3. Before you go, you can even pump yourself up in the mirror and plan out some game if you're nervous - certainly when you're starting out it helps to go in prepared (especially when your drunken self takes over!)
Alright on to the party
first off here's general tips for ANY parties
1. Before you go set yourself/let your friends set you (and you set them) targets, eg: get with a HB etc. This gives you something to do for fun if nothing else. But don't spend your whole night thinking it over. This is more of a thing to do with other PUAs
2. Never get too drunk. If you can't handle another shot, don't get pulled into it. I know there are times when if you DON'T do one you'll be a pussy, but there are easy ways out: go for a piss, go for a cigarette, fake a phone call (this one is the best), or just simply say brb and head elsewhere.
If you're too drunk/throwing up you're a low value piece of shit, simple. You will stop being invited to parties.
If you have a few, and maybe get drunk, and have a good time, you're high value, you'll go to more parties.
3. Keep an eye on your friends and they will do the same
be it winging your friend when your friend sense is tingling
or stopping them from getting too drunk
or looking after them when they are too drunk (if they're take good a mate)
What goes around comes around.
4. Don't be afraid to ask your friends to introduce you to people you don't know. Yeah, that's it.
NOW THEN
There are 5 main types of parties
1. Chilled
2. Messy shit
3. Orgy
4. Fun and games
5. Big drama
I base this of the 5 experiences that I've had more than a few times at parties.
Chill and chat
These are pretty common, you walk in and everyone's just chattin, nothing really going on. If you're in the mood, then grab a beer, and enjoy. If you see a HB, go for it - everyone's meeting new people and chatting.
If you're nervous still, why not have a drink and then do it. It's not a great thing to have to do, get drunk for confidence, but if you really need it........
Seeing a HB can make/break your night
You can spend all night thinking about it, and kicking yourself, it happens, you go home hating yourself for not doing a thing, and watching her ALL NIGHT. You've all been there...
Talking to the HB can make your night, if you go about it well like you all have the POTENTIAL to do.
keep in mind!
If you talk to her and fuck up it's better than not doing it at all, plus you can just turn it into a funny story!
Tips on a chilled night
1. Bring it to life, everyone will love certain games, be it ring of fire, beer pong, truth or dare, etc etc. Get a group, then more will join, get it going!
2. If you are a smoker this is a great way to isolate and generally chat to strangers (asking for a light makes it easy). If you're not a smoker then I'm glad.
3. These parties make isolating easier, get chatting, get gaming, get on your own, get down tonight.
Messy Shit
These parties are fucking awful, and usually happen when you're younger, or at a younger party.
You arrive and everyones already wasted, throughout the night everyone's puking up and it's shit.
These people getting messy are low value that think drinking alcohol gives them value, the cool kids drink it, therefore it's cool to drink it.
Stay away from these people and their parties, people will see photos and you'll be seen as low value simply for being there. However if you wanna go, secure a good group of people away from the mess and chill out, i never recommend going to these parties looking to hook up because you'll pull a drunkard - good for you :l
Tips
as i said, just don't get involved with the mess, and stay away from alcohol, you'll do something stupid
Orgy
Haha, orgy.. pretty much, if you haven't been to a party like this then you've heard the gossip 'name' fucked 'name' 'name' sucked off 'name' x100 etc etc.
Basically everyone is hooking up, probably due to alcohol.
These parties it's easy to hook up, just be forward. However the hook up will mean nothing and if you do it to much you're a whore.
I think it's cause the girls just copy each other, some shit like that.
At these parties i don't get involved, i think hooking up at these is yet another issue people have with NEEDING value.
However it does happen, you get lucky, you have a good night, you game well. Be proud of it, just because everyone at the party hooked up doesn't mean you didn't have solid game.
Tips
1. don't be too eager about it, don't let it ruin your night just cause you can't seem to get any. Go for it, and if there's nothing on, then hang out with some people and have a genuine good time.
Fun and games
These parties are the shit, you walk in and there's beer pong, people having a good time, you see all your friends dotted about and hell the alcohol is plentiful, why not!
I don't need to tell you how to roll at these parties. If you've got targets set, go for them, if you really are struggling then don't let it bug you, just have a good time.
I know i said 'set targets' etc, but it's all in the name of fun.
Hooking up is a side product of having a good time, having a good time is the key.
HAVE A GOOD TIME, HAVE A GOOD TIME, HAVE A GOOD TIME.
This is why not hooking up shouldn't ruin your night, cause you shouldn't be going to a party with the NEED to hook up.
If you ain't havin fun, you ain't partyin right!
TIPS
Stay away from drugs, they - like drinking too much, can ruin your night
and i know some of you will be like, na man they make it better! but it don't take much to go wrong with drugs and you've fucked up your night, plus drugs are just fake value.
they're fake value cause you think people are like - woah he's doing drugs... like it's all grown up or some shit, or when you get older its a common thing and people might think you're pretty cool.
And if you don't usually do drugs you probably think people are thinking 'i didn't think he was like that, he's pretty hardcore.' But no, it's fake value, most people will just stay away from you - depending on the crowd your in, it may be full of druggies!
Trust me, im not some anti drug fag - I've been there, thought i was cool, and realised first hand that it's bullshit.
But at the end of the day it's your choice
The Big Drama Parties
Someone's had a fight, someone's gotten paraletic and there's an ambulance outside, the police are coming, someone's crying
BLA BLA BLA BLA BULLSHIT.
stay the fuck out of any drama, it engulfs a party.
Tips
1. Hold your ground with the group your in, if any of them go get involved, move on and take whoever you can with you
2. If everyone at the parties over there, fine, go over, but do not get involved, just chill out and let it pass
3. Don't gossip about it, some people can be real snakes and the gossip can end up linking you to the drama, this reaaaaally sucks.
4. just try and have a good time
Last points
1. Personally i don't like leaving parties on my own, leave in a group and chill out afterwards if you can (means you have a place to go with your pull, if you got lucky)
2. Get in a few photos if you can, it's always cool.
3. Check yourself in mirrors, stay dapper and neat, even when you're drunk.
4. Get a little tipsy before you go with your friends
That's about it i reckon, any other questions don't be afraid to ask!
Peace x
Sloth
Starting Point
Alright it's the day of the party, and you're looking forward to it - standard.
1. Get some friends over to travel with/ go round a friends.
Make sure these are people you want to go with, but also people that have high value i mean, you guys should all be of high value, so the guys you hang with should be to - naturally. But what i mean is, don't walk in with a bunch of ass holes. Who you enter with tells people what kind of person you are straight away, if they don't know you and you walk in with a drug dealing ass hole, they're gonna think you're just like him etc etc.
2. Get up for it, get some music on, get a smile, make yourself look dapper and maybe even try something new with what you wear/your hair, make sure your friends approve though.
3. Before you go, you can even pump yourself up in the mirror and plan out some game if you're nervous - certainly when you're starting out it helps to go in prepared (especially when your drunken self takes over!)
Alright on to the party
first off here's general tips for ANY parties
1. Before you go set yourself/let your friends set you (and you set them) targets, eg: get with a HB etc. This gives you something to do for fun if nothing else. But don't spend your whole night thinking it over. This is more of a thing to do with other PUAs
2. Never get too drunk. If you can't handle another shot, don't get pulled into it. I know there are times when if you DON'T do one you'll be a pussy, but there are easy ways out: go for a piss, go for a cigarette, fake a phone call (this one is the best), or just simply say brb and head elsewhere.
If you're too drunk/throwing up you're a low value piece of shit, simple. You will stop being invited to parties.
If you have a few, and maybe get drunk, and have a good time, you're high value, you'll go to more parties.
3. Keep an eye on your friends and they will do the same
be it winging your friend when your friend sense is tingling
or stopping them from getting too drunk
or looking after them when they are too drunk (if they're take good a mate)
What goes around comes around.
4. Don't be afraid to ask your friends to introduce you to people you don't know. Yeah, that's it.
NOW THEN
There are 5 main types of parties
1. Chilled
2. Messy shit
3. Orgy
4. Fun and games
5. Big drama
I base this of the 5 experiences that I've had more than a few times at parties.
Chill and chat
These are pretty common, you walk in and everyone's just chattin, nothing really going on. If you're in the mood, then grab a beer, and enjoy. If you see a HB, go for it - everyone's meeting new people and chatting.
If you're nervous still, why not have a drink and then do it. It's not a great thing to have to do, get drunk for confidence, but if you really need it........
Seeing a HB can make/break your night
You can spend all night thinking about it, and kicking yourself, it happens, you go home hating yourself for not doing a thing, and watching her ALL NIGHT. You've all been there...
Talking to the HB can make your night, if you go about it well like you all have the POTENTIAL to do.
keep in mind!
If you talk to her and fuck up it's better than not doing it at all, plus you can just turn it into a funny story!
Tips on a chilled night
1. Bring it to life, everyone will love certain games, be it ring of fire, beer pong, truth or dare, etc etc. Get a group, then more will join, get it going!
2. If you are a smoker this is a great way to isolate and generally chat to strangers (asking for a light makes it easy). If you're not a smoker then I'm glad.
3. These parties make isolating easier, get chatting, get gaming, get on your own, get down tonight.
Messy Shit
These parties are fucking awful, and usually happen when you're younger, or at a younger party.
You arrive and everyones already wasted, throughout the night everyone's puking up and it's shit.
These people getting messy are low value that think drinking alcohol gives them value, the cool kids drink it, therefore it's cool to drink it.
Stay away from these people and their parties, people will see photos and you'll be seen as low value simply for being there. However if you wanna go, secure a good group of people away from the mess and chill out, i never recommend going to these parties looking to hook up because you'll pull a drunkard - good for you :l
Tips
as i said, just don't get involved with the mess, and stay away from alcohol, you'll do something stupid
Orgy
Haha, orgy.. pretty much, if you haven't been to a party like this then you've heard the gossip 'name' fucked 'name' 'name' sucked off 'name' x100 etc etc.
Basically everyone is hooking up, probably due to alcohol.
These parties it's easy to hook up, just be forward. However the hook up will mean nothing and if you do it to much you're a whore.
I think it's cause the girls just copy each other, some shit like that.
At these parties i don't get involved, i think hooking up at these is yet another issue people have with NEEDING value.
However it does happen, you get lucky, you have a good night, you game well. Be proud of it, just because everyone at the party hooked up doesn't mean you didn't have solid game.
Tips
1. don't be too eager about it, don't let it ruin your night just cause you can't seem to get any. Go for it, and if there's nothing on, then hang out with some people and have a genuine good time.
Fun and games
These parties are the shit, you walk in and there's beer pong, people having a good time, you see all your friends dotted about and hell the alcohol is plentiful, why not!
I don't need to tell you how to roll at these parties. If you've got targets set, go for them, if you really are struggling then don't let it bug you, just have a good time.
I know i said 'set targets' etc, but it's all in the name of fun.
Hooking up is a side product of having a good time, having a good time is the key.
HAVE A GOOD TIME, HAVE A GOOD TIME, HAVE A GOOD TIME.
This is why not hooking up shouldn't ruin your night, cause you shouldn't be going to a party with the NEED to hook up.
If you ain't havin fun, you ain't partyin right!
TIPS
Stay away from drugs, they - like drinking too much, can ruin your night
and i know some of you will be like, na man they make it better! but it don't take much to go wrong with drugs and you've fucked up your night, plus drugs are just fake value.
they're fake value cause you think people are like - woah he's doing drugs... like it's all grown up or some shit, or when you get older its a common thing and people might think you're pretty cool.
And if you don't usually do drugs you probably think people are thinking 'i didn't think he was like that, he's pretty hardcore.' But no, it's fake value, most people will just stay away from you - depending on the crowd your in, it may be full of druggies!
Trust me, im not some anti drug fag - I've been there, thought i was cool, and realised first hand that it's bullshit.
But at the end of the day it's your choice
The Big Drama Parties
Someone's had a fight, someone's gotten paraletic and there's an ambulance outside, the police are coming, someone's crying
BLA BLA BLA BLA BULLSHIT.
stay the fuck out of any drama, it engulfs a party.
Tips
1. Hold your ground with the group your in, if any of them go get involved, move on and take whoever you can with you
2. If everyone at the parties over there, fine, go over, but do not get involved, just chill out and let it pass
3. Don't gossip about it, some people can be real snakes and the gossip can end up linking you to the drama, this reaaaaally sucks.
4. just try and have a good time
Last points
1. Personally i don't like leaving parties on my own, leave in a group and chill out afterwards if you can (means you have a place to go with your pull, if you got lucky)
2. Get in a few photos if you can, it's always cool.
3. Check yourself in mirrors, stay dapper and neat, even when you're drunk.
4. Get a little tipsy before you go with your friends
That's about it i reckon, any other questions don't be afraid to ask!
Peace x
Sloth