timmywimmy
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Post by timmywimmy on Nov 11, 2010 20:36:11 GMT -5
Alright going to start off by saying sorry if this is in the wrong area didnt know nwhere to put it. So ive been gaming chicks from other schools through text and i was wondering how do i them to hang out? do i just ask when they show IOIs or what?
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pickupking
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Post by pickupking on Nov 28, 2010 19:22:51 GMT -5
NO!! dont do it when they show iois ....cuz if u give iois back she will just flat out be disinterested!! Its happen to me like 2 times, and i hate it!! Cuz i always think about the 2 that got away...Show 0 interest, to build attraction,,then build comfort then have fun!! DHV ALL THE WAY!!!
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Post by Contempt on Nov 28, 2010 21:57:13 GMT -5
just ask... once you've done the above of course. but yeah dont show ioi's when they show ioi's. infact i push when they give iois often. and pull when they push me. Its like rewarding them for standing up to you.
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DanZy
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Post by DanZy on Nov 29, 2010 3:25:36 GMT -5
Dude if she's showing interest and you don't show a hint of attraction towards her she's going to be put off. I get it the two guys above me like to be chased but personally I find it quite mundane. just close her quickly. Yes don't show her massive ioi's when she does but do show some sort of interest. If a girls interested in you, she's not going to hate you for hinting at you own interest. I'm an absolute master at text game, I've been able to turn around situations(met her when I was drunk ) with ease. These guys are both essiantially saying don't give ioi's at all.WRONG! obviously you're showing your interest if you ask her to hang out. Just put it into the convo when it feels right. Honestly don't dhv the whole time. Dhv's cause you to be of higher value BUT do not create attraction that much
dude just ask her to hang out and game from there
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Post by Contempt on Nov 29, 2010 8:36:54 GMT -5
where did i say dont show ioi's at all? in addition mine was for most of the time. there arent "rules" to pick up and there are obviously times when you should do differently...
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DanZy
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Post by DanZy on Nov 29, 2010 9:16:15 GMT -5
Dude you didn't say it, the other guy pretty much did, I fucked up there sorry. Of course there's no rules to pickup but there's basic structure
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Post by Contempt on Nov 29, 2010 17:05:19 GMT -5
yeah. i agree with something you said though. Its definitly best to hang out in person as quickly as possible esp since you cant kino through text.
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slyman
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Post by slyman on Nov 29, 2010 22:01:30 GMT -5
yeah, Danzy is right. The game is mutual...she gives you something, you give her something. negging constantly, never showing any interest will make her want to find other guys who will make her feel like a queen. Deffinitely go at leas 60/40 her interest to yours, but you still gotta show her your interested. Just ask her in your case...if youve built up attraction and comfort, she WILL say yes. Game should never be over thought to the level that "pickupking" says...just have fun with the girl. and that includes giving out value as well as gaining it.
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