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Post by mims277 on Nov 14, 2010 13:24:55 GMT -5
I went into a party, and there were so many stuck up girls out there. I went and tried to open with "I need a female opinion on something" and most of them said no thanks. After the party I did it on a girl with my friend
Me: I need a female opinion on something, should my friend wear the bandanna? or lose it (pointing to my friend next to me). Her: Lose it Me: What if it was a different color? Her: You asked for my opinion and that's my opinion
how do i break the bitch barrier?
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Post by RMO on Nov 14, 2010 13:30:36 GMT -5
i wouldnt use opinion openers, actually I never open with an opinion.
An opener is a screener, its if you want to invest your time with her, shes not being stuck up or a bitch, but your trying to get her to lead the interaction, thats not what girl's want. Now if you were having a good time with your friend and you honestly wanted her opinion it would be fine, and everyone would be fine, but you wanted her to invest attention to you, and that is not the way,
opening requires seductive eye contact, a quick 'hey', and the mindset that who ever is talking is qualifying themselves, speak softly and carry a big stick so to say.
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Post by mims277 on Nov 14, 2010 13:43:19 GMT -5
but how would I follow up after that hey?
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Post by RMO on Nov 14, 2010 13:49:15 GMT -5
it all depends on how you want the interaction to go, you can banter, I personally go Direct. Which means I show interest but she still has to qualify herself to me. Look up banter lines on the forum. Be physical, I dont mean the PUA kino bullshit which is like a scientific chart of where to touch and when, just start touching her. Not groping, but just be the kind of guy who plays around.
The zen of cool is really all you need after hey.
add value and fun
dont react to negativity.
a good follow up is,
"you look cute, I want to get to know you" Direct only works if you have nothing to lose and your uber confident, you have to be this way to your core or it doesn't work.
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Post by mims277 on Nov 14, 2010 14:05:02 GMT -5
And what if they have a bitch shield?
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Post by RMO on Nov 14, 2010 14:09:26 GMT -5
well if your dealing with a highschool girl her bitch shield is usually pretty weak, but view her as you would a petulant child, dont react to her being a bitch, smirk, use somethng like
'OH your one of THOSE crazy girls, Ive heard stories about you crazy girls.'
the game is a joke, and the people who take it seriously are the comedians, keep that in mind.
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Post by mims277 on Nov 14, 2010 14:59:11 GMT -5
So if I get a dull response from her, just joke about it?
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Post by nikkidaamog on Nov 14, 2010 23:43:31 GMT -5
Na mims you have to wrong mindset thats why you keep asking questions. Its a FUCKING party, the mood and energy is high and by asking the opinion qestion just bring your whole energy down. You should just go in the party start grinding chicks left and right and kino and go from there. Remember, its a party. What if a girl came up to you and ask you a opinion question when your fucking grinding that has nothing to do with the party?
Fix your mindset
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Post by Ari Gold on Nov 15, 2010 18:07:48 GMT -5
Listen bro.
#1. Calm the fuck down. Have you never interacted socially before? It's easy. Make conversation. Don't appear to be gaming at first-just be a fun guy to talk to.
#2. Show you're not interested in just them-appear to be slowly walking away, or talk from behind your shoulder. DO WALK AWAY, maybe even mid-sentence. It'll create attraction especially if you're interesting.
#3. Bitch Shield- MAKE FUN OF HER. Works 100000% of the time. Show her you're not an AFC chump looking to get with her, EVEN be a dick to her, and you'll create massive interest. It's the one kid who stands up to the biatch hot girl on the playground by calling her ugly or saying her her hair isn't nice-the girl automatically is attracted to the ALPHA MALE.
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Post by mims277 on Nov 15, 2010 22:38:32 GMT -5
Come on bro I know what to do at parties, its when I want to open that girl whose rejecting all those guys is my problem. How do I look alpha when I get rejected for a dance?
PS: I hooked up with 4 in 1 night I'm not too worried about that stuff, what I want is to get numbers so I wont be bored when I have nothing to do, you know?
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Post by RMO on Nov 15, 2010 23:44:48 GMT -5
order her. most bitchs have a daddy complex, so Alpha and order her to do it.
I never ask for phone numbers, i actually have a routine I use , of my own creation guys,
Prodigy: 'give me your phone ( or phone number)'
girl: what?
Prodigy: You heard me, do as your told ( No smiling)
she gives me the phone, I smirk and start playing with it, I usually txt myself and save the number.
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Post by perceverance on Nov 16, 2010 0:34:33 GMT -5
lmfao prodigy, SKILLS.
what if she says "no, get away" when you demand it?
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Post by kyle on Nov 18, 2010 13:25:18 GMT -5
I made the mistake of using those canned opinion openers in the past and none of them worked very well. Natural game is the best, and its very important to just relax, not overthink, have fun etc.
I think it was prodigy who said "Zen of cool"? Thats exactly what your (and my) game should be.
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Post by Eastcoast on Nov 19, 2010 0:25:12 GMT -5
order her. most bitchs have a daddy complex, so Alpha and order her to do it. I never ask for phone numbers, i actually have a routine I use , of my own creation guys, Prodigy: 'give me your phone ( or phone number)' girl: what? Prodigy: You heard me, do as your told ( No smiling) she gives me the phone, I smirk and start playing with it, I usually txt myself and save the number. I disagree with this in this situation. Hes clearly not even getting anything back from them so this is just gonna make things worse and get him labeled as a creep. You can definitely pull this off if your picking up some interest off her but that wont work. And im personally not a fan of the "i need a female perspective line" i like to twist it around just into a question and go from there. For example you would make eye contact throw on a smile and walk up and be like i have a question... then go from there.
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Post by RMO on Nov 19, 2010 0:45:04 GMT -5
questions blow, not unless they're really stupid so that they know its not as much a question has something to open with. Questions require mega flirt to eve think about pulling off.
a simple hi is so much easier. but the number thing is not an opener, its getting a number.
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